My cousin the bell tower, in spite of their frequent ringing, is mute on the subject of access. There’s a clue (bit.ly/bells-clue) but it predates renovation. Here’s a bit of a virtual tour: http://bit.ly/BCM-gasson, and another: http://bit.ly/burnsblog-gasson.
I’m taking Quantum Mechanics but am not convinced it’s real. What do you think?
My helper is typing up this answer on a computer whose microchips involve quantum mechanics, and looking at the words on an LED screen which does too. But there’s really no way to know unless you take the class. Except that once you do, that changes the experimental conditions. It’s complicated. Here, read about a cat. http://bit.ly/bc-qm
I believe I’m a GEMINI but I’m not. Is it a bad thing?
I think you’re probably fine, whatever your sign. Do you mean that you have characteristics attributed to Gemini in astrology books? Take a look at some of the books on the 5th floor in the BF 1700 range; you might find some wisdom there.
In response to OISS email: I echo that BC should continue to list Taiwan, Hong Kong, and China seperately on the statistic website. Making the changes would be a form of oppression towards students from other non-China country. It would be very unwise during this sensitive time in regards to the Hong Kong protest as well.
I recommend you let OISS know directly by emailing them. I’m sure they’re hearing different perspectives on this issue. For those not in the know, the Office of International Students and Scholars at BC (bc.edu/offices/oiss) reports on numbers of students from different countries. Currently, the data differentiates the People’s Republic of China (PRC) from Hong Kong, Macau, and Taiwan; the PRC officially does not recognize these entities as separate from the PRC.
Why is BC counseling so overrun? I’ve been struggling with suicidal thoughts and they said that someone isn’t free to see me until December. Wow. I feel so valued.That was my experience last year as well!! You can reach out to the on-call PEC though, they will always have people that you can talk to in a timely manner. Or maybe crisis text line? text 741741 … their wait time is shorter than other hotlines, usually within 5 minutes~
It’s not just BC, mental health services at lots of schools are having trouble keeping up with increasing need for their services. http://bit.ly/bc-mental. WGBH also has a recent series on mental health at local schools http://bit.ly/bc-mental2. The suggestions above my note are solid ones that you can use immediately. And I see you. You are not alone.
Support Groups are more frequent and less crowded. + ask them to refer you to an off-campus therapist if you have blue cross Blue Shield
These are good ideas! I’ll see if my assistants can bring back my sidekick.
I hope you have a positive experience w/ UCS =) They’re all nice people working really hard to care for students.
BTW, Answer Wall ~ can we get the “kindness board” that you put up right next to you back here ~ looks like many ppl needs it!!!!
So tempting for any classic animation enthusiast, and lots of newer content as well. But I think I’ll be content with what the library offers me (and you): Popular movies on DVD right next to me, lots more DVDs across the lobby (check the catalog at library.bc.edu), and all the streaming options on this guide: bit.ly/StreamBC.
How do I approach a suitemate with some things that are bothering me without hurting her feelings?
First, let go of feeling responsibility for her reaction. It may sound cold & unfeeling, but you aren’t responsible anyone’s feelings but your own. That said, you can present your concerns in ways that are less or more effective or compassionate. Start with “I” statements; describe how you reacted & felt. Avoid “you” statements, which will be perceived as accusatory and likely encourage defensiveness. Finally, before you talk, clarify for yourself what your precise concerns are, and what you’re looking for in a response.
I think I may have been emotionally abused? Back home. I’m worried about my little brother. Any advice?
I’m really sorry to hear that. I recommend visiting counseling services (bit.ly/counseling). They can assess your situation and provide counseling and advice, and should be able to provide guidance about what you can do for your brother. (((((Wall Hug)))))
Why doesn’t UCS have a feedback mailbox or something similar? Many peer-institutions counseling services have some sort of feedback box or student committee that improves communications. I think that’s a more effective method of communication than bothering the answer wall or having student rumoring around.~
I had a helper communicate with the Director of UCS, Dr. Burns, and he responded: UCS conducts a period of open survey every semester systematically seeking student feedback and students are welcome to communicate feedback directly with the Director of UCS.
How do I stop myself from procrastinating? LOL even when I try to start my work early it never seems to help! 🙂
Get the assignment, the readings, data, etc. that you need for the project assembled on your desk/open on your computer. Open up whatever software you’ll be using to complete the project and create the file. Now you’re off to a running start. Or try working with a friend to hold yourselves accountable to deadlines (and set those deadlines comfortably ahead of due dates, because…. things happen.) And consider Academic Coaching at the CFLC to develop good time management habits: bit.ly/BC-connors.
THE BEST! For those who don’t know The Legend of 1900, it’s a treat of a film. Watch a clip: bit.ly/1900-storm-dance. You can also check out the full film and watch it: O’Neill Library, near Reference Collection, 3rd Floor: PN1997 .L4446 2002
How do I know if I should break up? I can’t see us together long-term and I don’t want to become the kind of person he is.
Ideally, communicating about your doubts will give you a better idea about what decision you should make. In regards to the future, what you see may be very different from what he sees. Discussing what you both want from your relationship hopefully leads to you making an informed decision about your futures.
Two questions: 1) What font are your responses? 2) What is your favorite font besides that one?
The responses are in Courier, derived from the font created for IBM selectric typewriters in the 1950’s. One of my other favorite fonts is a recent one: UglyGerry. Go to UglyGerry.com to see it for yourself, or @UglyGerry on Twitter.
How to accept your own flaw? One you have no control over.
One possibility is to think of it as a challenge, and all challenges are character-building. What you do to adapt to the flaw becomes part of your character – perhaps even one of the best parts of your character – that you wouldn’t have without the flaw. In essence, turn the “flaw” into a source of growth, something that anyone without that flaw doesn’t get to experience. Another possibility: recognize that everyone has limitations of one kind or another, many of them invisible. IOW, you aren’t alone in the challenge of accepting yourself as you are.
What’s up with the weird sculptures/art at the main lobby? They look super interesting.
The “sculpture” is actually display shelving designed and built by Prof. Mark Cooper. Students in the ceramics classes will be displaying their artwork on the shelves. The exhibit will be up from Nov 18th to mid-December.
Why can’t I focus on study when I stay with my friends???
Because they are great friends and just too much fun! Three possible solutions: find some study buddies who aren’t your regular friends, but are very serious students; make a pact with your friends to study for x amount of time and reward yourselves with a specific fun activity; or make studying a solitary habit, and meet up with your friends later.