I’m trying to get closer to/get to know a guy better, but I am SO BAD at conversation…

You can practice with friends (of any gender) if you can open up to them about your concerns. You might be able to come up with a physical trigger to stop the laughter like pressing on your jaw. In any case you are very courageous to put yourself out there and I have faith you can do it.

When you set aside your fears & anxieties, talking to guys is just like talking to women. You find some common ground through trial and error, and overlook the awkwardness that’s inevitable when you’re getting to know someone. Oh, and tell your inner voices saying critical or discouraging things that you appreciate their help but don’t need them right now.

As a guy, you just giving us the time of day is more than enough lol we are so scared of being seen as weird or creepy
As a guy, you just giving us the time of day is more than enough lol we are so scared of being seen as weird or creepy

It sounds very challenging!