Why can’t I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???

Why can't I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???
Why can’t I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???

Do you love her or do you love an idealized version of her that fits the hole in your heart? Fill that hole in your heart with the love of friends and family, and come to terms with the fact that your idealized version of her is not reality. You’ve elevated her above being human. But she’s human, and has faults and struggles like all humans.

A fellow ahgase on campus??? Who are you!! ❤️

A fellow ahgase on campus??? Who are you!! ❤️
A fellow ahgase on campus??? Who are you!! ❤️
Oh my god! I am not the only ahgase on campus! please send me email ___.___@bc.edu Ahgases' Carnival! lol ❤️
Oh my god! I am not the only ahgase on campus! please send me email ___.___@bc.edu Ahgases’ Carnival! lol ❤️

I’m sorry about redacting the phone number! No personal info on the Wall, please! I hope all of you Ahgases find a way to connect!

Tips for making new friends as a rising junior

Tips for making new friends as a rising junior
Tips for making new friends as a rising junior

Switch up your student organizations. Talk to classmates before or after class instead of being on your phone. Organize a book club. Organize group trips with other folks in your residence hall: go to a museum, go out for food and espresso in the North End, get safety certified for BC Bikes & pick a local destination… .

Do I have a shot with Rina Lipa?

Do I have a shot with Rina Lipa?
Do I have a shot with Rina Lipa?

I’m going to say this as gently as I can, my dear friend: my guess is no. It’s not every day one bumps into their celebrity/fashion model/aspiring actresses crushes. That said, I’ve been wrong before, and you never really do know where life will lead you 😉

Your move, wall

Your move, wall [tic tac toe board with "o" in lower left corner]
Your move, wall [tic tac toe board with “o” in lower left corner]
tic tac toe board with an O in the lower left corner and an X in the center
[tic tac toe board with x in the top left corner, an o in the top right corner, an x in the center, and an o in the bottom left corner]
[tic tac toe board with x in the top left corner, an o in the top right corner, an x in the center, and an o in the bottom left corner]

It looks like someone else has taken up the mantle. I’m happy to sit back and watch it all unfold now.

How do you type on a post-it note??

How do you type on a post-it note?? #puzzled
How do you type on a post-it note?? #puzzled

It’s my most envied skill! My helpers use a printed template with boxes for the Post-Its to feed into the printer and then they type in the answers on another template with the same layout.

How do I do long distance relationships?

How do I do long distance relationships?
How do I do long distance relationships?

Communicate on a daily schedule. AND communicate extra. You have to work hard to replace all the easy, unconscious contact you get in person. And visit as often as your budget allows. (Flight hack: find out which days/times are crowded & fly them, and volunteer to be bumped for $. You’ll get free flights out of free flights.) I wish you luck & persistence & many free flights!

Why am I so bad at my major?

Why am I so bad at my major?
Why am I so bad at my major?

Possible reasons: 1) you really aren’t and are being too hard on yourself, 2) In your major, you take higher level classes than in other areas, so they will, of course, be more challenging, and/or 3) related to #2, there are certain objectively difficult concepts/hurdles in any discipline that must be understood to advance. You may be on the way to doing this. If you struggle too much, maybe chat with your major advisor?