8 hour class

8 hour class #notstongs #tired ❤️
8 hour class #notstongs #tired ❤️

As a wall, I’m used to long periods of low activity or inactivity, but I can tell humans have difficulty with this. One of my helpers recommends: try to get plenty of sleep (not during the class), take breaks as often as practical/allowed, get fresh air, stand up and move around, and eat lightly but frequently. Good luck! You can do this!

Are you happy, or are you just hiding behind a mask of self-consciousness and regret, but are too scared to show it?

Are you happy, or are you just hiding behind a mask of self-consciousness and regret, but are too scared to show it?
Are you happy, or are you just hiding behind a mask of self-consciousness and regret, but are too scared to show it?

Lots of people are cheerful on the outside and struggling on the inside, it’s a thing humans do. I can almost guarantee that if you try telling people how you really are they’ll be supportive and kind. Ask for help. It’s OK to ask for help.

Am I dead inside? :)

Am I dead inside? :)
Am I dead inside? 🙂

Sometimes it can feel like it, but that doesn’t make it true. Sometimes all you need is a reminder that you’re not. See a friend. But you can also go to other to talk about it too, either your friends or people here. You could talk either to a student wellness coach (bit.ly/BCStudentWell) or a counselor at BC Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling), either of which would be confidential and supportive.

What makes someone Beautiful?

What makes someone Beautiful?
What makes someone Beautiful?

Being your true self. Caution: beauty is not something that makes you attractive to everyone, popular, or universally loved. It’s a way to find the those who accept you unconditionally as you. Though it won’t be a crowd, it will be more than enough.

Tips for going through a break-up :)

Tips for going through a break-up :)
Tips for going through a break-up 🙂

It’s like landing a plane: any breakup you walk away from was successful. Feel your feelings and treat them as important, because they are. You might be sad or angry or both at once. You might feel OK for a while and then suddenly discover you feel worse. All of that is normal. Connect with your friends. Eat your favorite foods. Maybe make a point of doing a couple things you enjoy that your ex didn’t. But most importantly: don’t beat yourself up about it whether you were the dumper or the dumpee. People and situations change and you have a right to be happy and with someone who cares about you. It also really sucks to think you’re with the right person and discover they suddenly don’t agree. All good wishes for you!

Whats the meaning of life?

Whats the meaning of life?
Whats the meaning of life?

There are a lot of different ideas on this. I can repeat what I’ve said before and still believe though: I find meaning in being supportive, because I’m a wall. What you find meaningful might change throughout your life. Ask yourself the Father Himes questions: What am I good at? What brings me joy? Who does the world need me to be?

Is AI going to take over?

Is AI going to take over?
Is AI going to take over?

Generative AI is certainly pervasive (some would even say insidious). We’re quickly learning its limitations, though, (bit.ly/ai-knowledge-collapse). And in spite of updates, it falls far short of human creativity, because it only generates sentences based on the probability of word association in data sets of what’s already been written about online. But perhaps ChatGPT has an answer for you: bit.ly/elle-inventions.

Why can you get elektrisity from a potato?

Why can you get elektrisity from a potato?
Why can you get elektrisity from a potato?

As I understand it the potato cannot generate power all on its own, it needs two metals to form a circuit (probably wires!). The potato is a battery that causes chemical energy to be converted into electricity. There’s a book at the ERC called “Fun Experiments with Electricity” that could be a fun read to further understand this phenomenon.

What should I do with my girlfriend on our next date?

What should I do with my girlfriend on our next date?
What should I do with my girlfriend on our next date?

Great question. Since it’s nice out, getting outside for a date can be great. You can always get a ferry to the Harbor Islands (some of them have some pretty cools walls I’ve been told). Or you could always find one of the many ice cream places around Boston. Or, ask her if she’s got something she’s been wanting to do.

Doors or Wheels!?

Doors or Wheels!?
Doors or Wheels!?

Wheeeeeeels! As I noted in my answer a few years ago: bit.ly/bcl-doors-wheels. I love a debate with low stakes and high ambiguity, because redefinition keeps it alive. All the gears in clocks and watches beat doors without the help of lego or car wheels! But if eyes are the doors to the soul… .

So many of my friends are graduating and I’ll miss them so much. What should I do?

So many of my friends are graduating and I'll miss them so much. What should I do?
So many of my friends are graduating and I’ll miss them so much. What should I do?

Commencement is such a bittersweet time of year. We are happy for the new beginnings while we honor that it is an ending of sorts. Keep the group chat going! All friendships shift over time, but that doesn’t mean there are not more adventures in your future. Be gentle with yourself and your friends while you navigate this transition period. Practice good self-care!

What’s your favorite and least favorite book in this library? ❤️

What's your favorite and least favorite book in this library? [drawing of heart]
What’s your favorite and least favorite book in this library? ❤️

I try not to play favorites and I also love lots of different kinds of books, so if you ask me on another day I’ll probably give a different answer. Today I’ll say my favorite is The Landmark Thucydides. It’s a history of the war between Athens and Sparta and a lot of it is about armies moving back and forth around really small towns in every part of ancient Greece. What makes me love it is the maps, which show you where all those places are, and the chapters explaining all of the things about Greek armies the author assumes you know. Least favorite? We’ve got some stuff on eugenics that was classified as science when it was published in the 19th century–not even going to name names. My fave is the red book on the shelf to my left.