I have a crush on my professor

I have a crush on my professor What do I do?
I have a crush on my professor What do I do?

This one is best left to the realm of daydream and fantasy; turning this into a reality – even if possible – could have disasterous effects under the University’s revised Consensual Relationship Policy: bit.ly/RelationshipPol

Prof. [redacted] is hot
Prof. [redacted] is hot

Even so, still not ok. Learning to have self control and not act on all your desires is part of adulting.

Fell in love w/ my Kairos lead?

Fell in love w/ my Kairos lead?
Fell in love w/ my Kairos lead?

My understanding is that Kairos retreat  leaders are fellow students, so it doesn’t seem like there’s an issue – why not ask him/her out and see where it goes?  You already know you have interests in common.

Will _____ _____ ever love me back?

Will _____ _____ ever love me back?
Will _____ _____ ever love me back?

My cousin, The Magic 8 Ball, says “Cannot predict now.” It’s painful to love someone and not have them reciprocate. But please don’t let your unrequited love keep you from doing what you want to do in life, or keep you from considering relationships with other people.

I don’t know if I should go to my rugby formal this weekend because my crush is going & I’m nervous around him. :-0

I don't know if I should go to my rugby formal this weekend because my crush is going & I'm nervous around him. :-0
I don’t know if I should go to my rugby formal this weekend because my crush is going & I’m nervous around him. :-0

It makes me sad to think of you missing out on the fun. Crushes are hard, but it’s best to keep living your life until they subside – and they do! Maybe go to your formal and resolve to engage with lots of other people?

Are RA-Resident relationships allowed at BC?

Are RA-Resident relationships allowed at BC? If not, what should I do if I already have a crush on an RA in my dorm?
Are RA-Resident relationships allowed at BC? If not, what should I do if I already have a crush on an RA in my dorm?

No, RAs are not permitted to have romantic relationships with the residents of their res, according to Jake Cusick, Housing Assignment Specialist at ResLife. So I guess you have to let this one pass. Crushes do fade in time.

How do I make my library crush love me?

How do I make my library crush love me?
How do I make my library crush love me?

Can you legitimately make someone love you? Certainly, you can take the initiative in starting a conversation and inviting your crush to spend some time with you. Then my advice is to be your best authentic self and see where it goes. I can’t think of a better place than a library to find true love.