I love this wall. Where did the idea come from?

I love this wall. Where did the idea come from?
I love this wall. Where did the idea come from?

I’m so glad you enjoy my responses! In the many years since the library opened, I have enjoyed watching students, staff, and faculty come and go, but I wished that I could find a way to become a part of the community and interact with all of my visitors. After lots of thought, I decided that I could serve as a resource to answer all those questions that people have but don’t know who to ask about. It gives me a chance to learn more about the BC community and a chance to give back. I hope you’ve found my answers fun and useful!

Can the US negotiate with the Taliban?

Can the US negotiate with the Taliban?
Can the US negotiate with the Taliban?

The US has sufficient power to negotiate with just about any state or non-state actor. Negotiating with non-state actors can be challenging, since the usual terms of leverage (trade & security deals, sovereignty, etc.) aren’t present, and leadership can be fluid and unpredictable. Seeing as the US helped the Taliban build power by arming them in the 1980’s to resist the Soviet military invasion, the US ought to be able to achieve some influence now as well. Here are 79 books and government docs on the US and the Taliban: bit.ly/BC-taliban-us. Materials on the subject are bound to be partisan, so caution is advised.

What do I do if I feel like my life is falling apart and I can’t sleep b/c I’m anxious all the time?

What do I do if I feel like my life is falling apart and I can't sleep b/c I'm anxious all the time?
What do I do if I feel like my life is falling apart and I can’t sleep b/c I’m anxious all the time?

Stress and anxiety is a normal part of the college experience, but there is no need to go through this alone! And, it is particularly important to address the issue when it is impacting your sleep. Please talk to the Counseling Center: bit.ly/BC-counseling, office hours 7:45am-8:45pm M-F. Appt’s via phone (617-552-3310) or in office (Gasson 001). They can help you to address both the sleeplessness and the anxiety. Good luck!

What do I do if I get a horrible grade and the rest of my life is ruined? #basicfinance #killedme

What do I do if I get a horrible grade and the rest of my life is ruined? #basicfinance #killedme
What do I do if I get a horrible grade and the rest of my life is ruined? #basicfinance #killedme

Though it may seem like it, one grade will not ruin your life. I promise! It may, however, present a useful opportunity to reconsider some things. First, think about why you’re struggling. I recommend talking to the staff of the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors) if you want to improve your study methods or if you need a little extra help. If the issue isn’t your studying, consider whether it is your interest level. Perhaps this just isn’t your favorite subject. If so, you’re in luck! BC offers many wonderful departments on a range of subjects. You might talk to a trusted advisor or professor about options or meet with the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career) to see what careers paths different subjects offer.

Where the wall meets the ceiling in Carney, the wall with its door that leads to the faculty dining room, are purple flashing lights

Where the wall meets the ceiling in Carney, the wall with its door that leads to the faculty dining room, are purple flashing lights
Where the wall meets the ceiling in Carney, the wall with its door that leads to the faculty dining room, are purple flashing lights

Ah! You mean Carney’s Dining Room, not Carney Hall. I reached out to both the wall and ceiling there, and neither one knows what you’re talking about. Perhaps you could show a photo to a library staff member.

Today’s generations are heavily tattoo. Some will inevitably suffer dementia. Will tattoo help them sustain their memories or baffle them?

Today's generations are heavily tattoo. Some will inevitably suffer dementia. Will tattoo help them sustain their memories or baffle them?
Today’s generations are heavily tattoo. Some will inevitably suffer dementia. Will tattoo help them sustain their memories or baffle them?

Interesting question! The tattoos will certainly help authorities identify someone if they can’t recall who or where they are. For now, neither Psycinfo nor PubMed return relevant results with the search tattoo* AND dementia. But I’m sure it’s only a matter of time.

Can you be a good Catholic without believing in God?

Can you be a good Catholic without believing in God?
Can you be a good Catholic without believing in God?

