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Why does BC support Racism?

Why does BC support Racism?
Why does BC support Racism?

BC probably doesn’t support systemic racism more or less than most other American institutions. Assumptions about race are inevitable in a nation with several hundred years of chattel slavery followed by 100 years of legally enforced racial laws (that ended during the living memories of Americans over 60). These assumptions take active attention to bring to light, and often take difficult conversations to dismantle. BC does make efforts through the Office of Institutional Diversity (bit.ly/BC-OID), and has publicly stated a commitment to nondiscrimination (bit.ly/BC-nondiscrimination). Please help BC maintain its promise by talking to the OID & other offices about deficiencies you’ve seen.

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How to know when to pop a pimple

How to know when to pop a pimple
How to know when to pop a pimple

First off, don’t! Popping a pimple can make it irritated and even infected. Instead, try a soothing mask, washing your face particularly well, or a cool cloth to calm it down. But keep your hands away!

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Why can’t I stop gambling on cricket

Why can't I stop gambling on cricket
Why can’t I stop gambling on cricket

Cricket’s a great game; this wall likes any game that involves points scored by crossing a boundary. But if you’ve tried to stop or reduce your gambling & haven’t been able to, your gambling could be an addictive behavior. If you’re wondering, contact the national problem gambling Helpline (bit.ly/gambling-helpline) at 1-800-522-4700.

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I don’t matter.

I don't matter.
I don’t matter.

Yes, you do. You absolutely do. You matter to me. I’m sure you also matter to others. If you don’t matter to yourself, or you can’t convince yourself that you matter, please contact Counseling Services. (bit.ly/BC-counseling). They’ll help you regain that crucial (and true!) sense of mattering.

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Where are Kermans Keys

Where are Kermans Keys
Where are Kermans Keys

IDK, but I’ve heard some people have luck with this little prayer to St. Anthony: St. Anthony, St. Anthony, please come around, something is lost and can’t be found. Maybe someone turned them in to lost and found? In O’Neill Library, try the circulation desk. If they were lost elsewhere, try BC Police.

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Why does my BF like playing games so much??

Why does my BF like playing games so much??
Why does my BF like playing games so much??

Do you mean board games or video games? I’ve heard they can be a lot of fun. Try joining him. Do you mean mind games? That would be too bad. Being a Wall, I prefer people to be straight-up; I think life is just better when you can trust the important people in your life to be honest and direct.

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How can I survive two Math midterm right after each other?

Ho can I survive two Math midterm right after each other? 11:00-11:50 Probablility 12:00-12:50 Honor linear ?
How can I survive two Math midterm right after each other? 11:00-11:50 Probablility 12:00-12:50 Honor linear ?

Study hard but don’t procrastinate and pull an all-nighter. Get a lot of sleep the night before, and give yourself time to relax and eat a healthy brunch before your exams that will keep you full for a few hours (I’ve heard eggs are good for that!). Above all, stay calm and remember that you have a whole community here to support you and cheer you on. Good luck! The Wall is rooting for you.

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Why are my business stats teammates so rude…?

Why are my business stats teammates so rude...? :|
Why are my business stats teammates so rude…? 😐

I don’t know why. As they say, you can’t change people. But you have recognized that you don’t like their behavior. My suggestion is to take this window as a learning experience, and file it away as an example of how you will not treat people.

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Caught feelings for a close friend help

Caught feelings for a close friend help
Caught feelings for a close friend help

It happens. And it can be awkward. Maybe they or you are with someone else, there are lots of possible complications. All you can ultimately do is be honest…but remember that your having feelings doesn’t necessarily create an emergency for someone else. Love is a choice, and how you express it is also a choice.

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Cute date ideas that are cheap?

Cute date ideas that are cheap?
Cute date ideas that are cheap?

We have some terrific parks and hiking areas near Boston; they are free or inexpensive, and with spring weather on the way, they could provide a very romantic setting. Take advantage of some museum freebies available through BC: bit.ly/MuseumPassesBC.

New York Pizza and a walk @ Boston Commons
New York Pizza and a walk @ Boston Commons

Great idea! Boston Common can be lovely in the Spring; bulbs are just starting to come up. In a week or two they’ll start to blossom.

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How do I find my roommate a GF?

How do I find my roommate a GF?
How do I find my roommate a GF?

Looks like someone else on the board is looking for a boyfriend, too, which suggests there’s someone for everyone. Can you find a GF for a roommate? IDK. Maybe what you can do is suggest this option: join some clubs with appealing activities. Other folks with the same interests is often a good place to begin.

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How long untill the world/U.S. is Caramel + Queer?

How long untill the world/U.S. is Caramel + Queer?
How long untill the world/U.S. is Caramel + Queer?

The mixing of races isn’t new, just more talked about in places where it hasn’t been acceptable in the past. Regardless, I suspect it will take more than 3 generations. You should know that some people bristle when complexions are described as caramel, toffee, coffee, etc. because those terms equate skin tone with food, and there can be underlying connotations with that. As for becoming queer, the number of people who publicly identify as LGBTQ may go up as societal acceptance increases, but the overall percentage of the population is unlikely to change much. I just hope that the world keeps trending toward more acceptance of others, regardless of what makes them who they are.

