What is your favourite song?

What is your favourite song?
What is your favourite song?

My library helpers have volunteered their favorites: Bach, Cello Suite No. 1 in G Major, Prélude Shady Grove Ivy by Taylor Swift, All the Young Dudes / Mott the Hoople, Golden Years by David Bowie, any song by JayZ, Choo Choo Gatagoto by Haruomi Hosono, Silk Chiffon by MUNA ft Phoebe Bridgers, Metallica – One, Help Me by Joni Mitchell, Moon River– Audrey Kathleen Hepburn-Ruston, She Belongs To Me by Bob Dylan, The Race Is On by George Jones, The Boxer by Simon & Garfunkel, Here, There, and Everywhere by The Beatles, Hedwig and the Angry Inch – The Origin of Love, Layla – Derek & The Dominos, Grounded by Pavement, Fearless by Pink Floyd, Round Midnight, Thelonius Monk – lyrics Bernie Hanighen, When You Walk Through A Storm

Do I drop out?

Do I drop out? Or transfer?
Do I drop out? Or transfer?

Selfishly, I hope you stay. But if that is no longer a viable or good course of action for you, I strongly recommend you talk to your academic advisor as soon as possible to discuss your options. Whatever you choose, wishing you a bright future!

How are you, really?

How are you, really?
How are you, really?

I am safe, I am healthy (as healthy as a wall can be), and I am surrounded by a community that writes to me. I am so grateful to exist and be in conversation with all of you. Thank you for asking <3.

Where can I reach out for help if I live off-campus but have issues with roommate (who is also a BC student)?

Where can I reach out for help if I live off-campus but have issues with roommate (who is also a BC student)?
Where can I reach out for help if I live off-campus but have issues with roommate (who is also a BC student)?

Humans – can’t live with ’em, can’t live without ’em! I chatted with a friendly wall in ResLife, and they said you can reach out to Off Campus Housing (offcampus@bc.edu) and let them know the situation. They can advise you and/or mediate. Wishing you both peace!

I’m stressed out yo

I’m stressed out yo

You are not alone – I am seeing much a lot of stressed out students! But there are ways to cope with stress and make it less.. stressful. The Center for Student Wellness (bit.ly/BC-health-promo) can help you with online resources and even individual peer wellness coaching sessions.

Stormcloak or Imperial?

Stormcloak or Imperial?
Stormcloak or Imperial?

Well, I don’t really play video games because I’m a wall and don’t have hands. From reading this article (bit.ly/skyrim-sides) however, it doesn’t sound like the values of either of these groups line up with Boston College’s values of inclusion. This is because the Stormcloaks supposedly aren’t tollerant of anyone who isn’t a Nord and the Imperials don’t want to allow the Stormcloaks to practice their religion freely. Other than that, there doesn’t seem to be any benefit of one group over the other game wise. Happy gaming!

I failed my midterm and felt so sad? How could 2/I do?

I failed my midterm and felt so sad? How could 2/I do?
I failed my midterm and felt so sad? How could 2/I do?

Failing an exam is painful and it is something almost all of us go through at some point. I recommend moving on and working towards improving. Do talk to your professor at their office hours (that’s what they’re for) and go for peer tutoring at the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors). I have faith in you.

Conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change.

To what degree should I have conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change....or just accept who they are?
To what degree should I have conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change….or just accept who they are?

It depends on the behavior and what kind of relationship you want to have with the person. But better to say something early than pretend you’re OK with something you’re not. It might be no big deal, or it might be, but you’ll only find out by saying something.

How racially segregated is Boston today? How safe would a black person be in Southie, or a white person in Roxbury?

How racially segregated is Boston today? How safe would a black person be in Southie, or a white person in Roxbury?
How racially segregated is Boston today? How safe would a black person be in Southie, or a white person in Roxbury?

Sadly, quite segregated. In 2019, Boston was 18th (of 113) of the most segregated cities >200,000 pop., according to the Othering & Belonging Institute at Berkeley (bit.ly/SegregationUCB). The percentages of Black residents in Southie and white residents in Roxbury are low (see Analyze Boston data: bit.ly/BostonDemoData). “Safe” is hard to define, but racially motivated hate crimes rates in Massachusetts haven’t changed much recently.