Is it possible to love two people at once romantically? If so, how do you know which person is right?

Is it possible to love two people at once romantically? If so, how do you know which person is right?
Is it possible to love two people at once romantically? If so, how do you know which person is right?

It’s possible to be in love with any number of people; the hard part is sustaining plural romantic relationships that are honest and loving. Polyamory isn’t for everyone: the demands on honesty and trust are quite high for all parties. How do you know which is right? A wise woman once said to me: you know it’s the right person when you can’t live without their virtues and can live with their faults.

Is the Market Basket in MA the same as in Bergen County NJ? They have different logos & different styles.

Is the Market Basket in MA the same as in Bergen County NJ? They have different logos & different styles.
Is the Market Basket in MA the same as in Bergen County NJ? They have different logos & different styles.

One way to answer questions like this is to look at databases on our Company Information research guide: libguides.bc.edu/companyinfo. They are separate chains. The Massachusetts chain has an amazing history; check out this book: We are Market Basket : the story of the unlikely grassroots movement that saved a beloved business. O’Neill Stacks HF5469.23.U64 M375 2015

How do I make it to front office?

How do I make it to front office?
How do I make it to front office?

Do you mean career-wise, or are you looking for a location at BC? At BC, the front office for prospective students is Admissions, in Devlin Hall. For current students & staff, the front office is Lyons Hall. In a career, it depends on your career path and industry. Start by making an appointment with the Career Center: bit.ly/BC-career

Why is BC so Superficial?

Why is BC so Superfficial?
Why is BC so Superficial?

I’m sorry you’ve been having this experience of BC! From what I can tell of the questions BC folks post on me, they range from silly to serious, from minor to major, and from shallow to deep. Give BC people a chance & they might surprise you.

WHY IS THERE A HOOKUP CULTURE HERE?

WHY IS THERE A HOOKUP CULTURE HERE? IT SEEMS UNFULLFILLING AND DANGEROUS (STIs) TO ME.
WHY IS THERE A HOOKUP CULTURE HERE? IT SEEMS UNFULFILLING AND DANGEROUS (STIs) TO ME.

As a Wall, I am fortunate that the only hookups I have are those for hanging pictures and such on me! More seriously, perhaps this is something that people (probably on most college campuses, not just BC) like to talk about (even if they don’t participate) and that makes it seem prevalent. Or maybe not. This is a difficult issue to address in such a small space. If you search the catalog for “hookup culture” you will find some books that explore the topic. Also check out this article for BC’s “Dating Professor” Kerry Cronin’s take: bit.ly/bc-hookup. The BC Women’s Center offers a “ResTalk” program called “Undressing the Hookup Culture” (see bit.ly/HookupResTalk) and may also have other resources.

What do you think about the musical Chicago?

What do you think about the musical Chicago? Just watched it, don't quite get it. Is it satirical? Are the stories true?
What do you think about the musical Chicago? Just watched it, don’t quite get it. Is it satirical? Are the stories true?

Yes and yes: satire, based on true crime stories by a reporter for the Chicago Tribune in 1927. If you’re interested in learning more, read The Girls of Murder City: Fame, Lust, and the Beautiful Killers who Inspired Chicago, by Douglas Perry, (O’Neill Library HV6517 .P475 2010).

Why won’t the bcguest login work on digital studio computers?

Why won't the bcguest login work on digital studio computers?
Why won’t the bcguest login work on digital studio computers?

Many of the software packages that are available in the Digital Studio are licensed for BC users only- which means that allowing guests to access them would infringe upon the license agreement. Therefore, everyone who wants to use the Digital Studio computers needs to have BC credentials. The bcguest login is only meant to be used at the approved guest computer- if you need help finding it, ask one of my acolytes- ahem, associates.

Why is it so hard and expensive to eat healthily in America?

Why is it so hard and expensive to eat healthily in America?
Why is it so hard and expensive to eat healthily in America?

It’s more profitable to sell packaged, prepared foods than raw materials, and there’s a market for prepared food because it liberated housewives (and now househusbands as well) from kitchen labor. The trouble is that foods designed to spend time in transit, in warehouses, and on supermarket shelves has to be preserved in some way, which damages the flavor of fresh food, so manufacturers compensate by adding salt, fat, and/or sugars, which I’m told make food more appealing to the mouth, but cause problems elsewhere in the body. I recommend the book Food, Inc.: How Industrial Food is Making us Sicker, Fatter and Poorer — And What You can do About it (O’Neill Library HD9005 .F6582 2009) or the DVD (O’Neill Library 3rd Floor Media HD9005 .F66 2009)

How to get into Harvard?

How to get into Harvard?
How to get into Harvard?

Ummm. Walk through the gates? Sorry, I am friends with many of the walls at Harvard but not so much with the gates. My info is more about keeping people out of Harvard. If you are asking how to be admitted to Harvard, the answer is excellent grades, great references and some unique life experiences.