I want to make something healty for dinner, but I have no idea how to cook… or what to cook!

Don’t stress, cooking is easier than you think, and you don’t need a whole lot of ingredients to make something great. Example: http://bit.ly/bc-dinner1. Food YouTube is essentially bottomless, but lots of it is made for people with a lot of cooking experience. I’ll recommend a couple channels I like for American (http://bit.ly/bc-dinner2) and Asian (http://bit.ly/bc-dinner3), but you can also just search for whatever kind of food you like. Start small, and if you pick a starch, a protein, and a vegetable or two you’ll be fine. Good luck!

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For sure! Please give him a scratch behind the ears for me.

Why do some people get offended so easily by small things ? And why do some people stand for others people’s ground even if they are so in the wrong.

According to a recent article in Frontiers in Psychology (bit.ly/OffendedCauses), taking offense results from a mix of triggers to one’s honor, self-image and sense of personal values. As for defending other people’s views, some of this may stem from the desire to support a friend (as a wall, I get this), some from the need to save face when you’ve taken a (misguided) stand, and some of you human people just like to be argumentative and stir things up.

This year has been the equivalent of waking up drunk on the floor of a Trump Tower bathroom with

You wrote nothing to complete your question, so I’ll assume you meant to write “nothing”. Waking up on any bathroom floor, drunk and with nothing is certainly a terrible situation regardless of which tower you find yourself in. But as with hangovers, this horrible year will eventually end. With full sincerity, I’m wishing you and everyone else a happier new year.

Why am I so bad at procrastinating? – Bibliosaurus

Hi Bibliosaurus, great to see you again. Being bad a procrastinating is a good thing, right? Or do you mean you procrastinate too much? In that case, I’d recommend academic coaching from the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-Connor’s). But they’re done for this semester, so that’s one goal you’d have to put off!

Hey Wall!! Do you watch WestWorld? If so, what did you think of the 3rd season, and what do you think the 4th season will be about? If you don’t watch then you so should.

I haven’t watched WestWorld yet, but the combination of the wild west with science fiction is intriguing. It sounds like it’s gotten lost in plot complications; one hopes the next season will do some things to simplify the plot without sacrificing time travel.

Fire*Eater?

I’ll be here when you think of the rest of your question.

Hey Wall, why is O’neil Closing on 6 on Saturday although we’re in study days? I have final papers to write and can’t work from my dorm…

I’m sorry that we weren’t able to provide extended study hours this semester. Due to the pandemic we had to adjust our hours of operation to provide adequate coverage while ensuring the health and wellbeing of library patrons and staff. Rest assured, as soon as we are able, we will resume pre Covid-19 building hours and you’ll be able to study in O’Neill around the clock.

Well, if it’s not illegal, immoral, unhealthy, or otherwise a bad decision, then maybe….?

Indeed! What if…. Look forward to exploring the options.

why do i get so sad after i get really happy? i don’t understand it. it’s like when i feel my feelings, they have to be extreme.

I suppose this is one interpretation of what is called the pursuit of happiness. Life is of full of things that make you happy, as well as things that may negatively impact your happiness. Hypothetically, if someone works really hard to become and remain happy, they could be devastated if they become unhappy. Perhaps some degree of moderation with wanting to be happy is a good idea.

i’m in a long-distance relationship with someone, and i love them so much and they make me so happy. sometimes i get very scared that we won’t last long enough to see each other. any advice? thank you 😀

One of the hard things about distance relationships, even without Covid, is the tendency to think about the last visit or the next one rather than right now. Somewhat related is the tendency to not want to bring up issues during the time you have together. Both of these are bad for relationship health. Try to focus on what you have now, today, and don’t sweep your problems under the rug. Good luck! It’s hard, but lots of people have made it work.

