Do you have a favorite song?

As you might imagine, many of my favorite songs are about walls. Unfortunately, many humans sing about the dark side of walls: how they divide us or become barriers. The Simple Minds had a song called “Wall of Love,” partly about how walls can also enclose and protect, and it also reminds me of the Wall of Love in Paris: bit.ly/wiki-wall-of-love

Why does everybody get sad as the weather gets colder?

Why does everybody get sad as the weather gets colder?
Why does everybody get sad as the weather gets colder?

It’s not universal; I seem to hear as many complaints about the heat as I do about the cold, and fall weather perks a lot of you humans up. But if the cold (and possibly the dark, dark evenings since we put the clocks back) are making you sad enough that it is interfering with your life, you could talk with someone at University Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling).

Should you continue loving sb. who doesn’t love you?

Should you continue loving sb. who doesn't love you? Should I continuing doing things I don't like?
Should you continue loving sb. who doesn’t love you? Should I continuing doing things I don’t like?

It’s hard to say without knowing the particulars. What you should do is talk it through with people you trust. It will still be your decision, but you may find hearing other perspectives broadens or changes the possibilities. And remember, there are many kinds of love, and many ways to like or not like something you do.

Why is Noah Kahan the greatest musician ever?

Why is Noah Kahan the greatest musician ever? Also why am I so tired? ?
Why is Noah Kahan the greatest musician ever? Also why am I so tired? ?

My human assistants and I are grateful that you introduced this musician to us. (Do I hear the influence of Tracy Chapman?) Maybe you’re tired because there’s still a pandemic going on. Or maybe you just aren’t getting enough sleep, or time away from media. In addition to getting sufficient sleep, make sure you disconnect from screens regularly, and connect with other living, breathing humans.

How to stay @ BC forever?

How to stay @ BC forever? (Currently a BC double-Eagle; plan to apply to BC PhD... eventually take over as faculty...)
How to stay @ BC forever? (Currently a BC double-Eagle; plan to apply to BC PhD… eventually take over as faculty…)

I would recommend getting out and seeing the world. BC is awesome, but there are so many other places to see. If you’re determined to stay, you could broaden your scope; there are many other positions here other than faculty; for instance, I found a great job in the BC Libraries, and with your whole-hearted devotion to BC you might be terrific in Development….

愛 你

愛 你 ❤️ (ài  nǐ): Love you
愛 你 ❤️ (ài nǐ): Love you

Aw, gosh, thanks for the love! Back atcha! ❤️

How to (nicely) cut off a toxic person?

How to (nicely) cut off a toxic person?
How to (nicely) cut off a toxic person?

I’m sorry you’re experiencing someone else’s toxic behaviors. Are you worried they’ll lash out toxically if you don’t do it nicely? If so, ugh. That’s a hard position to be in. I recommend talking to your RA, and they’ll be able to refer you to people on campus who can help.

But if Sally sells seashells on the seashore,

are we sure that the shells are sea shore shells?

But if Sally sells seashells on the seashore, are we sure that the shells are sea shore shells?
But if Sally sells seashells on the seashore, are we sure that the shells are sea shore shells?

I don’t think the sale of shells at the seashore has ever been tightly regulated, and who knows what an unscrupulous shell salesperson might try to slip you (not trying to slander Sally, though, she’s an honest vendor.) I recommend being a careful buyer; why not check in one of our guides to seashells in O’Neill Library (QL400s, 3rd floor, row 80)?