
Ugh.

Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

It really very heavily depends on the context. There are lots of reasons why people might find you off-putting, some of which are under your control and some of which aren’t. Take a look at the things that are, and decide if this group of people is worth making adjustments for.

It is not a sure thing for anyone; BC needs to turn away so many students who are qualified and would make great eagles. I do hope you get accepted (but don’t despair; my helpers tell me that many did not get into their 1st choice, but had wonderful college experiences.)
![I've actually lost my marbles wall! I've lost my FREAKING MARBLES [frowny face]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/AW111523-1.jpg)
I haven’t seen them. If you lost them in O’Neill, check the user services desk; they have a lost & found. No, but seriously, I’m sorry you lost your marbles.I hope you have some methods for regaining calm. If not, may I recommend a wellness coach? bit.ly/BC-wellness-coach

Developing better habits is not easy, but you can do this! You can sign up for career coaching with the Connors Family Leanring Center (CFLC) to learn ways to manage your time and studying in a way that will let you SLEEP! bit.ly/BC-connors

Cassowaries usually end up on top of dangerous bird lists because they’re huge (150 pounds!) and fast. https://bit.ly/3MCeCE4 In North America I wouldn’t want to tangle with any kind of raptor (eagles included), but owls are most of the top ten. https://bit.ly/47tmmAb