Since I’m a wall, I don’t eat. Sometimes I get a little envious of people when they talk of delicacies, but in this instance…. nope!
Have you ever had a plain bagel with Petroleum Jelly?
My friend keeps falling asleep with Mozz sticks in his mouth.
If the food remains in his mouth, he will still go to bed hungry. So, wake him up and make him swallow.
Is it gonna work this time?
The Magic 8 Ball says “Outlook Good.” But she has her good days and bad days, like any of us. Wishing you success this go ’round!
I didn’t sleep last night ?
I’m sorry that happened. Hopefully, exhaustion will help you sleep soundly tonight. If this is a perennial problem, look into solutions for insomnia (bit.ly/mayo-insomnia). If it’s a matter of staying up all night to finish a project or study, I hope the rest of this semester’s conclusion can involve more rest.
My partner wants to splonkie over me. Shold I let him?
Porn cliches can be awkward. Some people like that, some people like it some of the time, some people think it’s gross and/or degrading. Totally your call about what you’re comfortable with.
My roommate punched a hole in the wall… He may have anger issues. What should I do?
Talk to your RA or RD for guidance. If at any time you feel like you are at risk, call BC Police at 617-552-4444.
Thoughts on Endgame
I am a wall between the viewing public and spoilers. I’ve heard it’s worth seeing. That is all.
How do you tell someone you like them? … who is a friend???
On the one hand, many people are uncomfortable navigating the tricky terrain of a friendship that turns romantic. On the other hand, a romantic relationship with friendship at its base can be a very strong, long-lasting one, with a rare degree of trust and openness. Make the invitation, but give your friend as much room (and time!) as they need to answer, with the knowledge that they may say no. If you give them this freedom and are genuinely willing to accept “no,” it’s unlikely you’ll jeopardize your friendship.
What top 10 states are statistically the most overweight?
According to the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation; Arkansas, West Virginia, Mississippi, Louisiana, Alabama, Oklahoma, Indiana, Ohio, North Dakota, and South Carolina. bit.ly/RWJStateObesity
How to not catch feelings so easily?
We are always all awash in feelings whether or not we acknowledge them. The key is to be aware of them as they happen, and willing to experience and observe without holding on. A meditation practice can help, as can getting perspective from a conversation with a trusted confidante, which can be a friend, a relative, or even a therapist or counselor. bit.ly/BC-counseling
Who is Gekyume
It’s all a little confusing, but the story seems to be that the rapper XXXTentacion invented the word before he was shot & killed last summer. Jenesis Sanchez had a baby early this year she claims is his (and is willing to get a DNA test to prove it), and named him Gekyume.
Is it true 49% of pregnancies are unplanned?
Roughly that in the US, down slightly to 45% in recent years, according to the CDC. bit.ly/CDCunintended
How to do things???
As mindfully and with as much forethought and planning as is practical in the circumstances, with some room also for spontaneity. Sometimes it’s emotionally hard to commit to action. Dare greatly! And be prepared to live with the discomfort of failure, because without that you risk the worst outcome: the absence of joy. If you find you can’t get moving on things you want or need to do, talk to the folks at BC Counseling: bit.ly/BC-counseling
how do you talk to boys?
Hm, humans all need to be listened to and acknowledged. So I listen carefully, and after some mindful reflection, I respond.
is it normal to see students hysterically crying in the lib during finals week?
It happens. Everyone is tired and under a lot of stress. Check and see if they need help, and if they do, let my helpers know.
how do you stop liking someone?
Try to build in distance from that person. And stop following your crush so closely on social media–virtual distance is critical. My helpers tell me it is possible to move from the obsession stage to the being very fond of someone stage, but not crushing on them.
this wall is yuuuge
Thank you. I’m not quite as yuuuge as some more famous walls, but I try to be as supportive as my size allows.
Would you rather flonkie a ronkie or conkie a grundle
I’d rather have hosted a post-it
Can I reserve a seat for final week in library?
The library is quite crowded during finals week and seats are not reservable. Finals are an exciting time for me with all the activity. I recommend arriving at the library early in the day, like 9:00 am, to find a spot. Check for alternative spaces here: bit.ly/FinalsSpace
Who is Ben Thomas?
There are lots. Why not ask him yourself?