how to foster a zest for life?

how to foster a zest for life?
how to foster a zest for life?

Often it’s the little things. I hear that the trees are thinking of blooming soon. I hear a lot of laughter among friends. I am next to a lot of books that people get excited about reading. I get to hear your questions and answer them. Relishing the moments of each day and taking time to be with people seem like a good start for fostering zest.

Edging or gooning

edging or gooning
edging or gooning

Either is fine. As with all intimate activities, whether alone or with another, being clear about what you want will avoid unnecessary frustration.

Where is my wife?

Where is my wife?
Where is my wife?

IDK. But in Italian, that would be dov’è mia moglie? One of my assistants had to dredge that phrase from memory (before the days of Google Translate) to get sympathy from a gun-wielding member of the carabinieri while parked in Rome where he shouldn’t have parked. A great example of the value of learning a foreign language!

Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.

Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.
Remember the USS Liberty. It was not an accident.

The declassified history of the incident and the context paints, to me, a pretty convincing picture of bureaucratic screwups in a war zone which led to something terrible. https://bit.ly/bc-ussliberty. A lurid explanation of a tragedy will always be more satisfying than a boring one, but a boring explanation based in reality doesn’t diminish the loss.

Best romance and fantasy book that’s NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️

Best romance and fantasy book that's NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️
Best romance and fantasy book that’s NOT overhyped by TikTok. Thanks ❤️

The natural follow up to this is, series or stand-alone book? Second, follow up question: Do you want separate romance and fantasy recs or ROMANTASY recs? I’ll suggest a few to get you started. I love S. A. Chakraborty’s trilogy and standalone work. The trilogy is light romance but full political intrigue. The standalone has no romance per say, but is VERY fun. There’s some great Arthurian retellings recently published: Legendborn by Tracy Deonn and Silver in the Bone by Alexandra Bracken. Both series.

Someone I don’t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it’d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?

Someone I don't rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it'd benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?
Someone I don’t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it’d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?

Holding onto the pettiness and repairing the relationship are both optional. Maybe think about what the current situation is doing for you, that might make it clearer what to prioritize.

Studying: Music or Silence| Snacks or not?

Studying: Music or Silence| Snacks or not?
Studying: Music or Silence| Snacks or not?

Great question! I’ve watched students study with music (through their headphones) and also ask my helpers and me for silent space so I guess it depends on which has helped you study better in the past. I suggest try both and then decide. As for snacks, my Post-it Note diet keeps me full and energized to answer questions like yours so I recommend it.

Best ramen you’ve had (as a wall)

Best ramen you've had (as a wall)
Best ramen you’ve had (as a wall)

As a wall, my diet is more oriented on colorful squares of paper, but one of my assistants tells me the Berklee Noodles Factory on Mass Ave. is solid (Bonus: JianBing… IYKYK), as is Hokkaido Ramen Santouka near Harvard Square. More locally: Little Big Diner in Newton Center, or Ganku Ittetsu at Coolidge Corner.

Ganko Ittetsu [arrow pointing up] @ Brookline
Ganko Ittetsu [arrow pointing up] @ Brookline

Confirmed. This is a great place to eat ramen close to campus. 

Why is everyone here a bigot?

Why is everyone here a bigot?
Why is everyone here a bigot?

I’m sorry to hear about this. Bigotry is NEVER okay. If you have personally experienced bigotry or saw it happen, I suggest reporting it to the Office of the Dean of Students (https://www.bc.edu/content/bc-web/offices/studentaffairs/sites/dean-of-students/about/contact-and-hours.html)