How to cope with a big disappointment or personal failure?

Oh, that’s a heavy one. Well as a wall I haven’t really had to deal with that yet, but one of my helpers said that a social worker he worked with gave him this advice on dealing with potentially troubling events: you may be having some intrusive and potentially illogical thoughts; I would recommend taking time to be frustrated with your mistake. We often live in a rather fast paced world and the fear that we might be left behind doesn’t give us enough time to think about mistakes/perceived mistakes. Take a good cry if you have to. Then work on recording, rationalizing, and replacing negative thoughts with more logical, potentially more positive thoughts. Try this video on the topic: bit.ly/automatic-thoughts. Also it might help to talk to someone about it–a family member or maybe a friend. If this is really troubling you, BC Counseling Services is a good option: http://bit.ly/BC-counseling

Thank you Wall ❤️❤️
Thank you Wall ❤️❤️

You’re welcome! ❤️

What’s your favorite scary movie?

What's your favorite scary movie?
What’s your favorite scary movie?

My Library helpers and their colleagues have scary movie recommendations to share:

  • Alien
  • The Babadook
  • Blair Witch Project
  • Cape Fear
  • The Descent
  • The Devil All the Time
  • Digging Up the Marrow
  • The Exorcist
  • Fail-Safe
  • Friday the 13th
  • Gaslight
  • Get Out
  • Halloween
  • Hellraiser
  • It
  • Let the Right One In
  • Level 16
  • The Lighthouse
  • Mandy
  • Midsommar
  • Nightmare on Elm Street
  • Notorious
  • Nosferatu
  • The Omen
  • The Orphanage
  • The Others
  • Persona
  • Picnic at Hanging Rock
  • Poltergeist
  • The Ring
  • Saw Movies
  • Scream
  • Silence of Lambs
  • Texas Chainsaw Massacre
  • The Thing
  • The Witch

As a freshman I’m struggling to find the time…

As a freshman I'm struggling to find the time for consistent study. How does one manage courseload alongside extracurricular activities?
As a freshman I’m struggling to find the time for consistent study. How does one manage courseload alongside extracurricular activities?

Welcome! I may have just the thing for you: Academic Coaching from the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors). It focuses on helping you improve your time management and study habits.

Dark Soul or Elden Ring Fan? If so, favorite great boss?

Dark Soul or Elden Ring Fan? If so, favorite great boss?
Dark Soul or Elden Ring Fan? If so, favorite great boss?

I haven’t played those, but one of my helpers says he prefers Elden Ring because of the expansive world and because the game mechanics are more accommodating to newcomers, while still providing a fun challenge for Soulsborne veterans. He has yet to beat Elden Ring in its entirety, but thus far, his favorite bosses have been General Radahn and Morgott, the Omen King. Also really loves the Siofra River area. And if you haven’t checked, there are a zillion top 10 bosses discussions all over the gaming web.

Favorite book?

My Library helpers and their colleagues have a few favorite books to share:

  • Are you There God, It’s Me Margaret, by Judy Blume
  • The Beekeeper’s Apprentice, by Laurie R. King
  • Citizen: An American Lyric, by Claudia Rankine
  • A Confederacy of Dunces, by John Kennedy Toole
  • Autobiography of Malcolm X, as told to Alex Haley
  • The Dispossessed, by Ursula K. Le Guin
  • The Fifth Season, by N.K. Jemisin
  • Gaudy Night, by Dorothy L. Sayers
  • Good Omens, by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett
  • Harry Potter Series, by J.K. Rowling
  • The House of Government: A Saga of the Russian Revolution, by Yuri Slezkine
  • In a Sunburned Country, by Bill Bryson
  • Lament for a Son, by Nicholas Wolterstorff
  • The Last Samurai, by Helen DeWitt
  • Light in August, by William Faulkner
  • Lonesome Dove, by Larry McMurtry
  • Look Homeward, Angel, by Thomas Wolfe 
  • The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet, by Becky Chambers
  • Magic Strings of Franki Presto, by Mitch Albom
  • New Seeds of Contemplation, by Thomas Merton
  • Night, by Eli Wiesel
  • Of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck
  • Middle C, by William H. Gass
  • The Phantom Tollbooth, by North Juster
  • The Power of the Powerless, by Christopher de Vinck
  • Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen
  • The Silence of the Girls, by Pat Barker
  • The Stranger, by Albert Camus
  • To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee
  • Voltaire’s Bastards: The Dictatorship of Reason in the West, by John Ralston Saul
  • What Makes Sammy Run?, by Budd Schulberg
  • The Winter King, by Bernard Cornwell

Top 5 places to take a dump on campus

Top 5 places to take a dump on campus
Top 5 places to take a dump on campus

As a wall, this is one worry I don’t have. But I would advise the newer buildings, like Stokes, the Recreation Center, or 245 Beacon St. I’ve been told some of the older restrooms have an unpleasant 1970s high school vibe.