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What do teachers think of those who sleep in class?

What do teachers think of those who sleep in class?
What do teachers think of those who sleep in class?

I’m sorry you’re getting such insufficient sleep at night that you’re falling asleep in class. I think your concern should be more about missing the most crucial hours of your BC education than about your professor’s attitudes, which could be any mix of annoyance, disregard, or concern. I do recommend apologizing to your professor & explaining the reason. I know one college teacher who had been annoyed about a sleeping student until he found out the student was working a full-time night job to pay tuition. If your reasons are less noble, maybe don’t mention them, but commit to changing habits so you can stay awake.

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Are songs jawns or bops?

Are songs jawns or bops?
Are songs jawns or bops?

I had to consult with my Philly expert on this one. Technically, a song is jawn insofar as anything can be a jawn. But only a good song is a bop. e.g., “That new jawn by [insert band] is a bop!”

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I have lots of debt and I am going to law school. Should I choose the best school … ?

I have lots of debt and I am going to law school. Should I choose the best school or the one that offers me the most money? How much does prestige matter?
I have lots of debt and I am going to law school. Should I choose the best school or the one that offers me the most money? How much does prestige matter?

That depends on your goals. Want to go work for “big law” and make fat stacks? Then prestige is what you need and hope that the debt thing will work out. Are you looking to do public service work or working in any other area of law that will provide a good-but-not-insane paycheck? Then choosing the best school that you consider affordable is the right choice. Note that low-average or poor quality schools might offer you full scholarships: that’s still a bad idea.

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…other BC students who are looking for off-campus housing?…

Know of any sources/chats to get into contact with other BC students who are looking for off-campus housing? I have a group of 4 friends selected for next year but I am studying abroad my spring semester next year. I'm looking for someone to replace me, yet I don't know where to look!
Know of any sources/chats to get into contact with other BC students who are looking for off-campus housing? I have a group of 4 friends selected for next year but I am studying abroad my spring semester next year. I’m looking for someone to replace me, yet I don’t know where to look!

ResLife has a database for that! bit.ly/BCNeedRoomie and click on “search for roommates.”

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I’m so sad.

I'm so sad. My girlfriend have a girlfriend. That's too bad.
I’m so sad. My girlfriend have a girlfriend. That’s too bad.

? Mourn the loss of the relationship, and give yourself a little time before starting another. Meanwhile, I hope you’ve got some friends with whom you can talk about it.

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I don’t have many friends I always don’t know what to chat with friends.

I don't have many friends I always don't know what to chat with friends. and I feel nervous looking for topics, so I am. always alone. I'm afraid others think me boring. Why others always with friends? What should I do (sad face)
I don’t have many friends I always don’t know what to chat with friends. and I feel nervous looking for topics, so I am. always alone. I’m afraid others think me boring. Why others always with friends? What should I do? (sad face)

You are very interesting! You have experiences and your own perspective. Perhaps you can gather a few stories that are interesting or entertaining. Who or what did you encounter in the last few days, and what happened? Or what happened in the news or on a favorite tv show? Or have you read something lately? Had a noteworthy meal (good or bad)? At the end of each day, review your day. If there’s something interesting, remember it for a conversation starter tomorrow, or next week, or next month. It’s just a matter of taking note of your life, and then finding the courage to share it.

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Go Bills! Just saying

Go Bills! Just saying
Go Bills! Just saying

I’m not sure if you’re referring to dollar bills, certain bills that can be found on Capitol Hill, or the football team based in Buffalo, NY that plays their home games in Orchard Park. Regardless, thanks for sharing your enthusiasm!

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How to make my girlfriend happier

How to make my girlfriend happier
How to make my girlfriend happier

It depends on why your girlfriend is unhappy. If you’re worried about her, you could try asking about it, and whether there’s anything you can do to help. But pay attention to the response you get, because your help might not be what’s needed. Also take a moment to think about your motivation: are you asking because your girlfriend being happier would make you more comfortable? If it’s actually about how you feel rather than how she feels, that’s a totally different conversation and you should have them separately.

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How do people do well in Orgo?

How do people do well in Orgo?
How do people do well in Orgo?

Orgo is one of the subjects I hear about frequently. Most students find it challenging. Things that can help are: forming a study group, getting peer tutoring at the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors), and going to your professor’s office hours and asking questions. But there’s no getting around the need to spend a lot of time studying. Best of luck!

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How do I recover from a C on an exam in a class that only has 2 exams total as my final grade?

How do I recover from a C on an exam in a class that only has 2 exams total as my final grade?
How do I recover from a C on an exam in a class that only has 2 exams total as my final grade?

First, check the syllabus. There are many possible scenarios for those who have a rocky start; the exams may not have equal weight, the professor may consider improvement in the second exam, they may give options for extra credit. If that’s not the case, I recommend going the the professor’s office hours and having a frank discussion. And, of course, peer tutoring is available at the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors).

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Rat Sighting: 4th Floor between shelves PL/KF

Rat Sighting: 4th Floor between shelves PL/KF-GROSS! (sad face)
Rat Sighting: 4th Floor between shelves PL/KF-GROSS! (sad face)

It’s the time of year when small outdoor creatures move to warmer winter options, so it’s inevitable there may be a few sightings. Thanks for alerting us. I’m sorry you had this confrontation. The library has traps set and exterminators in the building daily, so it should be a rare occurrence.

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I’m not in a position to make judgments on others’ life decisions…

I'm not in a position to make judgments on others' life decisions, but there are regularly groups of students smoking clustered right outside the entrance to the library, and this affects me negatively. Can this be regulated so they are farther away from the entrance?
I’m not in a position to make judgments on others’ life decisions, but there are regularly groups of students smoking clustered right outside the entrance to the library, and this affects me negatively. Can this be regulated so they are farther away from the entrance?

I’m sorry you have had to experience that. Secondhand smoke is a genuine health issue. Boston College policy: “Smoking is… prohibited outdoors within twenty-five feet of all campus buildings.” Library staff will look into ways to communicate this policy effectively.