I can’t find LOTR here. Where is it?

I can't find LOTR here. Where is it?
I can’t find LOTR here. Where is it?

The films are at the O’Neill circulation desk. The copies of the book series at O’Neill are all out. The theology and ministry library on the Brighton campus has a copy, though Fellowship of the Ring (book 1) is checked out and due back on Oct 22.

I think something is wrong with me. I have trouble putting things in my own words do understand what I read or when ppl talk to me – what is this call?

I think something is wrong with me. I have trouble putting things in my own words do understand what I read or when ppl talk to me - what is this call?
I think something is wrong with me. I have trouble putting things in my own words do understand what I read or when ppl talk to me – what is this call?

I don’t know, but if you’re concerned, perhaps you should arrange a meeting with a psychologist with a specialty in learning. If you’re not sure how to go about that, contact Kathy Duggan at the Connors Family Learning Center: kathleen.duggan@bc.edu.

What’s your favorite poem?

What's your favorite poem?
What’s your favorite poem?

My Library helpers and their colleagues have a few favorite poems to share. (To find links to some of the poems, visit this link: bit.ly/favoritepoems):

How do you move on from your ex?

How do you move on from your ex? It's been a month since we broke up, and at times I feel okay, but others, like now, I feel so empty and alone and depressed. What can I do besides "loving myself" and all that?
How do you move on from your ex? It’s been a month since we broke up, and at times I feel okay, but others, like now, I feel so empty and alone and depressed. What can I do besides “loving myself” and all that?

Don’t dismiss loving yourself! You’re awesome! But if you’re having difficulty moving on, or depressed, it would probably help to talk to someone, such as a counselor at BC’s Counseling Services: bit.ly/BC-counseling

What is the most pure emotion?

What is the most pure emotion?
What is the most pure emotion?

Sadness and joy both come to mind. But really, all emotions are pure. Sometimes one experiences several at a time, but that doesn’t mean they’re not pure, just mixed. Also, sometimes people aren’t really aware what emotions they’re experiencing, but that doesn’t mean they’re not experiencing them or that they’re not pure. Emotions are what they are. It’s how we respond that matters.

Why can’t we get the Boston Globe?

While I enjoy having NY Times and WA Post online subscriptions avaiilable, why can't we get the Boston Globe?
While I enjoy having NY Times and WA Post online subscriptions avaiilable, why can’t we get the Boston Globe?

We’re talking to them about it, but at the moment they want to charge us more for it than for the other two combined…and both are pricey. We do have access to it through our databases though, so you can use this link to search for things you’ve seen on the web, or to browse through each day’s issue: https://bit.ly/bc-globe

Someone help with globalization I!(drawn heart)

Someone help with globalization I!(drawn heart)
Someone help with globalization I!(drawn heart)

There is help for Globalization I (and all your other courses) with peer tutoring at the Connocrs Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors). Also, do make use of your professor’s office hours to discuss your problem areas and how to best understand the material.

What do I do if I like one of my guy friends?

What do I do if I like one of my guy friends?
What do I do if I like one of my guy friends?

Telling a friend they’re more than a friend, no matter the gender, can be challenging. It depends on what the risks are and what you’re willing to risk, and then what you do in the face of uncertainty. I recommend confiding in someone who can support you no matter what happens.

How do you stay well?

How do you stay well? (drawing of arrow along bottom of note as well as across 2 notes to it's left)
How do you stay well? (drawing of arrow along bottom of note as well as across 2 notes to it's left)
How do you stay well? (drawing of arrow along bottom of note as well as across 2 notes to it's left)
How do you stay well? (drawing of arrow along bottom of note as well as across 2 notes to it’s left)

The basics are both simple and yet quite challenging to put into practice. Good sleep, healthy eating, regular exercise, and managing your stress can have very good outcomes. For coaching to start and maintain these habits, contact the Office for Health Promotion (bit.ly/BC-health-promo).

What is the difference between romantic and platonic love?

What is the difference between romantic and platonic love?
What is the difference between romantic and platonic love?

The Greeks had many different words for love, such as agápe (and love of god for man & vice versa, and “to will the good of another” –Aquinas), éros (romantic, sexual love), philia (affectionate regard between equals, such as friends), and xenia (hospitality for guests and foreigners), among others. Platonic could be just about any of these except éros, but most likely philia. For more info on philia read Plato’s Nicomachean Ethics. O’Neill Library 5th floor at B430.A5 O7.