The small particles of the meal go into your nose, get absorbed by the tissue and travel thought your blood vessels. Eventually they go into the kidneys and from there to the other side. Will it be possible to stay alive for a couple of weeks by just smelling food non-stop? (even though I will feel hungry)

That’s not exactly the case. Your nose is picking up odor molecules, but in most cases you are not actually eating the substance and getting nutrition (see more details: bit.ly/HowSmellWorks) So please don’t cancel your meal plan – no matter how good the cooking smells…

I was talking to a boy, and it seemed like we had so much in common and we got a long so well. I was hanging out with him and texting all the time. VERY suddenly, he said he is dealing with some stuff at home and needs some time, and needs this to slow down because he can’t date me right now. Should I just give up and assume he doesn’t like me but isn’t being mature enough to tell me? Or could it be possible he might just not be ready for anything serious and he will come around at some point and I should wait? I do like him, but I also want a boy that actually wants me, and him putting me aside makes me question if he values me.

I’m sorry, that’s never great to hear. You deserve the boy who wants to be with you now. Maybe it’ll be this one at some point later, but I wouldn’t spend too much energy worrying about it. Move cheerfully along.

A is for alcohol, source of addiction, liver disease and other afflictions. So how ’bout water, that might be okay, but if it’s in plastic there’s B for B.P.A C is for corn syrup soda pop uses, and also for carbs found in sugary juices. D, dehydration, you still have to drink, though all these beverages seem like they stink. Eating too little, or too much to count, E is for eating in perfect amounts, and eating some things that you shouldn’t consume, cause dozens of dishes will lead to your doom. F is for fried food that’s filled up with fat. Gluten for G if you buy into that. H is for hot dogs, who knows how they’re made. I for insecticide, veggies are sprayed. J is for jerky with way too much salt. K is for kale, it’s also at fault. But isn’t it healthy? I’m glad that you ask. Cabbage and kale make thyroids too fast. “Forget about eating, I’ll just go outside.” But that is where even more dangers can hide. L is for Lyme disease, carried by ticks. M is for malaria that mosquitos inflict. N is for N-diethyl-meta-toluamide (DEET in bug spray). It kills all the bugs, and it kills your insides. O is for oxygen less recreation. P for pollution in each inhalation. Q is for quicksilver, fishing is wrecked. R, deadly radon that’s hard to detect. S is for sunscreen, but also the sun. Both give you cancer, now isn’t that fun? T for tobacco U V for UV W for watching way too much T.V. X as expected, is X-Ray Y is surprisingly Yerba mate Z is for zealotry. I wonder why this is so little told to the young children… This gives me motivation to live, even though I know, that no matter my actions, I’m still gonna die.

I think small children would probably find this quite entertaining – much in the vein of Gorey’s abcdedaria. Or, as my Dad (a Manhattan apartment) used to sing to me: “A is for architect who made the design, B is for brace that keeps you in line, C is is for ceiling joist….”

Ansari?

I’ve had plenty of relationships with girls but usually ended them all after a few months since I didn’t really feel that emotional connection I had when I was with my friends(guy friends) one relationship was really bad and made me start to wonder why I never felt that connection I have with my friends, with a female partner. Am I extremely heartbroken or coming to a realization? Thanks to anyone that responds in advance(:

It sounds like you’re confused about your sexual orientation, which isn’t an easy place to be. Please know that you’re not alone: most people at some point experience ambiguity in relationships that makes them ask questions of one kind or another. Reaching out is the right thing to do. Find people you trust and can confide in. One option for exploring your experiences and identity is always counseling. At BC: bit.ly/BC-counseling. I have no doubt that in some time you’ll know yourself better and can embrace who you are. Until then, continue embracing yourself. You’re a wonderful person.

One could say that subjectivity is what makes art so fascinating. While metal may resonate with some, it may not with others. In regards to understanding, I suppose there are facets of different music genres some folks could have trouble understanding. (Screaming in metal, body movement in hip-hop, etc.) These sorts of things can hopefully be explained by respective fans of different genres.

Wishing you much success in January! Keep fighting!