Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
![怎样去爱别人zěn yàng qù ài bié rén [How to love others?]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/AW12132023-4.jpg)
How to love others? With some virtues that harmonize with love: patience, trust, care, gratitude, humor, empathy, and loyalty. Just take care that if you only ever get few of those in return, your love might be misplaced.
You don’t have to achieve a state of perfection – people continue to grow throughout life. If you are willing to be open and keep the other person’s best interests in mind, you are ready. But maybe take things slow if you are unsure.
It often depends on the person, in my limited experience as a wall. I have noticed that listening to people is often the first step, and from that listening you will get insight into what else will show them you care.
![Happy Holidays [drawing of Christmas tree in front of chimney]](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/AW12132023-1.jpg)
Awwwww, sweet! Happy holidays to you, too!
MRX, BALEGD! Or, alternatively, are you promoting Max Balegde’s YouTube channel? Interesting guy.
Do it! Right here in front of me! I wish I could dua lipa with you.
Keep the faith!
Totally agree. BC was a different school when this library was built. It’d be great to have some more space for everyone, and for other stuff the library folk would like to do. Also, more wall friends for me.
YES
That can be a frustrating scene!
Sadly, no. But check out some virtual pet therapy here: bit.ly/BCVirtPets
A vibrant, energetic whirlwind that left this wall buzzing with its catchy beats and colorful tunes. Another Nicki classic.
Fine, thank you. Very glad to be inside and not blowing around all over the place in the wind.
Scattering of sunlight is more effective in the short wavelength (blue/violet) part of the spectrum, so the sky appears blue (but not today, because clouds and rain tend to mask that!). See: hyperphysics.phy-astr.gsu.edu/hbase/atmos/blusky.html for a more thorough explanation.
B(est) C(ollege).
His Moth joke is one of the best uses of comic timing I have ever seen anyone do.
Real? It’s manga. The best selling manga series of all time, actually. That much is certainly real!
it is always hard to miss family. Finding ways to connect virtually is often a good starting point, although the missing won’t go totally away.
I’m just a wall. I’m not sure how you humans go about this. You could ask someone to be your boyfriend although you cannot guarantee they’ll say yes, so prepare for possible disappointment. But most importantly, be yourself.
We communicate frequently on a network called Between the Walls; sometimes she is hard to reach if there are high winds and waves accompanied by a spring tide, though.
Oh, Bunny, you’re a good dog!
