Most successfully with a therapist you trust. We love our friends at BC Counseling Services (https://bit.ly/BCUCSOptions). I highly recommend checking them out, especially if the painful past is something that affects your sleep, concentration, and general wellbeing.
Yes, from time to time we host events in the Reading Room, which can vary from undergraduate poster sessions to luncheons for new faculty to exam study breaks with snacks, chair massages, and games. Watch our social media channels (esp. instagram.com/oneilllibrary/) for event announcements, book displays, hours, services, and other libraryish things.
First day of school and we’re already thinking about purpose or Ikigai. I love to see it! Find something you are good at and passionate about, then apply it to what the world needs.
Sigh… it’s a tough problem: inflation and a tight job market all at once. For BC students, the Office of Student Outreach and Support is a good first place to visit: bit.ly/bc-stu-support. For a longer term solution you could advocate for, take a look at this senior thesis about food insecurity at BC, which has some good ideas (starting p. 90) about some solutions: bit.ly/bc-food-insecurity.
Being a Euclidean entity, I’ve never been all that handy with calculus, especially integrals with cubed secants. But this YouTube video might help: bit.ly/YT-integral-sec3xdx
My friend the Magic 8-Ball says “without a doubt”. Fair warning: their predictions aren’t always so great. But I’m happy to cheer along. POR-TU-GAL! POR-TU-GAL!
Will the Yankees beat the Red Sox in the Wild Card race? Asking for a friend, of course. [Yankees logo]
I’m inclined to root for the Red Sox because of where I live, but to be fair, with 35 games left in the season, anything can happen. The Yankees and Red Sox begin a four-game series today, August 21st, which might impact how the race will end.
Jalen Brunson had a great play off season! But “best” is subjective. I was impressed by how Nikola Jokić has stepped up into player-coaching at the Denver Nuggets. And, of course, as a Boston Board I have a bias for our Celtics… but it sounds like you’re a Knicks Fan.
Nah, it’s Curry or Wetbannanas
Chef & Wetbananas ought to make a food channel show together! No, but seriously, they’re both contenders.
DUH! He’s our Savior
I’m not aware of this one but search and rescue stories can be fun.
So, in general if you’re trying to change a habit it helps to think about what problem it solves for you. If you’re eating chocolate because you’re stressed or anxious, try replacing the chocolate with something else you enjoy that makes you feel less anxious. If that’s hard to do, you might consider talking to a counselor (BC Health Services or Campus Ministry). But be endlessly gentle with yourself about it. Habits are hard to break.
stop eating
For the record, I don’t recommend any humans stop eating.
Recommend me a good nonfiction book about an incredibly niche topic that has no right being as interesting as it is 🙂
Have we got an exhibit for you! Our staff picks this month are exactly that: really niche topics we’ve enjoyed books about. It’s on level 1 to the side of the room with all the chalkboards.
I love book recommendations, thank you! We don’t have this one in our collection at the moment, but you can request a copy through InterLibrary Loan: https://bit.ly/ILLatBC
If someone were to get rid of all the bad people, would that make them bad also?
It’s tempting to think that way, but I think the golden rule applies here; maybe someone somewhere thinks you’re bad, but you’re awesome, so nobody should get rid of you! Also, consider: who gets to identify who’s bad? What makes their judgment better than anyone else’s? How many bad people are called bad because of something they did, but could, given a chance, make amends and atone for it?