Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.

Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.
Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.

The declassified history of the incident and the context paints, to me, a pretty convincing picture of bureaucratic screwups in a war zone which led to something terrible. https://bit.ly/bc-ussliberty. A lurid explanation of a tragedy will always be more satisfying than a boring one, but a boring explanation based in reality doesn’t diminish the loss.

Best romance and fantasy book that’s NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️

Best romance and fantasy book that's NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️
Best romance and fantasy book that’s NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️

The natural follow up to this is, series or stand-alone book? Second, follow up question: Do you want separate romance and fantasy recs or ROMANTASY recs? I’ll suggest a few to get you started. I love S. A. Chakraborty’s trilogy and standalone work. The trilogy is light romance but full political intrigue. The standalone has no romance per say, but is VERY fun. There’s some great Arthurian retellings recently published: Legendborn by Tracy Deonn and Silver in the Bone by Alexandra Bracken. Both series.

Someone I don’t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it’d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?

Someone I don't rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it'd benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?
Someone I don’t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it’d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?

Holding onto the pettiness and repairing the relationship are both optional. Maybe think about what the current situation is doing for you, that might make it clearer what to prioritize.

Best ramen you’ve had (as a wall)

Best ramen you've had (as a wall)
Best ramen you’ve had (as a wall)

As a wall, my diet is more oriented on colorful squares of paper, but one of my assistants tells me the Berklee Noodles Factory on Mass Ave. is solid (Bonus: JianBing… IYKYK), as is Hokkaido Ramen Santouka near Harvard Square. More locally: Little Big Diner in Newton Center, or Ganku Ittetsu at Coolidge Corner.

Ganko Ittetsu [arrow pointing up] @ Brookline
Ganko Ittetsu [arrow pointing up] @ Brookline

Confirmed. This is a great place to eat ramen close to campus. 

Should I break up w/ my boyfriend

Should I break up w/ my boyfriend
Should I break up w/ my boyfriend

Since I’m going steady with the Lobby Door, what I can say is that sometimes thinking about the person can help. Think about your boyfriend right now and how you feel about that, and perhaps that will help.

Favorite Fleetwood Mac song? Why? :)

Favorite Fleetwood Mac song? Why? :)
Favorite Fleetwood Mac song? Why? 🙂

Who could pick just one favorite Fleetwood Mac song?! Here are a few that my library helpers love: 

Silver Springs / Silver Springs (Live at Warner Brothers Studios) 
Feminine rage: always in style
Heart wrenchingly beautiful
lyric intensity, ensemble performance, production
Peak feminine rage 
THAT live performance in 1997 

Landslide
Amazing voice of Christine McVie
It reminds me of my mom 🙂
Sometimes you want to cry.
STEVIE. NICKS. That’s all. 

The Chain
atmospheric! slightly spooky! SO catchy!
Breakups in a nutshell
I love the guitar and the beat!

Dreams 
Calming to listen to
Stevie at her best.

Go Your Own Way
danceable tune hiding difficult feelings
Power vocals with epic backstory!

Gold Dust Woman
Love the witchy vibe
You hit bottom; now what?

Rhiannon 
A beautiful, enchanting, whimsigoth classic!
Very smooth and pleasing to listen to

Second Hand News
catchy & fun: “baow-baow-baow”
LB’s braggadocio and self-effacing lyrics, but SN wins in the end! 

Tusk
Fleetweird Mac
The USC Trojan Marching Band

Don’t Stop
encouraging living

Gypsy
Immediately made me smile!

Hypnotized
Hypnotic dream-state of a tune

I Don’t Want To Know
cheerful guitar, sad angry lyrics

Need Your Love So Bad
Orchestral blues is hilarious.

Oh Daddy
great sample by Beanie Sigel

Oh Well
It’s an early deep cut.

Sisters of the Moon
Underrated and great guitar line!

Songbird
Simple, poetic, beautiful vocals

What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning of life?
What is the meaning of life?

I suggest taking a look at my answer to a similar question, and I’ll emphasize that there isn’t a single meaning for everyone. I have faith that you’ll find a purpose that works for you.

What do I do if I’m perpetually lonely and don’t know if I’ll find love, or I finally get the chance and I royally screw it up?

What do I do if I'm perpetually lonely and don't know if I'll find love, or I finally get the chance and I royally screw it up?
What do I do if I’m perpetually lonely and don’t know if I’ll find love, or I finally get the chance and I royally screw it up?

Perpetually lonely is not good. I highly recommend BC Counseling Services (https://bit.ly/BCUCSOptions) to get some support. But, I can say, don’t lose hope. Loneliness is not a permanent state, you will overcome this.

Recommend me a book that has a LOT of drama & the worst characters

Recommend me a book that has a LOT of drama & the worst characters
Recommend me a book that has a LOT of drama & the worst characters

George R. R. Martin’s series Song of Ice and Fire (bit.ly/bcl-song-ice-fire) on which Game of Thrones was based, is a good bet for both. But if you’d like the OG multigenerational epic, Three Kingdoms by Guanzhong Luo (1330-1400) (bit.ly/bcl-3kingdoms) is a wild ride through a few hundred years of the warring states period of China. It has everything: court intrigue, backstabbing betrayals in love and war, huge battles, a magic flying Daoist priest, and more.

Thoughts on Bridgerton? <3

Thoughts on Bridgerton? <3
Thoughts on Bridgerton? <3

I don’t even care about the anachronisms, it’s such a fun show to watch and it’s a travesty that the next season is 2 years away!