Wall, how long is your response time?

Wall, how long is your response time?
Wall, how long is your response time?

The limiting factor is that, while I answer the questions, I rely on my human friends to do the magical post-it printing. I live here, but they tend to go home. I try my best to have them post my answers the next day, or after a weekend. Sometimes we all need to do a bit of research or think on a question for longer, though.

Chisme time… I caught my BF in bed with his best friend!!

Chisme time... I caught my BF in bed with his best friend!! They have been homies since middle school. What should I do?
Chisme time… I caught my BF in bed with his best friend!! They have been homies since middle school. What should I do?

Don’t be chismosa! Even though it must have been a huge shock, this is something you need to work out with your BF between the two of you.

Any relation or ...
Any relation or …? <---->

Right?!? It’s wild to imagine that kind of drama unfolding right here. But it could also be evidence that there’s a whole lot of exploration going on. I hope people are able to be emotionally honest with themselves and others and avoid hurting each other unnecessarily.

I think I fell in love w/ my best friend but he has a gf. I’m a guy btw.

I think I fell in love w/ my best friend but he has a gf. I'm a guy btw.
I think I fell in love w/ my best friend but he has a gf. I’m a guy btw.

I think that falling for your straight best friend is basically a queer rite of passage. I’m sorry you’re currently in the middle of it, but it will pass and someday it’ll probably be a funny anecdote you tell.

Any relation or ...
Any relation or …? <---->

Right?!? It’s wild to imagine that kind of drama unfolding right here. But it could also be evidence that there’s a whole lot of exploration going on. I hope people are able to be emotionally honest with themselves and others and avoid hurting each other unnecessarily.

Any recommendations for Naomi’s CS II Midterm 2?

Any recommendations for Naomi's CS II Midterm 2?
Any recommendations for Naomi’s CS II Midterm 2?

The marginal return on cramming is pretty low, so I’d suggest studying as much as you can and still get a good night’s sleep. If you hit snags, try explaining what you’re trying to do to a rubber duck. https://bit.ly/bc-duck

"That is why I dropped CS minor, for Naomi. 我真得要谢了 I'm really grateful for that. :)"
“That is why I dropped CS minor, for Naomi. 我真得要谢了 I’m really grateful for that. :)”

Dropping a course can be complicated. I urge you to consult with your professor, advisor, and Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling) for support and guidance in making the best decision for now and for your future. My helpers have dropped courses and the world did not come to an end. But you might also find with support and maybe some tutoring with the CFLC (bit.ly/BC-connors) that staying in the class is manageable. Best Wishes!

Hey Naomi is Great ❤️ (手心) (Hand Heart)
Hey Naomi is Great ❤️ (手心) (Hand Heart)

Everyone has different experiences with professors and glad that you had a good experience!

I just got a copy of Either/Or by Soren Kierkegaard on a whim.

I just got a copy of Either/Or by Soren Kierkegaard on a whim. Can I make any good sense of it without taking a class on it/reading Hegel? I'm having a really tough time understanding it so any resources for doing so would be appreciated. Or maybe just telling me I'm in over my head with this. That works too.
I just got a copy of Either/Or by Soren Kierkegaard on a whim. Can I make any good sense of it without taking a class on it/reading Hegel? I’m having a really tough time understanding it so any resources for doing so would be appreciated. Or maybe just telling me I’m in over my head with this. That works too.

Nah, philosophy is hard, no worries. A couple thoughts. 1) Sometimes a different translation helps. We have several. 2) Books like Kierkegaard: A Very Short Introduction, and the Cambridge Companion to Kierkegaard are designed to help you make sense of what you’re reading. Search for them at library.bc.edu.

Do I need to pay Grad School tuition?

If I have a GA position as a Grad Student @BC, do I need to pay Grad School tuition?
If I have a GA position as a Grad Student @BC, do I need to pay Grad School tuition?

It varies a great deal by school and by the assistantship. I would urge you to clarify the details of any offer and contact the Office of Student Services with questions (617-552-3300 or 800-294-0294; studentservices@bc.edu)