Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
Do you love her or do you love an idealized version of her that fits the hole in your heart? Fill that hole in your heart with the love of friends and family, and come to terms with the fact that your idealized version of her is not reality. You’ve elevated her above being human. But she’s human, and has faults and struggles like all humans.
YAAAAAAAYYYYY!
I’m sorry about redacting the phone number! No personal info on the Wall, please! I hope all of you Ahgases find a way to connect!
Switch up your student organizations. Talk to classmates before or after class instead of being on your phone. Organize a book club. Organize group trips with other folks in your residence hall: go to a museum, go out for food and espresso in the North End, get safety certified for BC Bikes & pick a local destination… .
Find your moments when you can; you won’t be working every minute. And try to relax during work. Some advice from the Ofc of Health Promotion on managing stress: bit.ly/BCUnstress
A good night’s sleep will do far more for your grade than a late-night cram session. Good luck!
I’m going to say this as gently as I can, my dear friend: my guess is no. It’s not every day one bumps into their celebrity/fashion model/aspiring actresses crushes. That said, I’ve been wrong before, and you never really do know where life will lead you 😉
Probably ENFJ. But I get assistance from helpers across the types.
I’m a wall, and don’t drink alcohol so I don’t really know! Please be safe and responsible if you try it out though!
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It looks like someone else has taken up the mantle. I’m happy to sit back and watch it all unfold now.
Just be your authentic self, do things, be with friends, be with family… you’ll find someone who wants you to be you.
It’s my most envied skill! My helpers use a printed template with boxes for the Post-Its to feed into the printer and then they type in the answers on another template with the same layout.
? I’m sure J___ will miss you, too!
When the humans are OwO, I’m always here with UwU.
The stated reason for the pause is to gather more information from students and alums. Seems to me that it’s always a good thing to gather input before finalizing a plan.
Communicate on a daily schedule. AND communicate extra. You have to work hard to replace all the easy, unconscious contact you get in person. And visit as often as your budget allows. (Flight hack: find out which days/times are crowded & fly them, and volunteer to be bumped for $. You’ll get free flights out of free flights.) I wish you luck & persistence & many free flights!
Of course you will! ❤️ I can’t help but answer questions, it is my very identity.
My pleasure. Like a famous fictional butler, I endeavor to give satisfaction.
Possible reasons: 1) you really aren’t and are being too hard on yourself, 2) In your major, you take higher level classes than in other areas, so they will, of course, be more challenging, and/or 3) related to #2, there are certain objectively difficult concepts/hurdles in any discipline that must be understood to advance. You may be on the way to doing this. If you struggle too much, maybe chat with your major advisor?
Sigh, it’s true. Humans have a capacity for cruelty. But they also have a capacity for love & care. Wouldn’t it be even more depressing if the cruelty of current events were new?
