Why isn’t gender identity on BC’s notice of non-discrimination? Does BC not care about its trans students?

why isn't gender identity on BC's notice of non-discrimination? Does BC not care about its trans students?
why isn’t gender identity on BC’s notice of non-discrimination? Does BC not care about its trans students?

BC’s position, as communicated to the staff LGBT@BC group in 2017, is that gender identity, protected by Massachusetts law, is included in the notice’s reference “… and to comply with state law prohibiting discrimination…” (bit.ly/BC-nondiscrimination). Chris Polt, an assistant professor in Classics, studied statements at other Jesuit institutions. Perhaps GLC or another student LGBTQ group could contact Chris for his findings and ask for further clarification from the BC administration.

I’ve recently noticed a Janitor in O’Neill who adds the contents of recycling and trash bins into the same garbage can. This seems problematic. Is there a way the wall could address it?

I've recently noticed a Janitor in O'Neill who adds the contents of recycling and trash bins into the same garbage can. This seems problematic. Is there a way the wall could address it?
I’ve recently noticed a Janitor in O’Neill who adds the contents of recycling and trash bins into the same garbage can. This seems problematic. Is there a way the wall could address it?

Thanks for the observation; I’ll let my assistants know. I’ve also watched a lot of library patrons put trash in recycling bins. It’s possible that bin was too contaminated with trash to recycle. Custodians are directed by BC to avoid contaminating the recycling stream.

How to show interest in someone w/out being over bearing

How to show interest in someone w/out being over bearing
How to show interest in someone w/out being over bearing

What you’re looking for is a nearly impossible balance. Which is worse, to err on the side of subtle and not be noticed, or to err on the side of too obvious but be rejected? Overbearing only happens if you’re overly persistent in the face of rejection. The Wall says: be flamboyant. Stake everything on love. (But let a close friend know you might need their shoulder if it falls flat.)

What is the greatest moment in ryder cup history?

What is the greatest moment in ryder cup history? 1. Justin Leonards walk off 40 fast putt at Brookline when team USA stormed the green. 2 Justin Rose putt to silence the crowd on hole 17 that led to the Miracle at Medinah.
What is the greatest moment in ryder cup history? 1. Justin Leonards walk off 40 fast putt at Brookline when team USA stormed the green. 2 Justin Rose putt to silence the crowd on hole 17 that led to the Miracle at Medinah.

Two amazing come from behind victories! I consulted with one of my assistants and if we’re talking strictly about just these two putts, she has to believe it’s Justin Leonard’s putt. Sure, Justin Rose sunk a putt from 35 yards, but that was a downhill shot. Leonard, however, had gravity at his disadvantage and had to use so much force that if that ball missed, it would have sailed past the hole and landed feet away, all but guaranteeing a loss for USA. We may be biased though, since there’s no better victory than one right in our backyard. However there is another moment that may just be greater than those two, it’s Seve Ballesteros’ 245 yard shot to the green from a BUNKER with a 3 WOOD in 1983! I don’t know how he saw that shot but it became one of the greatest of all time.

When will the hockey team be good again? :(

When will the hockey team be good again? :(
When will the hockey team be good again? 🙁

I shy away from predictions. The elements that make a winning team are complex: players with skills that complement each other, coaching staff that can inspire players and drill plays that work for the array of players, everyone in outstanding health, and so on. The women’s hockey team has all of this right now. Watch them.

Please put up a guide for how to belly-rub a cat. Thanks! :3

Please put up a guide for how to belly-rub a cat. Thanks! :3
Please put up a guide for how to belly-rub a cat. Thanks! :3

While some cats let lucky humans rub their bellies, many cats are protective of such a sensitive and vulnerable area. But you should feel flattered if a cat exposes its belly to you—it can be a sign of trust! Scritches on the head might be a safer bet, but always remember to proceed gently so you don’t frighten your potential feline friend.

