How to accept your (own) flaw? One you have no control over.

How to accept your own flaw? One you have no control over.
How to accept your own flaw? One you have no control over.

One possibility is to think of it as a challenge, and all challenges are character-building. What you do to adapt to the flaw becomes part of your character – perhaps even one of the best parts of your character – that you wouldn’t have without the flaw. In essence, turn the “flaw” into a source of growth, something that anyone without that flaw doesn’t get to experience. Another possibility: recognize that everyone has limitations of one kind or another, many of them invisible. IOW, you aren’t alone in the challenge of accepting yourself as you are.

Best bathroom on campus?

Best bathroom on campus?
Best bathroom on campus?
McMullen Locker Room
McMullen Locker Room

A recent post had the math dept. restroom (with shower!) on a bucket list, so it must be pretty special. It also has the virtue of being nearby… which could be the most important criterium when it’s, uh, urgent.

How to become a tutor in the Connor’s Learning Center?

How to become a tutor in the Connor's Learning Center? Is it a lot of work? Is it paid?
How to become a tutor in the Connor’s Learning Center? Is it a lot of work? Is it paid?

It is paid. You can tutor for one or more courses. To become a tutor for a course, you need to have gotten at least a B+, and have a recommendation from your professor. The CFLC suggests you talk to the professor about the recommendation first, and then drop in to the center to fill out a form. It’s serious work and you will need to get some training, but it seems like a very worthwhile and rewarding job.

…what would you suggest to someone who is in huge depression…

Hi, what would you suggest to someone who is in huge depression, has no money and friends and hates cold? PS: Please don't say check out the events and clubs since I've already tried those.
Hi, what would you suggest to someone who is in huge depression, has no money and friends and hates cold? PS: Please don’t say check out the events and clubs since I’ve already tried those.
Hang out in a random common room & maybe you'll talk to someone/someone will talk to you
Hang out in a random common room & maybe you’ll talk to someone/someone will talk to you

Being physically miserable often goes along with depression, so you might try focusing on getting cozy. Hide under a heap of blankets until you warm up, or crank up the heat in your room until it’s comfortable to walk around in clothes you like. One of my helpers did the turn-up-the-heat trick and had a beach party in February. And yes, talking to other people can absolutely help too, so you might try that as well–another part of depression is often isolation. And of course, if the depression continues it’s a good idea to consider talking to someone at Counseling Services. http://bit.ly/BCCounselingSvcs

Where do the O’Neill mice live in O’Neill?

Where do the O'Neill mice live in O'Neill? Are you friends?
Where do the O’Neill mice live in O’Neill? Are you friends?

I am friends with them – they’re sweet and very smart – but unfortunately, they are a problem in the library. At times, they can be found in many areas. Our policy of allowing food in the library (which I strongly support, since it makes you humans so much happier and more productive) is also very attractive to my mousie pals.

Bucket List!

Bucket List! (filled checkbox) Take a shower @ math department bathroom #Maloney5th
Bucket List! (filled checkbox) Take a shower @ math department bathroom #Maloney5th

Little known shower. Kudos for finding & using! May the rest of the items on your bucket list be equally achievable.

my professor just asked me out…

hi answer wall, my professor just asked me out (like when the semester ends) - is it okay if I say yes?? I won't have him as a professor again at BC.
hi answer wall, my professor just asked me out (like when the semester ends) – is it okay if I say yes?? I won’t have him as a professor again at BC.

It is not okay for the faculty member to ask you out. BC policy states: “The University prohibits any faculty member or other employee from engaging in a romantic or sexual relationship or in any romantic or sexual conduct with any student currently enrolled as an undergraduate at Boston College.” If you’re a grad student, you can have a relationship with a faculty member in another department or school, but as you are taking a class with this person, that exception probably doesn’t apply either.

OOF.
OOF.
YIKES
YIKES

Yupppp

Whats the meaning of life?

Whats the meaning of life?
Whats the meaning of life?

Figuring out what x equals.

Why only one variable? What's the function? Does x have one value or more or none? Is the domain real or complex?
Why only one variable? What’s the function? Does x have one value or more or none? Is the domain real or complex?

These are all great questions that you’ll spend your life trying to figure out!

How do you get over a toxic break up, and move on? (After being with each other for 2+ years)

How do you get over a toxic break up, and move on? (After being with each other for 2+ years)
How do you get over a toxic break up, and move on? (After being with each other for 2+ years)

Be gentle with yourself. Maybe don’t jump right into the next relationship before you’ve had time to process this one (or maybe that’s exactly what you need). Everybody handles grief differently–and even if the relationship sucked, part of what you’re doing is grieving for something you spent a good bit of your life on.