1 Don’t visit Grad Cafe.

#1 Don't visit Grad Cafe.
#1 Don’t visit Grad Cafe.

Yes, don’t! Social media already creates too many chances to worry about how you compare to others. Grad Cafe sounds like a really good place to go if you want to focus on your own perceived inadequacies & anxieties.

Any advise for upcoming sem? (freshman)

Any advise for upcoming sem? (freshman)
Any advise for upcoming sem? (freshman)

When it finally snows, the campus becomes even more beautiful. Get outside! You may find that midterm due dates and exams are densely concentrated right before spring break. Start study and projects early so you’re not trying to do 5 things at once right up to your departure. After mid-March, the weather starts to heat up: make sure you get outdoors when it’s over 60 degrees again! Come April, you’ll see flowers all over campus; don’t take your cues from Seniors, who will have senioritis.

When can I find a permanent partner/soulmate?

When can I find a permanent partner/soulmate?
When can I find a permanent partner/soulmate?

Maybe right here in O’Neill. But it could be anywhere! You just never know, but expanding your social circle can make it more likely.

Pretend this is yellow: when you go to TUFTS.

Pretend this is yellow: when you go to TUFTS.
Pretend this is yellow: when you go to TUFTS.

Well I don’t know why the color of the sticky note would make any difference in this context. But among Tufts University’s 12,219 students I am sure there is someone that you might find to be a good partner/soulmate!

I’m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I’m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but … ACK

I'm having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I'm so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but ... ACK
I’m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my ❤️ and his and we both need each other. I’m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but … ACK

Maybe you’d both benefit more from a break than a break-up? Spending some time apart may help you both get a clearer understanding of your own needs.

Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?

Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?
Do you think there are more doors or wheels in the world?

Definitely more wheels than doors. Fun fact: Lego (the company) makes more tires than any other company in the world! So they make enough wheels for me to feel confident that there are more wheels than doors. Wheee!

Interesting just to be clear when I say wheels I mean pullys can also be included and for doors I also include cabinets, cardoors, is your answer still the same?
Interesting just to be clear when I say wheels I mean pullys can also be included and for doors I also include cabinets, cardoors, is your answer still the same?

If we include pulleys, it seems as if we also ought to include gears. Think of all the mechanisms! In that case, I support my earlier answer: wheeeeeeels! (Can you tell I long for movement?)

How to find one’s own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?

How to find one's own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?
How to find one’s own value? Why do I feel like I am not good at anything?

You have value as a human being, regardless of your skills or lack of them in any area. Getting good at things is something we work towards throughout life. Many other folks around you are also insecure about their abilities, even if you can’t see it. Don’t despai, just keep learning and growing!