I’m not afraid that you don’t love me one day. I’m afraid that I find I don’t love you one day.

I'm not afraid that you don't love me one day. I'm afraid that I find I don't love you one day.
I’m not afraid that you don’t love me one day. I’m afraid that I find I don’t love you one day.

It can be scary to think that something that seems so overpowering and permanent could change. Instead of thinking of love as an emotional state over which you have no control, think of it as a verb. When you do the things that sustain love, it will thrive & remain. If you are passive and take it for granted, it will likely fade.

Why is O’Neill so ugly from the exterior?

Why is O'Neill so ugly from the exterior? Why would they build a brutalist library when all of the surrounding buildings are collegiate gothic?
Why is O’Neill so ugly from the exterior? Why would they build a brutalist library when all of the surrounding buildings are collegiate gothic?

Brutalism had a surge in popularity mid-century, and Bapst had run out of space just around the tail end of that era. Brutalist buildings on otherwise collegiate gothic buildings are fairly common. If you want to see a brutaist campus in its full glory, take a visit to UMass Dartmouth; it is truly jaw dropping. To learn more about brutalism, check out the Bapst NA682.B7 range.

Why is this my life?

Why is this my life?
Why is this my life?

Because you are uniquely you. Though you may have troubles now, you will get through them! I have total faith in you.

Best Blink-182 song?

Best Blink-182 song?
Best Blink-182 song?

I know they are their most well-known songs, but I just can’t stop bopping along to What’s My Age Again and All The Small Things. Truly, they are classics from the ’90s.

Why don’t the vending machines work?

Why don't the vending machines work?
Why don’t the vending machines work?

It is aggravating when you can’t get the snacks. If you contact the email or phone on the machine, they are pretty prompt about doing refunds.

Should I date a guy that is 8 years older than me?

Should I date a guy that is 8 years older than me?
Should I date a guy that is 8 years older than me?

That depends entirely on how he treats you. If he acts at all like there’s a power imbalance or infantilizes you because of the age difference, absolutely not. If he treats you as an equal partner, then maybe. Eight years is still a big age gap if you’re in school and your partner isn’t because of that potential imbalance that’s less likely to be as prominent if you were both more established in your adult lives. Just procede with caution.

Is manifestation real?

Is manifestation real?
Is manifestation real?

Can you magically will something into existence? Probably not. Can it be incredibly helpful to have a very clear goal pictured in your mind when you’re making decisions? Definitely.

How do I find meaning in my life?

How do I find meaning in my life?
How do I find meaning in my life?

This is a question that has bedeviled people ever since humans invented the word “why.” I like to think that instead of finding meaning, we make it: frequently express your gratitude to people who matter, and be kind generous to others.

I HA TE MY WIFE?

I HA TE MY WIFE?
I HA TE MY WIFE?
I LO VE YOU TWO HUNNY?
I LO VE YOU TWO HUNNY?

I haven’t broken the code (Spanish? Maori? Hungarian?) but I love that the two of you have one.

Will my parents still love me if I get a C in a class.

Will my parents still love me if I get a C in a class.
Will my parents still love me if I get a C in a class.

They should. What kind of love is conditional on your grades? Not saying they won’t be disappointed or give you a lecture, but it should not change their underlying love for you at all. Most of my helpers tell me they have done worse than they would like in a course and felt it was the end of the world at the time… and it was not.

Will I ever be loved? :(

Will I ever be loved? :(
Will I ever be loved? 🙁

Yes. “Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only with what you are expecting to give – which is everything”-Katherine Hepburn.

Yes of course. And I believe you're being loved rn ❤️
Yes of course. And I believe you’re being loved rn ❤️

I love our community – I love it especially when our community lifts up and supports each other. As a Wall, I’m all about lifting up and strong support features <3