You can break up with someone at any time for any reason. Be a human about it and do it in person. You don’t need to be dramatic or explain yourself if you don’t want to. Good luck!
i hate my boyfriend how do i break up with him???
It’s been a long time since I had liked someone– and it happened this year!
Yes. This is apparently the way. And for what it’s worth, my sources tell me that it gets harder to recreate the spontaneous college experience of meeting new people as you get older. Be brave! It’s worth it, even if it doesn’t work out the way you hope.
Hi answer wall. I feel lonely.
I’m sorry you’re feeling lonely. Here’s something to try: ask friends & family for care. You can ask directly (“I need a hug”) but that can be a challenging thing to do. Here’s a trick: offer a hug to someone, especially if they look a little down. That will help chip away at the separation. Or just offer a kind word: “you’re looking good today,” or “I was just remembering that time we…” If you find it too hard to try reaching out to people this way, I recommend talking to someone about it, for instance, BC’s counseling services: bit.ly/BC-counseling.
What should I get my BF for a holiday gift?
Good gifts are so personal, so my general advice is: Get him that thing you saw him looking at when you were out that one time.
I need a gf
It’s natural to want to be loved! Try spending time with friends and family, enjoying hobbies, and caring for your self; this can bring you connection and joy until you find your special someone.
When are we getting boyfriends?
Arranged marriages really haven’t been a thing in the US for quite a while, but one does see some appeal occasionally. I think you’re great, and that good things will happen for you.
Can you help me get married?
I’m afraid I can’t help you with that, but I suggest finding someone whose interests and values are similar to yours and whose personality you enjoy. Spend time getting to know them and see where it leads.
What do I do to approach some I’m interested in?
Just say “hi” and start a conversation about literally anything other than how attractive you think they are.
What do I do if my roommate walks in on me beating it?
I would suggest trying to avoid that situation altogether by doing that in a more private location. Failing that, apologies always go a long way, as do promises that they won’t be subjected to it again.
Why is my partner so pretty?
Beauty is, as they say, in the eyes of the beholder and it is also more than skin deep. Perhaps some of the qualities that make you enjoy your girlfriend’s company – personality, sense of humor, the conversations you can have – are all part of the special sauce that makes her pretty.
What do you do when your room-mate walks in on a sexual activity you are engaging in?
If walls could talk… . Just kidding, they can! I think I’ve heard everything at this point from my dorm wall friends. If I were a human in that situation I’d probably apologize for not alerting them, and if the two of you haven’t talked through some ground rules, I’d suggest doing that as well, to avoid it happening again.
How do I talk to huzz?
Step 1: recognize that the way you think about other people affects how they react to you. Step 2: start a conversation about literally anything other than dating. Step 3: be gracious about taking no for an answer. You don’t get the harsh put-down if you notice the subtle “I’m not interested”.
Someone I don’t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve/repair our relationship bc it’d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?
Holding onto the pettiness and repairing the relationship are both optional. Maybe think about what the current situation is doing for you, that might make it clearer what to prioritize.
Should I break up w/ my boyfriend
Since I’m going steady with the Lobby Door, what I can say is that sometimes thinking about the person can help. Think about your boyfriend right now and how you feel about that, and perhaps that will help.
What do I do if I’m perpetually lonely and don’t know if I’ll find love, or I finally get the chance and I royally screw it up?
Perpetually lonely is not good. I highly recommend BC Counseling Services (https://bit.ly/BCUCSOptions) to get some support. But, I can say, don’t lose hope. Loneliness is not a permanent state, you will overcome this.
Where the ABG, seaside huzzes at?
It’s official. The slang has eclipsed my ability to keep up.
Do I ask fine shyt out
Short lesson in pronouns*: “My” might be a turn-off for someone, so start thinking of them as a potential “you.” When you see someone for who they are, that’s validating. Some might even say “hot.”
*Technically, “my” is a determiner, the adjectival form of the pronoun “mine.”
How to minimize the misunderstanding between people?
Speaking honestly, but kindly. And, following up if you feel you have been misunderstood. Don’t let the misunderstanding continue.
Is O’Neill a good place to go on dates?
We’re a great choice for a study date where you actually study.
How can I be more charming?
There are many ideas about this, but generally try to actively listen to what someone is saying and show genuine interest in their lives. Have warm, positive body language (a brief smile with raised eyebrows and keeping eye contact for example) to make folks you interact with feel at ease. Be a bit vulnerable to show you are authentic and folks around you can be themselves. Expressing humor and finding points of connection are a bonus but take time and practice to get right.