Which one should I go to? Ucla or Bc

Which one should I go to? Ucla or Bc
Which one should I go to? Ucla or Bc

2 terrific schools to chose from. But very different. Ask yourself: do you want a huge, state university with a warm climate or a mid-sized, Catholic university with a cold climate? Which has more to offer in the fields you are interested in studying? Does the idea of a university that is committed to the formation of the whole student (BC) appeal to to you or drive you away? And., of course, which do you prefer, earthquakes or blizzards? Only you can know!

I don’t think I fit in this institution in terms of both intelligence and academics. no matter how hard I try I still feel like trash compared to others. Should I withdraw from the university?

I don't think I fit in this institution in terms of both intelligence and academics. no matter how hard I try I still feel like trash compared to others. Should I withdraw from the university?
I don’t think I fit in this institution in terms of both intelligence and academics. no matter how hard I try I still feel like trash compared to others. Should I withdraw from the university?

I’m very sad you are so down on yourself. There will always be people who are – or who appear to be – smarter, better at everything etc. I suggest you talk to your academic advisor, and also perhaps to University Counseling (bit.ly/BC-counseling) before you make any decisions about leaving.

^HOW Should I break up with my boyfriend?

^HOW Should I break up with my boyfriend?
^HOW Should I break up with my boyfriend?

If you’re still wondering whether you should, ask yourself two questions: can I live with his faults? Can I live without his virtues? If the answers are anything but “yes” and “no,” this relationship will end eventually, and it’s up to you when you want that to happen. If you’re certain, then the answer is soon, unequivocally, and with clear reasons. Be as gentle as circumstances allow, but be firm. There will be tears, but that’s OK. You might want to make sure a close friend is available for the aftermath.

Any good strategies/tips on how to catch norovirus? I wanna get out of an exam.

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Any good strategies/tips on how to catch norovirus? I wanna get out of an exam.

I assure you, this is not a smart way to avoid an exam. Catching norovirus is distressingly easy though. As per the opposite of CDC advice (bit.ly/CDCNoNoro), eschew hand-washing, dine out at questionable eateries, and snack on unwashed fruit. But really, don’t. Go, do your best on the exam, and be well!

Why does Fr. Leahy hate people who aren’t white?

Why does Fr. Leahy hate people who aren't white?
Why does Fr. Leahy hate people who aren’t white?

If your question arises from his silence following recent racist incidents, he probably believes that the appropriate people are addressing the issue. Such an approach does not reflect hate but a different way of thinking about how to respond to campus incidents. As with any communications issue, it’s always better to speak directly with the other person, so I’d suggest also asking Fr. Leahy your question.

What’s a good name for an undergraduate history journal featuring works from BC history majors?

What's a good name for an undergraduate history journal featuring works from BC history majors?
What’s a good name for an undergraduate history journal featuring works from BC history majors?

That depends on what type of history you expect the journal to cover. Ancient Europe – maybe something greek or latin. Pre-columbian North America – maybe a Native American word? You get the idea. Or if it’s all of history broadly, maybe just a good pun like Pan-a-historia which I think is a fun because it’s close to the modern “panaderia” and I have been told bread tastes good (although the correct Latin would be Omnes historiae). If you’re thinking about starting a new journal, check out the BC-library hosted journals (ejournals.bc.edu). We can help you with some of the management of the publication process so you can focus on finding good content.

How should I tell my clingy and mean friend to leave me alone?

How should I tell my clingy and mean friend to leave me alone?
How should I tell my clingy and mean friend to leave me alone?

Many friendships morph or fizzle. But in our world of screens (social media/texting) this stuff can be tough. You’re probably familiar with the avoidance dance. How about the honest and direct (in person!), “I don’t like how you’ve been treating me.” Really hard. But you may learn more about that “friend” and yourself after that.

What is your favorite vine?

What is your favorite vine?
What is your favorite vine?

The Concord Grape. It was developed in nearby Concord, Massachusetts in the mid-19th century, and makes terrific jelly and sweet wines for religious purposes. There’s also Red Vines, but here in Boston, we’re all about the Twizzlers…. If you mean Vine (the video service), looks like that’s over and done with.