How should I reward myself?

How should I reward myself after making significant academic progress?
How should I reward myself after making significant academic progress?

Maybe it is because my Mom is a sea wall, but my favorite incentive is a trip to the beach. Any time of year is good; now would be perfect! Congratulations on making significant academic progress.

How to maintain a romantic relationship when two people have completely different political values? Thanks!

How to maintain a romantic relationship when two people have completely different political values? Thanks!
How to maintain a romantic relationship when two people have completely different political values? Thanks!

That can be challenging! But also potentially rewarding. The thing to do is talk about underlying values: what moral/ethical values lead each of you to your political positions? You might find common ground in those underlying values, even if the path to achieving them is different.

Do I reconcile with a friend?

So, do I reconcile with a friend if our values have drastically changed?
So, do I reconcile with a friend if our values have drastically changed?

Friendships can be the most life-giving relationships but if the relationship has changed so that both people are no longer contributing, then it might not be a friendship anymore. It is ultimately up to you to determine if you think the friendship is worth fighting for and rebuilding, or if you want to give it time or let it go.

How do I finish all my work?

How do I finish all my work and sleep for 8 hours a day?
How do I finish all my work and sleep for 8 hours a day?

These are terrific goals! Sounds like Academic Coaching at the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors) would be just the ticket – why not give them a try…

I wanna chat with you

I wanna chat with you but I have social phobia. What should I do?
I wanna chat with you but I have social phobia. What should I do?

Changing formats like this is a great idea. Maybe try texting if talking in person is too scary? You could also try changing situations. Maybe a quiet place? Maybe a small group instead of a large one? Or maybe bring a friend to make you feel more secure? It’s all good. Figure out what’s comfortable for you.