
Looks like it is the Hoag Basketball Pavillion (see bit.ly/BCHoag)
Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
Looks like it is the Hoag Basketball Pavillion (see bit.ly/BCHoag)
Do you love her or do you love an idealized version of her that fits the hole in your heart? Fill that hole in your heart with the love of friends and family, and come to terms with the fact that your idealized version of her is not reality. You’ve elevated her above being human. But she’s human, and has faults and struggles like all humans.
Switch up your student organizations. Talk to classmates before or after class instead of being on your phone. Organize a book club. Organize group trips with other folks in your residence hall: go to a museum, go out for food and espresso in the North End, get safety certified for BC Bikes & pick a local destination… .
It looks like someone else has taken up the mantle. I’m happy to sit back and watch it all unfold now.
When the humans are OwO, I’m always here with UwU.
The stated reason for the pause is to gather more information from students and alums. Seems to me that it’s always a good thing to gather input before finalizing a plan.
Communicate on a daily schedule. AND communicate extra. You have to work hard to replace all the easy, unconscious contact you get in person. And visit as often as your budget allows. (Flight hack: find out which days/times are crowded & fly them, and volunteer to be bumped for $. You’ll get free flights out of free flights.) I wish you luck & persistence & many free flights!
Possible reasons: 1) you really aren’t and are being too hard on yourself, 2) In your major, you take higher level classes than in other areas, so they will, of course, be more challenging, and/or 3) related to #2, there are certain objectively difficult concepts/hurdles in any discipline that must be understood to advance. You may be on the way to doing this. If you struggle too much, maybe chat with your major advisor?