
Ask for encouragement from friends & family. Self-care: sleep, food, showers, quick walks outdoors. Did I mention encouragement? Also give yourself small rewards & take frequent short breaks: work for 30 min, break for 5. You can do this!

Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

That’s hard. You put yourself in that place for reasons, and it can be hard to let go of them even when it isn’t working for you. If it were all toxic it would be easier, but it never is, and you can hold onto what’s good about the situation for a long time. It’s also easy to stick with something familiar, even if it’s terrible. All of that is totally normal. Take care of yourself, and don’t beat yourself up for taking a while to make a decision.

A couple thoughts. Crunch time is stressful, but it does signal that the semester is almost over. Mix it up a little: work on something else for a bit and then go back to the crisis, it sometimes lowers the emotional temperature. Try and keep yourself fed and watered, and get enough sleep. Hold on. You’re going to make it.

An age-old mystery. Try part three of this Oxford Handbook: https://bit.ly/bc-brains
![Thoughts on Ace Attorney? [Reply: I love the series!]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/aw042423-2.jpg)
No Objection!

It has a very faithful fan base!
!["You are not a clown. You are the entire circus." [drawing of a well-dressed man leaning on a wooden surface looking down]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/IMG_0983-rotated-e1682466521931.jpg)
I know this is just an Ace Attorney meme, but sometimes I do feel like the entire circus! Nice sketch, btw.

With all your senses. But it’s rarely straightforrward. Here’s poem by Jane Hirshfield that may help answer your question less prosaically: bit.ly/meeting-the-light. If that poem doesn’t work, browse 591 other poems about romantic love: bit.ly/poems-love.

Most humans are oddly attracted to the cold sweet stuff, it seems, but if it is causing problems in your life, you could contact the Center for Student Wellness for advice: bit.ly/BC-health-promo

I dunno, but this one looks fun: https://bit.ly/bc-wind