I’m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I’m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but … ACK

I'm having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I'm so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but ... ACK
I’m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I’m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but … ACK

Maybe you’d both benefit more from a break than a break-up? Spending some time apart may help you both get a clearer understanding of your own needs.

Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?

Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?
Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?

Definitely more wheels than doors. Fun fact: Lego (the company) makes more tires than any other company in the world! So they make enough wheels for me to feel confident that there are more wheels than doors. Wheee!

Interesting just to be clear when I say wheels I mean pullys can also be included and for doors I also include cabinets, cardoors, is your answer still the same?
Interesting just to be clear when I say wheels I mean pullys can also be included and for doors I also include cabinets, cardoors, is your answer still the same?

If we include pulleys, it seems as if we also ought to include gears. Think of all the mechanisms! In that case, I support my earlier answer: wheeeeeeels! (Can you tell I long for movement?)

How to find one’s own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?

How to find one's own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?
How to find one’s own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?

You have value as a human being, regardless of your skills or lack of them in any area. Getting good at things is something we work towards throughout life. Many other folks around you are also insecure about their abilities, even if you can’t see it. Don’t despai, just keep learning and growing!

HELP!

HELP!
HELP!

I need somebody! Help! Not just ANYBODY! Help, ya know I need somebody HE-ELL-ELL-ELLP. But also, good for you for asking for help! This is a stressful time of year and I love to remind folks to get in touch with BC’s Counseling Services if you’re feeling overwhelmed: bit.ly/BC-counseling Be well, my friend!

What’s the meaning of Life?? WTF are we doing here! Love, :)

What's the meaning of Life?? WTF are we doing here! Love, :)
What’s the meaning of Life?? WTF are we doing here! Love, 🙂

I find meaning in being supportive, because I’m a wall. You’ll find different meanings, and they’ll probably change throughout your life. Ask yourself the Father Himes questions: What am I good at? What brings me joy? Who does the world need me to be? You’ll find meaning where the answers intersect.

I pee roughly 30 times per day and have frequent passes of stool. My diet consists of protein bars and buffalo chicken. Does anyone have advice for me?

I pee roughly 30 times per day and have frequent passes of stool. My diet consists of protein bars and buffalo chicken. Does anyone have advice for me?
I pee roughly 30 times per day and have frequent passes of stool. My diet consists of protein bars and buffalo chicken. Does anyone have advice for me?

Yup I sure do have advice! I’d check in with Health Services if I were you (bit.ly/BostonCollegeHealth) – or if you’ll be home for the holidays, your regular doc. My guess is they’ll suggest you mix up your diet a bit and get some plant based nutrition in there but I’m just a Wall that doesn’t eat or poop so… check with them 😉