How do I distinguish between friends of the ~GOOD~ and friends of the utility?

I’m afraid I invested in the wrong relationships over the last 3.75 years. 🙁

It sounds like something happened that has broken your trust with friends. 😢 I’m really sorry that happened. If some friends are not maintaining contact as much as you’d like during this crisis, I’d advise giving them some room. We’re all reacting to this in different ways. Some are reaching out, others are closing down. As to how to pick friends? Extend trust & see what happens. Sadly, there’s no formula.