Where can we leave our things during summer break?

Where can we leave our things during summer break? Do you have any tips?
Where can we leave our things during summer break? Do you have any tips?

If you can’t take it home with you for whatever reason, one option might be to use a storage service in Boston. There are enough students in town that there are several local businesses who can arrange to pick up your stuff and store it. I can’t do product recommendations, but Google is your friend.

I got pretty scary news today

I got pretty scary news today...
I got pretty scary news today…

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. I’m a Wall and can offer physical support – but I urge you to find folks and resources to support you specifically in other ways as you navigate this scary news. Please consider reaching out to BC’s Counseling Services: bit.ly/BC-counseling

逆风如解意,容易莫摧残

逆风如解意,容易莫摧残。[nì fēng rú jiě yì , róng yì mò cuī cán. If the north wind can understand Plum Blossom's intentions, please stop torturing her.] 新年快乐!xīn nián kuài lè ! Happy New Year!] [drawing of rabbit]
逆风如解意,容易莫摧残。[nì fēng rú jiě yì , róng yì mò cuī cán. If the north wind can understand Plum Blossom’s intentions, please stop torturing her.] 新年快乐!xīn nián kuài lè ! Happy New Year!] [drawing of rabbit]

Wanting winter to leave and spring to hurry up seems universal & timeless, and represented beautifully in this excerpt from Tang Dynasty a poem by Cui Daorong. For those who don’t read Chinese: “If the north wind can understand Plum Blossom’s intentions, please stop torturing her.” The post adds “Happy New Year!” Happy New Year to you, to, and may it bring spring’s blossoms soon!

How to stop crushing on guys? It’s a major distraction from my studies

How to stop crushing on guys? It's a major distraction from my studies
How to stop crushing on guys? It’s a major distraction from my studies

That’s tough, because sexual attraction is such a basic part of being a human (or not human; I get distracted by the sight of my beloved O’Neill Lobby Door). Mindfullness techniques may help you limit the distractions. You might also consider academic coaching from the Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors) to build productive study skills.

How does one get over a girl?

How does one get over a girl?
How does one get over a girl?

One faces and mourns the loss, then finds comfort in the company of friends and/or one’s pursuit of one’s own passions & dreams. This Answer Wall believes there are many possible soul-mates, and you’ll find one of them by being your most authentic self.

I’ve wanted to study my major since I was young…

I've wanted to study my major since I was young, but the more time that passes, the more I realize I'm not intellectually built for it. Almost everyone I know is telling me to switch but I don't what what to do...
I’ve wanted to study my major since I was young, but the more time that passes, the more I realize I’m not intellectually built for it. Almost everyone I know is telling me to switch but I don’t what what to do…

This is part of what being at a university is about. For the most part your major does not equal your career – and you career can change direction through life as well. I recommend chatting with your advisor and with the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career) as you think this through.

How do you fight the feeling of giving up?

How do you fight the feeling of giving up?
How do you fight the feeling of giving up?

That feeling is called despair, and you fight it by naming it, then marshalling sufficient forces to fight it. Depending on how much of your life the feeling controls, you may ultimately need some combination of: friends, family, mentor(s), BC advisor and/or trusted faculty or staff, religious or spiritual faith, BC counseling… . But start small: tell one trusted friend and perhaps one BC peer wellness coach (bit.ly/BC-wellness-coach) that you’re feeling despair. One small step at a time. You’ll get there, and you’ll do great things, I know it.

Hold on to the next second.

Hold on to the next second.
Hold on to the next second.

Yes. It absolutely works to worry about a second, an hour, a day at a time, whatever amount you can handle on any given day.

Which is better, Babysitters Club or the Boxcar Children?

Which is better, Babysitters Club or the Boxcar Children? [initials redacted]
Which is better, Babysitters Club or the Boxcar Children? [initials redacted]

Both definitely evoke childhood nostalgia, though your birth year might impact which series feels the most nostalgic for you. The first Boxcar Children mystery came out in the 1920s and new books are still being published, while the Babysitters Club books are a reflection of the 1980s and 90s when they were written. Both are still wildly popular, inspiring TV and graphic novel adaptations, so I’d call it a tie.

Where does our $84K in tuition go?

Where does our $84K in tuition go?
Where does our $84K in tuition go?

According to the National Association of College and University Business Officers, at most universities the majority of tuition goes towards faculty and staff pay and benefits, but also towards facilities of all sorts and technology (see: bit.ly/TuitionForWhat). Also, most BC students are not paying the full cost of tuition (bit.ly/BCHowMuch)

<–Towards the athletics that lose to BU

Are you talking football, because, well, um…