I ask myself – are they hurting anyone and/or taking an unfair advantage by breaking the rule? Or are they maybe just trying to lighten things up with a gentle prank – as in the case of your Post-It originally being attached to the wall next to me (she’s a very close friend, but answering questions is not in her job description!) In that case, no harm done, and I’m cool with it.
Are RA-Resident relationships allowed at BC?
No, RAs are not permitted to have romantic relationships with the residents of their res, according to Jake Cusick, Housing Assignment Specialist at ResLife. So I guess you have to let this one pass. Crushes do fade in time.