Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
Habits can be hard to break, but if you want to change something about yourself, make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons. What does being dramatic do for you? Are there other ways you can get that effect? Here’s a solid outline of an approach you could try: bit.ly/bc-drama
BC’s Campus Ministry would be happy to help with that. There are lots of Catholic-oriented programs, naturally, but also programs and groups for other faiths as well. The office is next to the Eagle’s Nest in McElroy, or you can visit them on the web: bit.ly/BC-ministry
The Wall isn’t sure if you mean employees as snacks, or snacks for employees. The former is alarming; I would not recommend it. As for the latter, some of my helpers spend too much time and money with my buddies, the lovely vending machines on Level 1. There’s a wide variety, and you don’t have to leave O’Neill. Pro tip from anonymous expert snacker: Level 2, across the atrium, turn right: This one has Twizzlers!
One – think donut. See the topological proof here: bit.ly/oneholestraw. For more topological math games, see bit.ly/topomathgames
![What is the meaning of life? [Answered] The meaning of life is that you are someone else's meaning of life :)](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aw090418-7.jpg)
Truth is I canāt tell you what your meaning of life is; I think we all need to figure it out for ourselves. Did you know that a search of the phrase āmeaning of lifeā in the library catalog produces 244 results? A lot of people are trying to figure this out. This online book provides one short introduction (bit.ly/meaningoflifeintro). And this book provides some different perspectives for you to think about (bit.ly/meaningoflife2). And then thereās always the Monty Python take on it: PN1997 .M424 2003 (but checked out right now, alas).
First, go ahead and listen to songs about heartbreak and cry. Then find completeness within yourself. Options: friends, religion, mindfulness meditation, therapy, lots of ice-creamā¦ or just learning to enjoy who you are and what you do without looking for validation from other people. You have my sympathy. If you really canāt shake it, counseling services have some better suggestions: bit.ly/BC-counseling
As a wall, I’ve never had coffee myself. But my human friends make a good argument that the Chocolate Bar in Stokes has the best coffee, followed closely by Hillside.
It must be frustrating when others don’t share or voice your pressing, legitimate concerns. But people can also care about a multitude of things. That person who cares about late-night might also care about racist incidents, but might need this very reminder. Nor is their concern for late-night necessarily universal. Keep having conversations about what’s important to you, and find people who help amplify those concerns. I know it can be tiring. To keep your faith in humanity, focus on the times that earn your faith more than the times that don’t.
According to the poet, truth is beauty, and that is all you need to know. bit.ly/bc-keats
Hang in there! Breathe! There is a lot going on at the beginning of the semester and it can be difficult to find the time for everything. I understand there is a Study Abroad Fair on Sept. 12 (Conte Forum, 6-8 pm), where you will be able to speak with program reps, faculty, and returning students. If you can make this event (put it in your schedule now!) perhaps their advice and guidance on the process would ease some of the stress. Hopefully, things will calm down a bit for you but if time management is a problem, you may want to seek some tips at the Connors Family Learning Center (just down the stairs and straight ahead). <3
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Hello, Kitty!
“There are four kinds of people in the world, Ms. Harper. Those who build walls. Those who protect walls. Those who breach walls. And those who tear down walls. Much of life is discovering who you are. ” P.S. Baber
Reading and writing are excellent skills to have; they are needed in a variety of careers, from journalists to teachers to best-selling novelists to publishing jobs to lawyers to ā¦ the list is almost endless. Which one to choose? You might try investigating a few of the career paths that sound interesting to you. Go on informational interviews. See if you can shadow someone for a day. Try to find a way to *do* the work: look for an internship or volunteer. Itās really difficult to narrow down career choices: the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career) can be a great resource to help you sort it out.
When you come to a fork in the road, take it. –Abraham Lincoln
That is tough to answer within Post-It length. There is a social science literature on the subject (bit.ly/bc-abuse-prevention), Many books have been written on clergy sexual abuse in the last decade, and most attempt to make suggestions for how to make things better (bit.ly/bc-clergy-sexual-abuse). A BC faculty member, Thomas Groome from the School of Theology and Ministry, was recently part of a conversation about the Pennsylvania grand jury report and responses to it (bit.ly/bc-on-point). For thoughtful Jesuit-informed discussion of this and other issues, America Magazine is a useful place to go: bit.ly/bc-america
Dining Services made the changes partly because of staffing issues, but partly because the move presented an opportunity. Some menu changes are still in the works based on feedback they received through class year Facebook pages. Watch for more news coming soon from Dining Services.
To parody the old Carnegie Hall joke: Study, study, study! More seriously, if you are wondering how to become a BC student, check out the admissions website (bit.ly/BC-admissions). They have information about BC (is it the right school for you?), the kinds of things they consider when making the decision (itās more than just grades), and different ways to visit the campus and get to know more. The Wall wishes you all the best!
Most people find clothing to be effective in hiding a body. If you mean a dead body, generally people prefer cremating or burying it (with professional help). If you’re more DIY and legality is not a concern, TV and films suggest many possibilities, including open burning, acid bath, going overboard, and the frequently ineffective shallow grave. Need more info? Browse the GT3170 section in the library to learn more about the death customs of various cultures.
