Category: Random

I’m glad to see that it seems like basic dental care is covered? So I might be able to see a dentist for the first time over the past three years I’ve been here! I don’t know how I feel about the mental health care part. Seems like amazing virtual visit resources, but what about the in-person outpatient care portion? It always gives me a headache trying to figure out the insurance benefit. ><

Health insurance in the US is a huge headache even when it’s the best available; makes me very grateful to be a Wall. It sounds like the new plan has both pluses and minuses for you. If you have specific questions the contacts are here: bit.ly/BCInsuranceQ

Should we throw a welcome party? lol

Dr. Shawna Cooper-Gibson certainly has a lot of relevant experience at a variety of higher ed institutions, so she’s sure to bring some new and interesting perspectives. For more info: bit.ly/BC-VP-SA. You can see how she communicated with Seton Hall students and families here: bit.ly/SetonHall-student-services

In these odd times, it’s good to find anything you can to celebrate – so, Happy Birthday Student Affairs Being! Merry Christmas in June!

So, the movie adaptation of In The Heights released this month and I watched it, guess in what situation I am now. It’s not the same as Hamilton and not nearly as good, but I find myself listening and watching it Non-Stop. Help. Me.

It sounds like what you like is the genre: modern renditions of the musical. I’d suggest experimenting with other titles as well, but there aren’t all that many here in America. Chicago comes to mind. As do Rent and Moulin Rouge. If you’re up for an adventure, may I suggest Bollywood? You could start with one adapted from Jane Austen: Bride and Prejudice. Then embark on a Big Bollywood adventure. Suggested titles: Devdas, Lagaan, Jodhaa Akbar, Rang de Basanti, Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham, Swades.

I was walking back home from work around midnight, and a weird dude followed me and started to ask me weird questions and asked if I wanna go with him. I felt like I might’ve overreacted by calling the police (plus, I don’t know if the police is scarier or that random dude). Plus, BCPD took away all my pocket knifes a while ago so I didn’t have anything to protect myself with when I ran into that weird dude off campus. What would you do when there’s no one around and you’re being followed by a weird guy around midnight? Especially when police is also scary… Those community police were pretty nice last night, but Idk … esp. many police and clinicians have seen me as just being dramatic before 🙁

I think you did the right thing. If a human is acting threateningly, seek other humans. Sometimes the quickest way to summon another human is by calling on ones who are trained and ready to respond, such as those at the other end of 911. Though there are certainly risks associated with calling 911 (and it’s right that people have been noting those risks) sometimes there are no other ready options. Also, it’s just as well you didn’t have a weapon; in many instances a weapon you intend to use on someone else could be turned on you, unless you’re well trained in their use. Even then, it’s not a sure thing. Walking alone at midnight entails risk; if you’d like to reduce that risk, think of alternatives to walking alone, such as finding another person to walk with, getting a ride, or using public transit or a cab.

Some things to note: Musicals have a bad reputation for them, they have never heard of Hamilton.

I know you’re thinking, how can anyone possibly say no to this, when you and I and so many others are just helpless about Hamilton. If they’re not into musicals at all, that could be a difficult challenge; if they like any types of music at all, Hamilton has such a wide variety of styles, perhaps you could pick something that they would like. Or rather than focusing on Hamilton as a musical, have a conversation about some of its major themes, like legacy, “who tells your story” and forgiveness. One of my friends who is not a musicals person also suggests being clear about whether what you’re asking is “I really love this thing and I’d like to share it with you” or “I really think you particularly would like this thing”. Both can be fine, but mixing them up can lead to sadness.

Thank you, very helpful! I’ll try to get some people around me addicted, I’ll see how it goes!

Good luck with your endeavor!

It depends… 96 000 of what, exactly? I’m hoping it’s not fleas…

So, I have 2 movies on my plate: In The Heights (from Lin Manuel The Great) and Twisted (From Starkid The Great). They are both around 2 hours and 20 minutes long and I really want to watch them both (but with popcorn). What should I watch first? On first hand, In The Heights is newer, so maybe I should get in early, but on the other hand, Twisted is a comedy. I really don’t know, please help me.

Allow me to introduce my friend, the Spinning Spinny Thing, who is often helpful in matters like these. Also a big movie fan, so won’t steer you wrong. http://bit.ly/bc-spinny

That seems really unlikely, but sorry you have occasion to ask.

and we need more conversations ab that on campus as well… ?

“Ace” disambiguates to dozens of different things – I am very sorry you are suffering and please let me know which ace it is you want more conversations about.

Oh I was responding to the previous lgbtq+ post-it from someone else. But you’re right that ace refers to lots of things…
It doesn’t hurt to have conversation ab the intersection of them all! Oh and I’m not really suffering, things can be a blessing if you look at it differently. Anyway, what’s your plan for July 4th? ?

Glad to hear you’re ok!  Since O’Neill is open on July 4, I’ll be here in my usual niche.  But the library is closed July 5th, so who knows, I may sneak down to NYC and visit my Dad.

on whether utilizing library answer wall positively impact students’ mental health, academic achievement, and well-being. I bet it does! 🙂 🙂 🙂

HUGBACK. That would be great! The major trick would be to correlate (anonymous) posts with students’ (confidential) academic and mental health records. Hmm… It might have to be a survey study unless you can get the creative folks at the Lynch School on board.

High school can be a very difficult time, for sure! If you are on an IEP or 504 and someone is supposed to be helping you with toileting issues, you or your parents should make the school aware that this is not ok. If you are not currently getting accommodations but think you may need them, I also suggest you or your parents approach the school about this.

If I already got fully vaccinated, is it really recommended/safe to get a different shot? Do we have enough research to show that it doesn’t cause harm? What’s the risk/benefit? I feel so bad for people around the world who don’t get access to vaccine. 🙁

The science isn’t really in on that question yet, so I’d wait until the CDC or local health authorities say that’s a good idea. There are some results here from a small, preliminary trial in Spain: https://go.nature.com/3zzc6WL, but I’d summarize the discussion as “we just don’t know yet”.

I seem to only get aroused by men which points that I may be bisexual/gay and I hate it. I grew up in an Asian family and they are completely against any LGBTQ people. What should I do? I feel trapped and burdened.

You’re less alone than you think. I recommend as a first step that you find at least one trustworthy person outside of your family with whom you can discuss your questions. That may relieve the burden somewhat. If you want a way to discuss your questioning without judgement, I recommend the social support meetings at bagly boston: https://www.bagly.org/youth-programs. BC’s Office of Student Outreach & Support has links to national help networks and also offers support to BC students: bit.ly/LBGTQBC. I hope you find a way to explore your identity with support and love.

You should never go on the Internet and talk to strangers. Oh, wait, that’s what I’m all about ?. The anonymity is a good feature; I wouldn’t advise giving any identifying info. And be aware, you could be subjected to some pretty offensive content, so if you’re not prepared for that, there are other ways to communicate with people.

IOW, it would be great to cut the leaves and branches a bit cuz it’s blocking my sightseeing view. 🙂

I’ll pass the word along. Pretty great view from there!

100% perpendicular.

My ears are attuned to many walls on campus, but the ones involved in hiring are very secretive. As they should be.

I have not watched it, but have heard some very strong responses to it from parents of young children and they have not been positive. It has a 4.0/10 score on IMDB, which is telling.  But slightly higher than Barney (at a shocking 3.9/10.)  Clearly, there is room in the early childhood programming world for something better.