If you mean MBTI (Myers-Briggs), I am an ENFJ, but I have helpers who keep me balanced from other types.

Awwwwwww…. (blush)

Well, yellow, green and celeriac (or celery root). But then there’s Cel-Ray, which has a (well-deserved) cult following…

Enjoy yourself, and take your time, unless you don’t want to. Some of the happiest memories of any relationship are from that time.

YES!!! Try Wellness Coaching from the Center for Student Wellness: bit.ly/BC-wellness-coach

There are MANY self-care options that don’t involve drugs, which often come with side-effects that undermine self-care.

I don’t see any prohibitions against skateboards except for electric ones: bit.ly/bc-scooters

You do mean the 25th Annual BC Arts Festival, right? If so, YAY!! bit.ly/bc-arts-fest-2023

Thanks for clarifying! You hear that everyone? Stokes lawn is the place to be the afternoon of April 29!

My cuz, The Magic 8 Ball, says “Reply hazy, try again” – I think you will have to ask him yourself, or bide your time.

Delulu

It’s possible, but no way to know for sure without *yikes* communicating with them.

If your ideal place is both big and small, both university and liberal arts college, and full of people who want to change the world for the better, it might be the place for you!

BC is not everyone’s ideal place, and I hope you find one where you are happy. I will miss you!

We’re just good friends… But seriously I am spending time getting to know them. We all need to know what they can and cannot do. I have caught them out in some huge fibs! They have also helped me out in other cases. We need to make sure we are working with them ethically.

Star Blazers and Science Ninja Team Gatchaman were both pretty great

Well, I’m a wall, so running from a snail is not an option for me. On the plus side, my lifestyle doesn’t require money. So for me the best solution is to leave the cash for someone else.

You are so sweet! ❤️ I myself am having a delightful day with so many visitors and questions to answer.

Hm, it sounds like you’re struggling with the emotional impact of respecting someone else’s boundaries. Will your feelings change? IDK, but it doesn’t matter: keep respecting the boundaries.

As with anyone, with utmost care. But even more with a roommate; if it falls apart, that’s a small space to contain exes.

So much! ???

Me too!

I personally love being right where I am, being near the lobby door and hearing all your questions, but I asked my library helpers and they had many responses on where they’d be if they could be anywhere.

• Exploring the world 🙂
• Helsinki
• Wellington, NZ, or Cardiff, Wales
• Miami, Florida
• A cabin in the woods with a lot of cats
• Summer 2023
• Cabin in the woods in the White Mountains, New Hampshire
• A small seaside town north of Bombay called Agashi
• A used bookstore in Edinburgh
• Viewing the post-deluge wildflower superbloom in California
• This mangrove tunnel: 25.1309165813572, -80.42697781639293
• The moon
• Floating on a catamaran somewhere in the Caribbean with a stack of books, plenty of reef-safe sunscreen, and a spicy marg. 
• With my father, laughing in the sun, 1998
• Watching the sun go down on Galway Bay
• in the sun, on my deck, with my partner
• Springtime in Paris!
• Martinique
• Jeongdong-gil, Jung-gu, Seoul, South Korea
• On the Moon or Mars (but only if I could get back to Earth!)
• Swimming laps outside in 80 degree weather
• La Jolla Beach PLEASE
• Tobacco Bay, Bermuda

So true! Thank you for supporting your fellow students! ❤️

And then suddenly, I bump into youuuuuu!!!!! YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY! Oh how I love this song. Now I am singing it. To myself. ALSO notice how if you JUST play *Kristoff’s* part, his piece has some minor chords… oh the foreshadowing… I love it.

It can be so challenging. Do get all the help you can from the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career). I wish you all the best.

Why not try asking? Sometimes being direct even if it is awkward is worth it rather than wondering.

If encouraging self-respect is your aim, embarrassing them probably isn’t the most effective motivator.