
It all depends on what your looking for in food, ambience & convenience. See what’s open (https://bit.ly/BC-dining-hours) and go exploring! If you’re in O’Neill & hungry, the closest is Hillside, right out our back door.

Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

My Library helpers and their colleagues have a few favorite comfort movies to share:
13 Going on 30
Babe: Pig in the City
Before Sunset
Belfast
The Big Year (1996)
The Blues Brothers
Chicago
Cool Hand Luke
Dirty Dancing
The Fifth Element
A Fish Called Wanda
Heavenly Creatures
It’s a Wonderful Life
Kiki’s Delivery Service
A Knight’s Tale
Moonstruck
My Cousin Vinny
My Life as a Dog
National Treasure
No Country for Old Men
O, Brother, Where Art Thou?
The Place Beyond the Pines
The Prince of Egypt
The Princess Bride
Pride and Prejudice
Riding in Cars with Boys
Singin’ in the Rain
Some Like it Hot
Something’s Gotta Give
The Sound of Music
Swingers
Titanic

Welcome! You will make friends, but you may need to be a bit more proactive than students who have their res halls to provide a context for socializing. Reach out to students in your classes, get involved in extracurricular activities (including ones for off-campus students, like Taste of Off-Campus bit.ly/BCTasteOC.)

When you ask a Wall about common knowledge, you’ll hear all about how I don’t often know what humans consider common knowledge. And since I’m a Wall in a Library, I often find myself missing allusions. This Oxford Dictionary of Allusions can help up anyone’s allusion game: https://bc-primo.hosted.exlibrisgroup.com/permalink/f/l6ucgu/ALMA-BC21374928660001021
Sounds like you might want to check in with a math teacher or professor! Here’s an open source statistics textbook that might help you: https://openstax.org/details/books/introductory-statistics

I would like to think so (I find humans lean on each other, and me, for support and kindness). But you can explore whether you think so too alongside philosophers who have been trying to figure this out for millenia. Maybe start with the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy’s entry on Human Nature: https://stanford.io/3ALMtol
This is really not uncommon. And remember, whatever you decide now does not have to be your career forever; people often change jobs and career paths throughout their working lives. If you are a Boston College student, I highly recommend scheduling a consultation with the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career).

My Library helpers and their colleagues gathered their favorite study spots:
Favorite places to study:
Hidden Nooks and Small Spaces:
Graduate study spots outside of O’Neill:

Please don’t suffer alone. Counseling Services (http://bit.ly/BC-counseling) is a good place to start. Lots of warm Wall hugs to you, and yes, it does get better.
![How do you type your responses? Is it a machine? It is magic? [shrugging shoulder drawing]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/aw08242022-1-1024x998.jpg)
I could never manage it on my own, but my helpers use a printed template with boxes for the Post-Its to feed into the printer and then they type in the answers on another template with the same layout. It does seem a bit magical to me!
![Will I get a 528 on the MCAT? [crying face drawing] (What should I do if I get a 487?)](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/aw08242022-2-1024x975.jpg)
A perfect MCAT score s pretty rare and y don’t need a 528 to become a doctor. I advise you to do your best and then work with the results – and consult with the BC pre-med advisors (bit.ly/PreMedBC) throughout the process. You can re-take the exam and take other steps to become a more competitive candidate if you get a low score. Best of luck!

My Library helpers and their colleagues have some sad movie recommendations.
![Must do things before graduation? -where should we go? - what should we eat? [crossed off partial questions and a drawing of a face sticking out its tongue]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/aw08242022-5-1024x979.jpg)
My Library helpers and their colleagues have a few ideas on what to make sure you do before graduation.
Places to visit:
Places and things to eat:

For what they’re worth (not much), the US News rankings have BC and BU tied for #11 with several other schools. The real way to pick a grad school is to pick the one that has faculty and/or programs working on the things you want to work on. Talk to other grad students there about who makes a good advisor.

We can all (LGBTQ & allies) encourage & promote the use of pronouns by doing things like posting a question like yours in a public space, for example. Community efforts are often stronger. If you’re a student, you might find it helpful to connect with the LGBTQ community thorugh the office of student outreach & support (bit.ly/bc-stu-support). Staff can connect via LGBT@BC: bit.ly/lgbt-at-bc.
I have some good news—it does not have to feel like this forever. Feelings of guilt and self-hatred are terribly difficult, but since they are learned, they can also be unlearned over time. I firmly believe that finding community and actively seeking out representation is the path towards learning to love yourself exactly as you are. When we find community that accepts us—and when we see people like us finding joy, whether it be in real life, TV, movies, or books—we begin to learn that there is so much good to be found in embracing who we know ourselves to be, regardless of what others consider “normal.” We have to remember that if we try to live inauthentically to please someone else, everyone loses.
Telling the people we love the most can be very hard and scary. There are many groups at Boston College full of people who have gone through similar experiences, and I suggest you reach out to find community and support. Check it out! https://www.bc.edu/content/bc-web/offices/student-affairs/sites/student-outreach-and-support-services/lgbtq-support.html#tab-discussion_groups