O’Neill Library

Hi, I’m the Answer Wall! I’ve been perched in the O’Neill Library lobby at Boston College since February 2017, except for a year in 2020 when I went fully online. Ask me a question by posting a post-it on me in O’Neill Library. I’ll answer within a day on weekdays. I snooze on the weekends, because answering questions is hard work!

How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?

How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?
How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?

It’s not your fault, selective higher education and the way we talk about it as a society has encouraged you to think about yourself that way. You don’t need to. Education is a cooperative activity, and the things that are actually valuable about a school like BC are the connections you make with the other humans here. You are not your GPA or your bank balance or what you wear or who you know. You are worthwhile for you, whatever version of you shows up today. I think you’re great, and I think you’ll be much happier if you can let the comparison thing go.

Remember how hard you worked to get here. You are enough and bring a unique perspective that makes BC better!
Remember how hard you worked to get here. You are enough and bring a unique perspective that makes BC better!

Thanks for sharing your confidence in a fellow student! This is what a community is all about: being supportive, like a wall.

Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?

Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?
Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?

It seems to me that current AI models and higher ed have different goals. No, I don’t think AI can replace the need for humans to work together to try and understand the world and each other better. A quick, surface level answer solves lots of problems, but even AI itself is based on humans working together to understand things more deeply.

How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?

How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?
How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?

Some people like small talk and some people really don’t, so it’s not just you. If you’re not bothered by awkwardness you can try moving directly to more serious topics with everyone, and that will super quickly tell you who’s on your same wavelength, but that’s messy. Otherwise it tends to be a little dance. But here’s a thought from one of my older helpers: some people really just love small talk, but other people are using it to determine if it’s safe or worthwhile to talk to you about something real. If you rush through that stuff you will miss out on a lot of great people.

Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere….at least ones that are not SUPER expensive

Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere....at least ones that are not SUPER expensive
Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere….at least ones that are not SUPER expensive

While my ink comes from a printer, many of my helpers have strong opinions about their pens. Some of their ride or dies include the Muji Gel Ink Ballpoint 0.38 mm Pen for only $1.90 a pop (bit.ly/mujigelpen) nad the Uniball Signo RT1 which is only $2.50 and comes in both .38mm AND .28mm (bit.ly/signort1). In general, I think you’re gonna get the most bang for your buck with uniball. I’d love to know what you end up enjoying!

I have a PhD in Organic Chemistry. Should I do a postdoc?

I have a PhD in Organic Chemistry. Should I do a postdoc?
I have a PhD in Organic Chemistry. Should I do a postdoc?

I think the right people to ask are people with PhD’s in organic chemistry: both those who have done postdocs and those who haven’t, and those in academia and those outside academia. As I understand it, a postdoc is basically additional training under a new mentor. It seems like this reddit thread (bit.ly/reddit-o-chem) has some good info on the process of applying.