
Because you are uniquely you. Though you may have troubles now, you will get through them! I have total faith in you.
Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
That depends entirely on how he treats you. If he acts at all like there’s a power imbalance or infantilizes you because of the age difference, absolutely not. If he treats you as an equal partner, then maybe. Eight years is still a big age gap if you’re in school and your partner isn’t because of that potential imbalance that’s less likely to be as prominent if you were both more established in your adult lives. Just procede with caution.
They should. What kind of love is conditional on your grades? Not saying they won’t be disappointed or give you a lecture, but it should not change their underlying love for you at all. Most of my helpers tell me they have done worse than they would like in a course and felt it was the end of the world at the time… and it was not.
Yes. “Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only with what you are expecting to give – which is everything”-Katherine Hepburn.
I love our community – I love it especially when our community lifts up and supports each other. As a Wall, I’m all about lifting up and strong support features <3
I can’t predict the future, but my hope is yes for you. If you feel like you need to talk to someone about how you’re feeling, though, please reach out to BC counseling: bit.ly/BC-counseling
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If you are considering working through your own opinions on this question, may I recommend reading what scholars have written, reading lived accounts of people who have had to make this choice, reading accounts from history, etc. You could start with some books on the 4th floor of O’Neill in the HQ767.15 section and chat with any reference librarian to get other perspectives from other disciplines.
There are a bunch of problems with infinity as a concept. Here’s a starter discussion with a great bibliography: https://stanford.io/3OXSxzn