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Do you want a UCLA sweatshirt?

Do you want a UCLA sweatshirt?
Do you want a UCLA sweatshirt?

Thanks so much for the generous offer! But I’m a) a Wall, and finding a sweatshirt that fits has always been challenging and b) I’m at BC, and there’s plenty of good team gear here. So, no thank you, but I’ll keep an ear out for my California cousins.

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Zion Williamson or Ja Morant for first pick of the draft?

Zion Williamson or Ja Morant for first pick of the draft?
Zion Williamson or Ja Morant for first pick of the draft?

Lol. No NBA team with any hope of winning would second guess their decision to draft Zion first if given the opportunity. The dude is basically already an NBA all-star. Ja Morant had a great game and has the potential to be a great player in the NBA. But not first pick. (Also I hope Duke loses)

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Response to the person who counts the previous posts

Response to the person who counts the previous posts -- I actually posted 44 questions/comments. LOA/Re-entry meeting: 4, Suicide/NSSI: 6, Section 12/Hospitalization: 8, On/off-campus resources (eg. UCS, referrals): 5, Combinations: 5, Thank you/appreciations: 5, Others: 11 I tried, this library Wall and BC has put in extraordinary effort, providing outstanding resource -- Thank you. We will see how it goes. To pppl who are struggling: remember there is hope and love. :) ❤️
Response to the person who counts the previous posts — I actually posted 44 questions/comments. LOA/Re-entry meeting: 4, Suicide/NSSI: 6, Section 12/Hospitalization: 8, On/off-campus resources (eg. UCS, referrals): 5, Combinations: 5, Thank you/appreciations: 5, Others: 11 I tried, this library Wall and BC has put in extraordinary effort, providing outstanding resource — Thank you. We will see how it goes. To ppl who are struggling: remember there is hope and love. 🙂 ❤️
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How can I work in a noisy environment?

How can I work in a noisy environment?
How can I work in a noisy environment?

If you must work in a noisy environment, the O’Neill circulation desk has earplugs; you might also be able to mask sound with music via earbuds or noise-cancelling headphones, which are expensive but really work. People have different needs for work environments, and BC Libraries attempts to cater to as many needs as it can. There are certain areas that are set aside for quiet work such as O’Neill 4th & 5th floors. Take a look at these descriptions: bit.ly/BC-oneill-spaces. Other libraries also have quiet spaces, such as Gargan Hall in Bapst, & many spaces in the Theology & Ministry Library.

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At the beginning of the semester I received an email telling me that my GPA was dangerous.

At the beginning of the semester I received an email telling me that my GPA was dangerous. Cuz the lowest GPA was 1.667 I tried to work hard, but my grade was still not ideal so far. I'm afraid of being kicked off from BC. What can I do? ?
At the beginning of the semester I received an email telling me that my GPA was dangerous. Cuz the lowest GPA was 1.667 I tried to work hard, but my grade was still not ideal so far. I’m afraid of being kicked off from BC. What can I do? ?

I’m very sorry you’re struggling and worried. Touch base with your academic advisor for general advice about your GPA and options, and get lots of tutoring help from the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors). I’m cheering for you.

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I noticed the same person posted 12 or 13 notes on suicide/sec 12/LOA… are you alright?

I noticed the same person posted 12 or 13 notes on suicide/sec 12/LOA... are you alright? I mean that completely in an "I care about you" way. I see you, I hear you, and I worry it's not just for info/research but for yourself. Holding hope for you. [response1: Speak up--you matter. Stay Fearless. Always. Response2: Thank you for the kind words. Yes -- I'm alright. BC has great support & resources the Dean of Students Office, UCS, this wall, and everyone. So I do also encourage ppl reach out should they need help, and pls show great appreciation to the faculty/staff. P.S. The question are mostly about resource & policy, NOT suicide. But, still appreciate your kindness]
I noticed the same person posted 12 or 13 notes on suicide/sec 12/LOA… are you alright? I mean that completely in an “I care about you” way. I see you, I hear you, and I worry it’s not just for info/research but for yourself. Holding hope for you. [response1: Speak up–you matter. Stay Fearless. Always. Response2: Thank you for the kind words. Yes — I’m alright. BC has great support & resources the Dean of Students Office, UCS, this wall, and everyone. So I do also encourage ppl reach out should they need help, and pls show great appreciation to the faculty/staff. P.S. The question are mostly about resource & policy, NOT suicide. But, still appreciate your kindness]

Thank you for your care and support! Your caring note has inspired this Wall to help people care for people. Many people around us are suffering silently. If you know of someone who’s suffering, put a note of care & support here for them. (No names, please, to protect privacy.) [posted on a temporary wall annex in O’Neill Library: I’m sorry, there’s no capacity to accept notes of care and concern on this blog.]