How to stop a person from stalking & harassing you on social media? I HATE HIM.

How to stop a person from stalking & harassing you on social media? I HATE HIM.
How to stop a person from stalking & harassing you on social media? I HATE HIM.

I’m so sorry this is a part of your life right now. Online harassment is an increasing problem, and one that some of my library friends are actively working to combat. It’s important to know that some forms of cyberstalking and harassment are actually federal crimes, so you may have some legal recourse if you are experiencing threatening behavior. Either way, before you try to stop this person, it’s important to document evidence of his actions. Take screenshots. Note down the date and time he tries to contact you. Depending on which app you’re using, you may be able to report his profile(s) as abusive, which will flag the platform (like Snapchat or Insta) to take action against him. Not all do, but it is worth a shot. If you’d like someone to walk you through this, I’d be happy to help. You can respond to this post-it with more details (What app are you using? What exactly is he saying to you?) and I’ll respond in turn. You can also reach out to my library friend, Paige Walker, at paige.walker@bc.edu to sit down with you and look at your options. She’s got some experience with this and would be more than happy to help!

If you want some resources to try this on your own, iheartmob.org can walk you through it. Sign up at iheartmob.org/sign_up. I should also mention some BC resources, although some may be out of scope: BC’s You Are Not Alone Guide (bit.ly/BC-you-are-not-alone) includes lots of helpful details, including multiple places on campus where you can get information, assistance with reporting harassment, and direct support.

If you have any questions about BC policy, talk to Corey Kelly in Student Conduct at 617-552-3470 or corey.kelly@bc.edu or Melinda Stoops, Student Affairs Title IX Coordinator at 617-552-3482 or melinda.stoops@bc.edu. Above all, please make sure you’re safe. If you suspect you may be in danger, contact the BC Police Department at 617-552-4440 (or 617-552-4444 for an emergency). The Wall is here to support you with any more questions you may have. <3

Why does BC have so many bathrooms?

Why does BC have so many bathrooms?
Why does BC have so many bathrooms?

The number of bathrooms does not seem excessive to me, given the number of people on campus – and there’s the problem that people all get out of class at the same time and have the same need. in fact, my niece, who is a Wall in the Level 2 women’s bathroom, says the crowds in there can get pretty bad during the times between classes – it makes her feel anxious.

How do I get better at logic games?

How do I get better at logic games? I took a prep course but is there a book or something on logic here?
How do I get better at logic games? I took a prep course but is there a book or something on logic here?

We have the SmarTEST prep guide to LSAT logic games online: bit.ly/LogicPrepBook. For the LSAT, the general consensus among top-tire law school students is that PowerScore Bibles are the best books for improving your score. Check out the PowerScore LogicGames Bible as well. We don’t have that in the library unfortunately, but you can buy it online. If you are more generally interested in logic exercises, I’d look at the BC108 call numbers (Level 5, shelf 36).

What is your fav internet trick?

What is your fav internet trick? Mine is using the waybackmachine.com =)
What is your fav internet trick? Mine is using the waybackmachine.com =)

There are so many. You should ask again so you get suggestions from more of my helpers. But here’s one: Use Worldcat and the magic of interlibrary loan to request books and movies from anywhere. Example: Find an obscure movie on IMDB, search Worldcat, find out BC doesn’t have it and hit request (elapsed time 30 seconds). A few days later get an email when the movie arrives. One of my helpers is watching something that came from a community college in Oregon. Worldcat is linked at library.bc.edu, or it’s bc.on.worldcat.org.

Why did people used to like growing beards on their necks?

Why did people used to like growing beards on their necks? Like Wagner and Thoreau. It makes them look like yetis!! Please explain.
Why did people used to like growing beards on their necks? Like Wagner and Thoreau. It makes them look like yetis!! Please explain.

I don’t have to worry about facial hair, but I suspect it must get itchy growing all the way down one’s neck. Luckily the library has a book that may answer your question: Of Beards and Men: The Revealing History of Facial Hair. Find it at GT2320 .O43 2015.

Best place to get a haircut around here?

Best place to get a haircut around here?
Best place to get a haircut around here?

Hmm. The Wall has no hair, and tries to steer away from commercial endorsements. There are a bunch of options near Chestnut Hill Mall and on Washington Street in Brighton. If you’re worried about getting a bad cut you could try a national chain–that way you get a decent level of competence and a reasonable price.

I just read about Madoff. He is a genius…

I just read about Madoff. He is a genius running a 30 year ponzi scheme. How can I start one and not get caught , like he did. Thank you.
I just read about Madoff. He is a genius running a 30 year ponzi scheme. How can I start one and not get caught , like he did. Thank you.

In keeping with BC’s mission (bit.ly/BCMissionStatement), I’d say, let’s not do this. There’s enough pain and injustice in the world. Turn your superpowers to good and not to evil! Maybe consider finding ways to do tremendous amounts of good for people… and not get caught.

Is it okay to go to the hospital because of a hangover?

Is it okay to go to the hospital because of a hangover?
Is it okay to go to the hospital because of a hangover?

Certainly, if you show signs of alcohol poisoning (from the Mayo Clinic bit.ly/HungoverOuch ): confusion, vomiting, seizures, slow or irregular breathing, blue-tinged skin or pale skin, low body temperature, difficulty remaining conscious or losing consciousness. Consider seeking help, maybe through the Ofc. of Health Promotion (bit.ly/BC-health-promo), for your drinking if this is not a one-time thing.

Where is DB Cooper?

Where is DB Cooper?
Where is DB Cooper?

Your guess is as good as mine! Since the FBI is no longer actively investigating the case, Dan Cooper’s location after his successful plane hijacking in 1971 is likely to remain an unsolved mystery. If you’re interested in more details about Cooper and the hijacking, check out the FBI website entry on the case. (bit.ly/DBCooperFBI)