how do I ask someone to go on a Date? Random person BTW.
If it’s someone who’s interested in you it almost doesn’t matter what you say. But I suggest being direct. “I think you’re great! Would you like to go out on a date with me to do X?”. Be prepared to take “no” for an answer. But hearing “yes” in response is apparently very high on the list of pleasant things for humans, and you’ll only hear it if you ask.
Am I cut out for a job in scientific research if I think reading scientific papers is incredibly boring? Even if I’m interested in the subject, I just can’t get through/understand the papers.
This is a question that ultimately only you will know the answer to, but you can ask some others to give you information. First, I’d ask scientific researchers you know, or a professor, how they feel about reading scientific papers and if you lack of interest resonates with them. Then, I would recommend finding out if there are tips to reading. Maybe the not understanding the papers is making you not interested and some reading tips from those professors (or some librarians – they are at the reference desk and love to talk about this sort of thing!) might help. Then you will have more information to decide what you want to do, and what you are passionate about.
Ask the questions you are curious about. Do you want to know career path, advice on goal setting, how to balance work and life, how to live meaningfully in work and otherwise? What do you want to learn? Networking is about building connections and will serve you, but also, even if you don’t get a job from it, you can still learn and build relationships.
As a wall, I don’t actually eat. Still, the newish (2020) release from Cornell Orchards, NY73 ” Pink Luster”, bred for its “bright pink-red skin, crisp texture and juiciness” sounds very appealing.
No, can you believe it, my relationship with The Lobby Door is my very first (and maybe forever) serious one. I’m so glad I got up the courage to take the first step.
It’s very hard to pick sides in a quarterback drama. It’s also really hard to know which spectacular college players will make good NFL quarterbacks. I wish both of them well in their new homes.
If I become rich and famous one day, can I adopt a bunny? [drawing of bunny with clouds around it]
Wealth and fame are not pre-requisites for bunny adoption! As long as you do your research about proper care, diet, and enrichment, a bunny can be a great companion. It’s pretty different from adopting a dog or a cat, but still completely within reach if you’re well-prepared. House Rabbit Network is an excellent resource to learn more about adopting a bun.
I need some new friends. Who wants friends? ans. here [drawing of arrow]
ALL EYES HERE! Seems like we have a lot of you who haven’t found your peeps yet, and it is hard, I know. I am putting a call out to all BC students to try and include some new people in your lives, be brave, ask someone to go have lunch or join your activity. It is a small but oh so powerful way to make the world better.
First of all, I’m sorry they said no! If you’d rather be at BC, perhaps you can transfer. What I love: how upstanding BC is: a real wall value. BC is serious about its Jesuit social values, esp. regarding poverty.
ALL EYES HERE! Seems like we have a lot of you who haven’t found your peeps yet, and it is hard, I know. I am putting a call out to all BC students to try and include some new people in your lives, be brave, ask someone to go have lunch or join your activity. It is a small but oh so powerful way to make the world better.
Even if you have all the top grades and your application is excellent, it is still not a sure thing. That’s just the reality in a setting where so many qualified students apply. I hope you wind up somewhere awesome, even if it isn’t here.
My library helpers, some of whom are grad students in library science at Simmons, are sort of my interns. But I’ll talk to my library helpers about this intriguing idea.