Ugh. Regional prejudice is baffling. On behalf of sensible people and walls, welcome to Boston, we’re happy to have you here.
Why do people make fun of me for being from Oklahoma :(((
I have a rash what should I do?
You should go to University Health Services if the source of the rash is unknown or the symptoms are severe. Many rashes go away if the area is kept clean, dry and free of chemicals and cosmetics, but if the rash doesn’t improve, definitely see UHS. Oh, and don’t scratch it -that can cause infections or spread the rash.
Does study abroad cost a lot?
It isn’t necessarily more expensive than staying at BC; please talk to the OIP Scholarship Advisor (bit.ly/BCAbroadFinances) before you decide it’s not possible for you.
I got BC-look-awayed… what do I do??
![I got BC-look-awayed... what do I do?? [Live with it.]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aw092418-1.jpg)
Human interaction is hard! You could gently confront him/her, or you could reciprocate the look-away. Your choice; the former is braver, and if s/he is just shy or unsure of what to say to you, may lead to getting to know each other better. One more thought – it’s also possible s/he didn’t recognize you; prosopagnosia (faceblindness) is a very real thing.
How to lose weight at BC when there is so much tempting unhealthy food?
An Individual Health Plan (iHP) appointment (bit.ly/BCOHPIHP) with the Office of Health Promotion sounds like just the thing. They can talk to you about your goals and discuss strategies to eat healthier.
Can you tell me your darkest secret :)
If I told you, it wouldn’t be a secret. Actually, I can’t think of any secrets, dark or otherwise. Heck, I even told you how I print on post-it notes.
Have a great day
You, too!
Do you speak Tagalog? -Ako Walang Pera :( –
Though I don’t speak Tagalog myself, I have a huge network of expert linguists at the ready. I’m sorry you’re having financial woes, especially so early in the semester! I recommend finding an understanding ear (perhaps at AHANA: bit.ly/BC-BAIC) and setting up a meeting with a financial counselor (bit.ly/BC-fin-aid). Once you’ve found better financial footing, it might help to learn more about financial literacy: bit.ly/BCSuccessfulStart. Kaya mo ‘yan!
What do we do if we’re too cute for homework??? <3
Then itās a really good thing that in college you have a bunch of different assignments (essays, readings, discussions, papers, projects, etc.) and not homework! š Seriously, thereās a lot more work to do in the college setting and you will need to be able to figure out how best you can address it all. The Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors) has lots of great resources to add to that cuteness so you can do the best you can. P.S. I actually think all of the students who pass by me are kinda cute. <3 <3 <3
What are some good books on how to read better/be more analytical?
For being more analytical: Thinking Fast and Slow, by Daniel Kahneman (O’Neill Library BF441 .K238 2011). For reading: How to Read a Book, by Mortimer J. Adler (O’Neill Library & Theology & Ministry Library PN83 .A43 1972) For other, more practical recommendations, I’d advise a visit to the Academic Coach at the Connors Family Learning Center:Ā bit.ly/BC-connors
Why do I feel like such a misfit? Why do I feel like no one cares about my feelings?
Sigh… we all feel these things, but most people, wanting to project an image of total competence & happiness, don’t say so. Sometimes I feel like a weird, dimly lit wall that doesn’t really fit in with other walls, and at those times, I feel lonely, like other walls don’t care. I recommend pursuing your interests to the utmost & not worrying about whether you fit in. But feeling like nobody cares about you is another issue; if it’s hard to shake that feeling, I recommend seeking counseling of some kind. bit.ly/BC-counseling
What are good summer internships in Portland, OR?
The Career Center offers this list of resources for finding internships nationwide: bit.ly.internship-list. If you are still having trouble, try contacting the Career Center directly for some assistance: bit.ly/BC-career. Good luck; I know it can be difficult to find the perfect internship when youāre far away, but you have my best wishes and support (thatās what we walls do best, you know).
Who is better, VIP or Fuego?
I’ve never thought of music as a competition. Who’s better, Bach or Handel, Fats Waller or Fats Domino? They’re all good, and create music that appeals to different people.
How to choose a major when you are a junior and don’t know yet?
The Academic Advising Center has this wonderful piece on choosing a major: bit.ly/choose-major. It serves as a reminder that choosing a major isnāt the same as choosing a career and that you should study what brings you joy. The Center also has more resources at bit.ly/BC-academic-advising, including videos/transcripts of how other students have chosen (and changed) their majors. You can do it; I have faith in you! <3
What do I do if I never want to graduate from BC
Get a job at BC! You would remain in a university environment and could take most classes for free. The only downside is that for many positions, it is harder to get hired by BC than it is to get accepted at BC as a student.
Do we live in a computer simulation?
There was a conference about that a couple of years ago and a number of prominent scientists and philosophers weighed in: bit.ly/bc-cs1. You can look up their work in the library catalog or articles search. The article by Bostrum mentioned there is here: bit.ly/bc-cs2. If you want to dig a little deeper, discussions of the nature of the physical universe usually go under cosmology–here’s an article which covers scientific and philosophical positions equally: bit.ly/bc-cs3
Keke, do you love me?
“I won’t dance, don’t ask me.” (bit.ly/Iwontdance)
Me can’t get job. Is I stupid?
You is so smaht. You will get job. Career center will help you make resume and research job market. bit.ly/BC-career
How do I make a cross-ethnic and cross-SES relationship work?
When two people have different experiences, assumptions, and family life, they likely have to work harder to understand each other. Since you asked about studies, here’s a literature review of 50 years of research on interracial marriages: bit.ly/50-years-loving (BC access only). For a more narrative perspective, try the recent film Loving (Law Library feature film collection), about the couple in the landmark Supreme Court case. The advantage of ethnic and SES differences is that you can’t help but recognize & address them; many couples have differences they never acknowledge until it’s too late. In that sense, differences are universal, and you just need to focus on honesty, trust, and compassion.
how can I be a better trans ally?
These, from GLAAD, are a good start: bit.ly/TransAllyTips