
Real answer: when looking for love is the last thing on your mind and it’s kinda inconvenient.

Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library

Mistakes happen and are part of growing up and discovering who you are. The most thing is that you shouldn’t have to make big decisions alone. BC has several resources available to help you, such as the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career), Center for Student Wellness (bit.ly/BCStudentWell), or the Academic Advising Center (bit.ly/BC-academic-advising). If you need help finding other resources, I recommend talking to one of our friendly library staff at O’Neill or one of our other libraries (library.bc.edu)

Great question! I suggest you contact the Office of Student Involvement (bc.edu/osi) or the Campus Activities Board
(https://bc.campuslabs.com/engage/organization/cab) and ask if a rapper could be booked to come perform at BC.

My guess is stress. But, if you’re experiecing sadness every night, you deserve some support. BC Counseling Services (https://bit.ly/BCUCSOptions) is a great resource– start with telling them this question and go from there. I for one want you to be happy and thriving.

Perpetually lonely is not good. I highly recommend BC Counseling Services (https://bit.ly/BCUCSOptions) to get some support. But, I can say, don’t lose hope. Loneliness is not a permanent state, you will overcome this.

The good thing that’s also scary is that you get to decide what your life is about, and it’s totally OK to not have it all figured out. I’m a library wall, so maybe you’d like to read some of the many many attempts to answer your question: https://bit.ly/436GxoG


Just be yourself and have patience. If love is meant to work out, it will! As singer Doris Day said, “Que Sera Sera” (Whatever will be, will be).
Looks like other friends got to this first and said the same thing: being yourself is always a wonderful starting place.

I don’t really eat or play games, so I think maybe I’d go with bacon so I could have little snacks available for visitors. But I encourage you to embrace moderation. Endless amounts of either of those can be unhealthy, but a bit of each sounds pretty awesome.