Very effectively, based on the evidence… but did you know Aristotle wrote about this? bit.ly/AristotePigeonSex For a more modern take, check out the Cornell Lab of Ornithology bit.ly/CornellPigeonSex.
How do pigeons procreate?
Why do I feel that programming is more attractive than girls?
All desire is on a spectrum. I, for one, am much more interested in architectural details than most. Have you ever closely examined a squinch? There are squinches that have given me chills. But I know they’re not for everybody. Pursue what moves you.
We need better hole punchers and staplers for each floor!
I will have my assistants let it be known to the hole punch and stapler departments.
I was recently told that I was “too honest” by a close friend of mine.
What you’re looking for is how to be more tactful in your communication. And there’s probably a combination of learning how to let some things go without saying anything. Generally speaking, I don’t say anything at all unless someone asks me to. And some of this will just come with time and practice. But, since you’re looking for help today, there are plenty of resources here to help you. I recommend starting with Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition (O’Neill Library: BF637.C45 C78 2012).
What’s the best platform to find work exchange opportunities?
Sounds exciting! I’d recommend running this question by the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career); I bet they have good leads on where to look.
Why I don’t feel like studying anymore??
IDK, reasons can vary widely. Senioritis? Spring Fever? Overwhelmed? Burnout? I wish you luck identifying the cause(s), so you can address the root problem. I recommend a visit to the Connors Family Learning Center (CFLC), where an academic coach can help you figure out what’s going on. bit.ly/BC-connors
Do nice boys really exist?
Yes. If you need your faith restored, watch Won’t You Be My Neighbor, the film about Fred Rogers. Some men really do try to live values like that. It’s possible that they don’t frequent the events or groups where you’re looking. Get involved in programs or groups that try to live values like those of Mr. Rogers’ (or other men you admire), and you might find some.
I really like this boy but he blew me off twice and I thought he liked me too.
It depends on how much rejection you feel you can handle, and also the nature of “he blew me off.” Did it seem like he wanted to get together with you but was actually too busy? Or that he was really not interested? In the latter case, twice seems like you’ve given it a fair try, and I would worry that more than that may come across as annoying or unwanted attention.
Which is the least used toilet on campus?
I don’t have any hard data on the least used, but one of my helpers tells me that the one in Robsham is on the quiet side.
Pros and cons of dating in college?
Pros: Someone to hang out with, the potential joys of true love and/or physical intimacy, the possibility of meeting someone you’ll want to spend your life with (it sometimes happens here!). Cons: Takes time away from your studies and extra-curriculars, you might find your other friendships suffer if you’re not careful to prioritize them, you run the risk of a broken heart, and if everything goes perfectly – what happens when you graduate?
How can I pursue my passion when climate change is all that matters?
It sounds like climate change might be your passion. If you care that deeply about a cause, it’s very much worth your time (and everyone else’s) to do some work for the cause. Remember, you can have multiple things that you care about. Having varied interests is not only OK, it’s preferable. Diversity in your focus is what keeps you from burning out.
Are plays good?
Yes. A live performance is a totally different thing than a movie–it makes the audience part of the show, which is an amazing thing with a good group of actors. Lots of local theaters have student discounts, and there’s a good list of upcoming shows here: bit.ly/bc-stage.
Loyalty. Ever hear of it?
It’s an admirable virtue. As with many virtues, use it in moderation. In excess, loyalty could become unquestioning obedience. Without it, though, social ties crumble. Mutual respect, patience, and tolerance help loyalty blossom organically.
How to realize world peace?
Tall order! Start local: be an examplar of how to live with minimal harm, with respect for others. (And when that fails, at least patience & tolerance.) Do more asking and listening than making yourself heard. Make room for voices that aren’t often heard. Grant those around you dignity and agency. When you encounter injustice, say so, and do what you can to correct it, because peace is unlikely without justice. When you make mistakes, apologize and make amends. There are many courses at BC in political science, philosophy, sociology, and theology that address issues of peace and justice.
How Much Does A Gram of Cocaine Cost?
That would cost you about one year in jail and up to a $1000 fine if arrested as a first time offender, not to mention the risk you run of being expelled from Boston College. Subsequent offenders double that risk with a 2 year jail sentence and $2000 fine for each additional offense. You also run the risk of getting cocaine laced with fentanyl, which is deadly (RIP Mac Miller). I’d have to say that none of that is worth the purchase price.
Hello!
Hi! Hope this works out! But we’ll never know, because this wall lives and dies by anonymity.
Hypotenuse across Stokes lawn? Efficent? Disrespectful?
One can plan paths around aesthetic principles or one can plan paths by observing where people actually walk. The latter method is known as a “desire path” in urban planning: bit.ly/desire-paths. If there’s no signpost about staying off the grass, walk where you need to walk.
How do I know if the boy I like likes me back?
Ask him. Easier said than done, I know. But don’t be afraid to take the risk and be vulnerable with the boy you like!
How can I become the Answer Wall Question answerer?? I REALLY WANT TO!!!!
But then what would I do? I don’t have thumbs to twiddle. No, but seriously, watch for some opportunities for you (and others!) to provide answers later this semester.
Who won Showdown?
It’s tomorrow – I’m not great at predicting the future, but I will predict that there will be some amazing dancing! Best of luck to all contestants!