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Why do people stigmatize cutting as one of the many self-injury behaviors? Why can’t that just be embraced as a neutral behavior? Who says that cutting should be pathologized? Hmm…

If you’re cutting, I do recommend getting help, and that’s not because I think it’s morally bad. Developing alternative less harmful coping strategies to dealing with emotional pain can be difficult but ultimately more lasting and effective. Cutting can leave lasting physical impacts in physical or emotional scarring. It can also become addictive as a result of the physical and emotional responses. IOW, it can often dull or distract from emotional pain temporarily… but the pain returns, doesn’t it? And there are other ways to get beyond that pain.

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Hi wall I’m seriously wondering…how can I become a human assistant? I love answering ppl’s questions and responding to their random thoughts. This job is like being a secret agent in the BC universe, which is sooooo cool!!!!!! I’d be super happy if applying to be a can be real! Also I speak Mandarin so I’ll be able to do some translation work :)

Hmm… If I had a chin, I’d be rubbing it thoughtfully. Meanwhile, I’ve been hearing rumors that a young cousin of mine, the Question Wall, might visit sometime later this spring. Watch this space for developments!

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Hey wall! Can we have Alpaca visit the library too? We have them occasionally visiting different colleges and departments here from abroad! https://www.theoxfordblue.co.uk/2020/03/05/photo-story-alpacas-at-trinity/

Oooh, alpacas! They are so much fun. But alpacas are outdoor animals, and the outdoors is beyond the scope of this wall (and most walls for that matter). I’ll seek out the advice of some fence colleagues and see what’s possible. If can manage transportation, there is this: bit.ly/VisitAlpacas
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征婚信息男178(厘米), 戴眼镜 喜欢玩游戏 穿短裤，拖鞋, 感兴趣+ Nizih?? 610

征婚信息男178(厘米), 戴眼镜 喜欢玩游戏 穿短裤，拖鞋, 感兴趣+ Nizih?? 610 [Lonely hearts ad, Male, 178cm, wears glasses, likes to play games, wears shorts and slippers. If you are interested please contact Nizihan 610]
征婚信息男178(厘米), 戴眼镜 喜欢玩游戏 穿短裤，拖鞋, 感兴趣+ Nizih?? 610 [Lonely hearts ad, Male, 178cm, wears glasses, likes to play games, wears shorts and slippers. If you are interested please contact Nizihan 610]

I would suppose there are other, more effective venues for a lonelyhearts posting. I hope you find a friend. I like the idea of slippers, and if I had feet I’d probably wear them myself, since I’m an interior wall and don’t get out much.

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Abortion is not murder. To have children is, and worse. [Response: That would be true if you assume life isn’t worth living, which unfortunately sometimes I agree with]

Abortion is not murder. To have children is, and worse. [Response: That would be true if you assume life isn't worth living, which unfortunately sometimes I agree with]
Abortion is not murder. To have children is, and worse. [Response: That would be true if you assume life isn’t worth living, which unfortunately sometimes I agree with]

I’m sorry one of you sometimes think life isn’t worth living, and I’m also sorry one of you thinks having children is akin to murder, because you were a child once. (We all were.) I hope you’re both able to find people to talk to when you find yourself sliding into those feelings. If friends or family aren’t available, or you don’t feel comfortable having that conversation with them, you can always talk to someone confidentially at BC Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling).