Tic Tac Toe

[tic tac toe game with an "o" in the middle slot of the middle row, a "x" in the top middle row, and a "x" in the bottom left row.]
[tic tac toe game with an “o” in the middle slot of the middle row, a “x” in the top middle row, and a “x” in the bottom left row.]
[tic tac toe game with three "o" in the middle row and a line running through, a "x" in the top middle row, and a "x" in the bottom left row.]
[tic tac toe game with three “o” in the middle row and a line running through, a “x” in the top middle row, and a “x” in the bottom left row.]

We have a winner!

要去生活啊!/Go and enjoy life.

我想,人总不能一直数着考试的倒计时过日子. I think that we should always have been living a normal life instead of counting the exam countdown. 要去生活啊! Go and enjoy life.
我想,人总不能一直数着考试的倒计时过日子. I think that we should always have been living a normal life instead of counting the exam countdown. 要去生活啊! Go and enjoy life.

Wonderful advice! The tricky part is putting it into practice. But it is worth living your life fully, even when an exam is looming…

我想,人总不能一直数着考试的倒计时过日子.
I think that we should always have been living a normal life instead of counting the exam countdown.
要去生活啊!
Go and enjoy life.

我想,人总不能一直数着考试的倒计时过日子. I think that we should always have been living a normal life instead of counting the exam countdown. 要去生活啊! Go and enjoy life.
我想,人总不能一直数着考试的倒计时过日子. I think that we should always have been living a normal life instead of counting the exam countdown. 要去生活啊! Go and enjoy life.

大家考试加油! dà jiā kǎo shì jiā yóu! (Guys, Good luck for exams!)

大家考试加油! dà jiā kǎo shì jiā yóu! (Guys, Good luck for exams!) (我们)快要回家啦 (wǒ men) kuài yào huí jiā la! (We will go home soon!)
大家考试加油! dà jiā kǎo shì jiā yóu! (Guys, Good luck for exams!) (我们)快要回家啦 (wǒ men) kuài yào huí jiā la! (We will go home soon!)

Best of luck to you, too! I have faith in you!

Favorite 88 rising artist?

Favorite 88 rising artist?
Favorite 88 rising artist?

That’s hard to say because there are so many 88 Rising music artists to choose from! With that being said, from watching the May 2020 Asia Rising Forever (bit.ly/3JnZmIu) virtual concert it seems like are numerous very tallented musical artists associated with it.

LISTEN TO THUY!

LISTEN TO THUY!
LISTEN TO THUY!

I listened to you and listened to Thuy. Very enjoyable! But I now have an earworm – I can’t stop singing “Walls like me don’t cry…”

Why were impeccable artists drunks/drug addicts?

Why do you think that a vast majority of impeccable artists were drunks/drug addicts?
Why do you think that a vast majority of impeccable artists were drunks/drug addicts?

This article in NYT (bit.ly/nyt-artist-addicts) provides one explanation: the relation between genius art and addiction in the past can be attributed to a belief that addiction/mental illness and artistic genius went hand in hand. As society has moved away from this belief, the stereotype has become less common and great artists have become less likely to embrace this lifestyle.

Where’s the growing space for students?

Where's the growing space for students not majoring those "useful" subjects?
Where’s the growing space for students not majoring those “useful” subjects?

People have been reporting on the so-called death of the humanities for decades, and I gotta say, it’s overblown. An undergraduate degree is a general credential, proof that you’ve learned how to learn something complicated. You’ll have plenty of time to be practical later, study what you’re interested in now.

Hi Wall :3 How can I romanticize life in Boston a bit more? The days get a bit long sometimes and I want to find love for this place again.

Hi Wall :3 How can I romanticize life in Boston a bit more? The days get a bit long sometimes and I want to find love for this place again.
Hi Wall :3 How can I romanticize life in Boston a bit more? The days get a bit long sometimes and I want to find love for this place again.

Maybe try looking at it from a different angle. I’m a big fan of the harbor cruise and whale watching. Spin yourself around in the North End and have lunch at the first Italian place you see. Hang out at the Gardner Museum. Go to Back Bay on a Friday or Saturday night and watch all the Emerson and Berklee students schlepping instruments to their gigs.

How do I concentrate?

How do I concentrate?
How do I concentrate?

It is difficult, with all the distractions available! I recommend getting some academic coaching from the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors) to develop study habits which will enhance your ability to concentrate.

Is alcohol bad?

Is alcohol bad?
Is alcohol bad?

In large quantities it can be dangerous, causing overdose, aka blackout or alcohol poisoning. Sudden withdrawal (aka “cold turkey”) from alcohol used habitually can also be quite dangerous, causing delirium and cardiac collapse. There is evidence that habitual use contributes to heart disease and other long-term health problems. As with any drug, addiction is a risk. But if you can leave it at a occasional drink, it’s virtually harmless.

Someone takes up too much space in my mind

What do I do when someone takes up too much space in my mind (and I take up none in theirs).
What do I do when someone takes up too much space in my mind (and I take up none in theirs).

This is a real tough one. If this is truly debilitating, I recommend chatting with someone in Counseling Services – bit.ly/BC-counseling. If it’s not at that level yet, fill your mind with other life experiences and build your community so there is just a bunch of other stuff for your mind to focus on. What events are happening on or off campus that you can go to? What new friendships can you cultivate? I wish you so much luck finding rich experiences and deep friendships!