Hm… it certainly stands to reason that it would be difficult to be a good Catholic per se, as you’d have to opt out of reciting the Nicene Creed. Catholicism certainly has no problem with being a good *person* and not believing in God, and faith and doubt are certainly not strangers (See Paul Tillich, Dynamics of Faith, O’Neill Library BT771 .T54). For issues of faith and doctrine, your best bet is to talk to someone at Campus Ministries: bit.ly/BC-ministry.

Lebron or Harden for the MVP?

Lebron or Harden for the MVP?
Lebron or Harden for the MVP?

Harden leads the league in points, is 3rd in assists, and has led the Rockets to a first place overall playoff berth. Which is not to say LeBron has played poorly – the Cavs had some personnel issues in the middle of the season and LeBron led them through that like the legend that he is (one can also argue that he’s responsible for those issues, but that’s another post-it). Harden has been solid all season long, and his stats are better than LeBron’s across the board. Which is important because consistency is critical for an MVP and Harden has just shown that more than LeBron this season. Also, anyone who can dance like Harden (bit.ly/HardenDance) deserves the MVP.

Why do we use grad[e]s to be a measure of our knowledge & intelligence?

Why do we use grad[e]s to be a measure of our knowledge [unclear word] ?
Why do we use grad[e]s to be a measure of our knowledge & intelligence?

It wasn’t always this way, as you can learn in this fascinating article about the history of grades: bit.ly/history-of-grading (BC community access). Grading in the US evolved from European scholastic competitions, which worked something more like sports playoffs; the winners of final brackets went on to be supported by academic institutions for life. Yale was the first in the US to use a 4-point scale: “2” was satisfactory. Harvard and William & Mary adopted it. They often included non-academic criteria; a “0” at William & Mary meant “those who learned little or nothing… on account of excessive idleness.” K-12 schools followed suit. At first, grades were purely an internal pedagogical tool. Around 1900 as schooling became universal, grading became systematized as way to communicate externally.

What should I do if I’m really really depressed…I want to take a gap year :(

What should I do if I'm really really depressed...I want to take a gap year :(
What should I do if I’m really really depressed…I want to take a gap year 🙁

First I will say that if you’re depressed, I highly recommend talking to someone about those feelings. They are natural, common, and you deserve as much happiness as anyone else in the world. BC counseling (bit.ly/BC-counseling) can help you work through some of what you’re feeling. As for a gap year, that’s not necessarily a bad idea. Taking some time away from school may help you re-focus and provide a broader context for your studies. If you do decide to take a gap year, I recommend trying to make the best of the time by working in a field you’re interested in or gaining other quality life experiences.

Long-distance relationship or not?

Long-distance relationship or not?
Long-distance relationship or not?

There’s no right or wrong answer here. If you decide to go ahead with it, there will be lonely times, for sure, but if you feel strongly about the person, it may be worthwhile. Some questions to ask yourself: How much do I want to be in a relationship with this person? Could we find a way to end up living in the same geographic area, and if so, how soon? How willing are we both to give it a try, and end the relationship if long-distance doesn’t work? Best to you, whatever you decide.

Strangest body part? Why?

Strangest body part? Why?

I would say the wisdom teeth. These are the reasons: a. They are useless b. They can misalign the jaw and impede dental hygene c. They are extremely painful to remove Another possibility is the interstitium, which was undiscovered until recently, and yet may be the largest organ.

Name the best British Rock ‘N Roll band from the ’90s.

Name the best British Rock 'N Roll band from the '90s.
Name the best British Rock ‘N Roll band from the ’90s.

A terribly subjective question. The best The Wall can muster is to provide you with three of our favorites and some tips for further reading: Spiritualized (Album Recommendation: Lazer Guided Melodies) Verve (Album Recommendation: A Northern Soul) The Auteurs (Album recommendation: After Murder Park) Further reading: Britpop! by John Harris (O’Neill Library ML3534.6.G7 H37 2004) & Retromania, by Simon Reynolds (O’Neill Library ML3534 R4915 2011)