My mother has already said that she would not have a problem if I was, but I am not sure for my father. (He tends to be more gentle, but I am not sure how he will handle this) + My father is tamporarly in a another country and I am with my mother and my twin brother alone for now. (I am sure my brother is gay too). Should I wait until my father comes for a visit? I am thinking for writing a letter, but… I need ideas. And I don’t feel confortable telling my brother.
There are so many ways to come out to family and friends- the best way is whatever feels right to you. Regardless of how you tell people, they don’t all need to know at the same time. As you come out to people, make sure you let them know that you need to be the one to let other people know. Many websites have coming out stories, advice and examples, but they represent wide ranges of political and religious viewpoints, so find the ones that feel right to you and ignore the others. I do recommend looking at the pflag.org site- they provide information for LGBTQ+ folks as well as for parents and allies.