![Why do guys I talk to always ghost me for hours? [frowny face]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2026/10/AW102626-2.jpeg)
Sorry that’s happening! No clue. I’m a wall, so I can only speculate why humans do what they do. Maybe they’re busy? Preoccupied? Cautious? Prudent? Fearful? Many ways to explain a delay.

Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

As far as I can see, there are two simple parts: 1. Develop a product that doesn’t already exist, that people need. 2. Market it to them. Often, #2 substitutes for the “need” part. Oh, and I said “simple,” not “easy.” You might benefit from connecting with BC’s Shea Center for Entrepreneurship (bit.ly/bc-shea) to figure out how to break those two parts into the many steps they contain.

I asked my library friends, and wow, did they come through! Here’s what they suggested:

Hard to choose just one, although my helpers have plenty of recommendations (bit.ly/wall-songs). I definitely have a soft spot for prog rock — particularly Pink Floyd’s The Wall.

There are a variety of possible answers to that pretty basic question in a bunch of faith traditions. Maybe start with the article in the Encyclopedia of Religion, which has a good overview of approaches: https://bit.ly/bc-theodicies. If you’re looking for a more conversational answer, “When Bad Things Happen To Good People” is a classic: https://bit.ly/bc-theodicy
![Is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? [heart]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2026/10/AW101926-2.jpeg)
The poet Alfred, Lord Tennyson thought so, and he grieved the loss of a close friend for 17 years before arriving at that conclusion. We can all save ourselves some time with his hard-earned wisdom: ” ‘Tis better to have loved and lost/ Than never to have loved at all.” from In Memoriam, A.H.H. : bit.ly/bcl-tennyson-memoriam