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Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

My first reaction is that academia IS the real world and that anyone saying it isn’t has likely not paid their rent with tips, or not recently enough that they remember it clearly. But I will say that communicating the implications of scholarly research for policymakers and our communities is hard, and it isn’t work that either higher education or the broader economy values for its own sake.

The most recent report showing individual institution data from Opportunity Insights was 2017. (They’ve issued an updated report, but it’s unclear whether individual insitution from that newer data is available yet.) Here’s an interactive tool in the NYTimes Upshot based on the 2017 data, with Boston College already selected: nyti.ms/3TpS145
![What do I do if I feel like my HS [high school] friends have all made their own friends and I haven't? It feels like I miss them more than I should, and more than they miss me.](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/AW091026.jpeg)
Some people react to loneliness by throwing themselves into a lot of distractions. It sounds like that’s not your style. You seem capable of sitting with discomfort and talking about it. Those are both really good skills for making and maintaining long, trusting friendships.

I hope things are going OK for you. So, you might try the candlelight Mass on the Newton campus at 9:15pm if you’re looking for something formal. (Campus Ministry’s Mass schedule: https://bit.ly/4gZEdVH) You might also try the Labyrinth outside Burns Library, or the reservoir if you’d like some birds for company.

Vault (bit.ly/BC-Vault) lists clinical psychologist median income as $78,200. The Chronicle of Higher Education (bit.ly/bc-chron-facstaff-pay) lists the 2024 median income for social sciences professors at private institutions (like BC) at $67,394. These are, of course, only medians, and there’s a very wide salary range in both fields.

I only eat post-its, so I’ll have to defer to my library assistants on this one. Here are their answers:

The big secret about college is you’re actually here to learn how YOU learn: partly about what’s in your classes, mostly about how to get along on your own and relate to a whole bunch of new people from different backgrounds. College is to set you up for continuing to learn how to learn for your whole life, so you do NOT need to get it all right today. Be patient, be curious. You’ve got this. And lots of people on campus can help when you feel like it’s a lot. Because it is. But you’ve got this.

The purpose of notes on lectures and reading is to organize YOUR thoughts, not to list someone else’s. When they’re done well they end up being a summary in terms you understand of the themes and topics. Sometimes that’s a multi-step process (write down what you heard/read, then fill in the parts you don’t understand, then connect it to the rest of what you’ve learned), and that’s the part I think lots of people miss. It’s also the part an AI summary can’t do for you. Also, my friends downstairs at the Connors Family Learning Center can set you up with a tutor to talk about setting up a system that works for you. bit.ly/BC-connors

It is hard to move away from friends, even for exciting reasons like college. I am always advocating for more snail mail! Send your friend a letter! Stamps available at any post office, including the campus post office in McElroy. Odds are, they’ll write back 🙂

Those kinds of questions usually fall under metaphysics, and you’ll get different answers depending on what kind of expert you ask. I’m feeling philosophical rather than astronomical, so maybe start with this very short introduction to some early Greek philosophers who were super interested in questions like that: bit.ly/greek-universe

It is totally normal to feel some loneliness after a full day of social activities. Fortunately, the semester starts in a few days, so there will be plenty of opportunities in and outside of class to meet and hang out with people. Welcome to BC!

IDK, but here are some solid tips about the whole process: https://bit.ly/nfl-fantasy-tips