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My assistants and I have been unsuccessful in decoding this post. Maybe it’s time to crowdsource: What does this say? Make suggestions on post-its.

Do you have any suggestions on how to ask a professor for recommendation letter?

Do you have any suggestions on how to ask a professor for recommendation letter?
Do you have any suggestions on how to ask a professor for recommendation letter?

Be polite when you ask. Give them plenty of time (at least a couple of weeks if at all possible). Write up a reminder for them of the work you’ve done together. Include the description of what the person or group is looking for in a candidate. Make it as easy as possible for them to do you the favor. (And don’t be totally surprised if they ask you to write a draft of the letter you want, that’s common).

Do I have to pee?

Do I have to pee?
Do I have to pee?

Yes, you really have to. According to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (bit.ly/UNeed2P), acute urinary retention may be life-threatening, and will cause major discomfort. If the question is “Do I have to pee right now?” rather than “do I have to pee… ever?” I’ll leave that up to you!

How do you tell a boy you don’t want a second date? Help Help

How do you tell a boy you don't want a second date? Help Help
How do you tell a boy you don’t want a second date? Help Help
Why are all the boys in love with my roommate? my roommate-->
Why are all the boys in love with my roommate? my roommate–>

Maybe tell the boy about your roommate? No, but seriously. Directly, leaving no ambiguity, but kindly, such as: “I had a good time, but it just didn’t seem right for me. You’ll find the right person.” It will be awkward, and somewhat painful for the recipient, but the best course is honesty & clarity.

Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn’t the dinning hall honor student’s diverse background and food preference? :)

Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn't the dinning hall honor student's diverse background and food preference? :)
Why is there a lack of diversity of food choice at the student dinning hall? Shouldn’t the dinning hall honor student’s diverse background and food preference? 🙂

Let Dining Services know what you’d like to see by leaving them a comment: bit.ly/BCDiningComment. Please keep in mind that cost and how easy it is to cook for LOTS of people are just a couple of the things they’re juggling in planning menus.

Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won’t be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can’t go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I’m not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I’ll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?

Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won't be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can't go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I'm not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I'll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?
Hi Wall, I have an interview this Friday that takes 1.5 h and a lot talking on my end. I need a place where I won’t be disturbed fro 1.5h, but I can’t go back to my dorm since I have class from 9:00 to 9:50 AM and the interview is 10AM. I’m not really sure about finding an empty classroom since I feel like I’ll be disturbed. Would you recommend a way for me to get a quiet, undisturbed place on campus?

The Career Center will reserve rooms for students as long as there is space available. Email career.center@bc.edu or call (617) 552-4769. And best of luck!!!

What’s the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties?

What's the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties? I always regret not giving a blunt no but in the moment am scared of angering them & putting myself in danger.
What’s the best way to handle unwanted/creepy advances from guys @ parties? I always regret not giving a blunt no but in the moment am scared of angering them & putting myself in danger.

It’s terrible that your fear in such situations is warranted. I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. I don’t know if it’s foolproof, but attending parties with friends who have your back, and with whom you’ve made plans beforehand to avoid dangerous situations, could reduce the risks. Arrive & depart with the group. When it’s clear you’re with a supportive group, danger is less likely.

How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy? :(

How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy?
How to lose weight when BC food is so unhealthy? 🙁

If I ate, I think I’d be drawn to the fries and those chocolate chip cookies the size of your head in the dining halls, but there are healthier choices available, like the soups and salad bar at Lower. You might want to make an appointment with the Office of Health Promotion (bit.ly/BC-health-promo); they can set you up with an Individual Health Plan (iHP) to eat healthier.

What is the real love?

What is the real love?
What is the real love?

You ask a question with many, many answers. C.S. Lewis wrote a book called The Four Loves (O’Neill Library BV4639 .L45 1988), drawing on the Greek notions of love in the Bible: Storge (empathy) Philia (friend) Eros (erotic) and Agape (unconditional “God” love). Here’s Shakespeare’s take on it in sonnet 116: bit.ly/shake-love. (Maybe that’s Eros.) One might also note familial love, unrequited love, the love of knowledge (philosophy)… it’s a long list. Which is “real”? I think all of them are. What do they share? The object of love is the focus of total trust & devotion.