How do I get over a guy?

How do I get over a guy?
How do I get over a guy?

I’m sorry about your heartbreak. The good news is that hearts, especially young ones, can mend pretty quickly. To speed that process along, find your friends, find your family, and remind your heart of all the other kinds of love it experiences.

Why don’t I love myself anymore?

Why don't I love myself anymore?
Why don’t I love myself anymore?

I’m sorry you’re experiencing that. Try to treat yourself with the respect you grant your friends. If you say things to yourself that you wouldn’t say to a friend, that can really damage your trust in yourself. If this feeling is persistent or getting in the way of being your best self, consider counseling: bit.ly/BC-counseling

How can Americans live with the fact that they’re on STOLEN land,

How can Americans live with the fact that they're on STOLEN land, and the descendents of those they stole it from are still being mistreated & marginalized?
How can Americans live with the fact that they’re on STOLEN land, and the descendents of those they stole it from are still being mistreated & marginalized?

There are movements for reparations for indigenous groups all over the world, but as you clearly know, progress is slow. If you’d like to know more about what’s being done, here’s some reading about reparations: bit.ly/bcl-reparations. You might also look into participating in groups like landback.org or more locally, nefoclandtrust.org.

Why word me make no worky-work?

Why word me make no worky-work? *update: some words did worky but many more need more worky too
Why word me make no worky-work? *update: some words did worky but many more need more worky too

Sounds like you’re in the thick of it all right now! Hang in there. Keep on writing, keep on studying, and you’ll get a break soon!

I’m not afraid that you don’t love me one day. I’m afraid that I find I don’t love you one day.

I'm not afraid that you don't love me one day. I'm afraid that I find I don't love you one day.
I’m not afraid that you don’t love me one day. I’m afraid that I find I don’t love you one day.

It can be scary to think that something that seems so overpowering and permanent could change. Instead of thinking of love as an emotional state over which you have no control, think of it as a verb. When you do the things that sustain love, it will thrive & remain. If you are passive and take it for granted, it will likely fade.

Why is O’Neill so ugly from the exterior?

Why is O'Neill so ugly from the exterior? Why would they build a brutalist library when all of the surrounding buildings are collegiate gothic?
Why is O’Neill so ugly from the exterior? Why would they build a brutalist library when all of the surrounding buildings are collegiate gothic?

Brutalism had a surge in popularity mid-century, and Bapst had run out of space just around the tail end of that era. Brutalist buildings on otherwise collegiate gothic buildings are fairly common. If you want to see a brutaist campus in its full glory, take a visit to UMass Dartmouth; it is truly jaw dropping. To learn more about brutalism, check out the Bapst NA682.B7 range.