Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn’t the dinning hall honor student’s diverse background and food preference? :)

Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn't the dinning hall honor student's diverse background and food preference? :)
Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn’t the dinning hall honor student’s diverse background and food preference? 🙂

Let Dining Services know what you’d like to see by leaving them a comment: bit.ly/BCDiningComment. Please keep in mind that cost and how easy it is to cook for LOTS of people are just a couple of the things they’re juggling in planning menus.

Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won’t be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can’t go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I’m not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I’ll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?

Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won't be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can't go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I'm not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I'll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?
Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won’t be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can’t go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I’m not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I’ll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?

The Career Center will reserve rooms for students as long as there is space available. Email career.center@bc.edu or call (617) 552-4769. And best of luck!!!

What’s the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties?

What's the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties? I always regret not giving a blunt no but in the moment am scared of angering them & putting myself in danger.
What’s the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties? I always regret not giving a blunt no but in the moment am scared of angering them & putting myself in danger.

It’s terrible that your fear in such situations is warranted. I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. I don’t know if it’s foolproof, but attending parties with friends who have your back, and with whom you’ve made plans beforehand to avoid dangerous situations, could reduce the risks. Arrive & depart with the group. When it’s clear you’re with a supportive group, danger is less likely.

How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy? :(

How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy?
How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy? 🙁

If I ate, I think I’d be drawn to the fries and those chocolate chip cookies the size of your head in the dining halls, but there are healthier choices available, like the soups and salad bar at Lower. You might want to make an appointment with the Office of Health Promotion (bit.ly/BC-health-promo); they can set you up with an Individual Health Plan (iHP) to eat healthier.

What is the real love?

What is the real love?
What is the real love?

You ask a question with many, many answers. C.S. Lewis wrote a book called The Four Loves (O’Neill Library BV4639 .L45 1988), drawing on the Greek notions of love in the Bible: Storge (empathy) Philia (friend) Eros (erotic) and Agape (unconditional “God” love). Here’s Shakespeare’s take on it in sonnet 116: bit.ly/shake-love. (Maybe that’s Eros.) One might also note familial love, unrequited love, the love of knowledge (philosophy)… it’s a long list. Which is “real”? I think all of them are. What do they share? The object of love is the focus of total trust & devotion.

Are there any anthropologists teaching at BC?

Are there any anthropologists teaching at BC?
Are there any anthropologists teaching at BC?

Yes, there are! Faculty members in the Lynch School of Education, Patrick McQuillan, Ph.D., and Gabrielle Oliveira, Ph.D., have backgrounds in anthropology. And Theology Department faculty member Mary Ann Hinsdale, Ph.D., teaches Theological Anthropology (THEO 796801).

Will you pray for my just deceased parents?

Will you pray for my just deceased parents? Joseph Kenneally (BC, 55) rita Kenneally (1960s, worked with Betty Strain, Jim McIntyre, etc...)
Will you pray for my just deceased parents? Joseph Kenneally (BC, 55) Rita Kenneally (1960s, worked with Betty Strain, Jim McIntyre, etc…)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I will keep them and you in my thoughts, and it’s my fervent hope that anyone else who reads your request will as well.

I don’t want to be an adult or get a job. But I’m a senior! Uh-oh! What’s a good alternative? Thanks!

I don't want to be an adult or get a job. But I'm a senior! Uh-oh! What's a good alternative? Thanks!
I don’t want to be an adult or get a job. But I’m a senior! Uh-oh! What’s a good alternative? Thanks!

Adulting involves some seriously hard stuff. But shying away from the adult role doesn’t lead to as fulfilling a life as tackling it and learning that you are strong enough to succeed (with failure/learning along the way.) It’s normal to be apprehensive, but I have faith that you can meet the challenge. Help from YouTube: bit.ly/AdultingHelp

Why is that the university counseling service so few staff? Everyone knows students need more mental health services + the “Whole-person” education mission should care for students’ well-being, then why don’t BC expands the service?

Why is that the university counseling service so few staff? Everyone knows students need more mental health services + the "Whole-person" education mission should care for students' well-being, then why don't BC expands the service?
Why is that the university counseling service so few staff? Everyone knows students need more mental health services + the “Whole-person” education mission should care for students’ well-being, then why don’t BC expands the service?

It sounds like you’re frustrated with a long wait, and have heard from other students who are as well. It’s good of you to commiserate with them; everyone needs an understanding ear. My assistants have communicated your frustrations to Student Affairs; when they respond, I’ll post it here. I hope you get the help you seek in spite of a long wait.

Student Affairs responds:

While UCS is staffed at levels at least equal to most of our peer institutions, and is always available to students in crisis that day, there is still the reality that students seeking ongoing longer term therapy may have to wait up to a couple of weeks for an appointment. We are piloting a new initiative offering same day consultation appointments for students seeking to address an identified problem in a rapid access fashion. We hope that this will help more accurately and quickly meet student mental health needs. We are always interested in feedback of all sorts, and strive to improve our service to the BC community.

Please do something about the people who go up to the fifth floor & talk on their phones… So annoying!! :(

Please do something abou tht epeople who go up to the fifth floor & talk on their phones... So annoying!!
Please do something about the people who go up to the fifth floor & talk on their phones… So annoying!! 🙁

I understand your frustration! We are working on developing more effective ways of conveying and enforcing building policies. Very soon you will see new signage that will hopefully encourage users to comply with policies intended to maintain a comfortable and respectful library environment.

How do y’all type on the stickies?

How do y'all type on the stickies?
How do y’all type on the stickies?

It’s magic! Well, maybe it just seems that way. It’s all done with templates (bit.ly/print-postit). First, my helpers print out copies that show the frames where the post-its go on the page. Then, every day they answer questions, they use a Word document of the template, cut and paste the answers into the post-it frames, and send the document to a printer. Remember those printed out copies? Now my helpers put actual post-its on them and put them in the manual feed tray. Print and voilà. It is magic!