Why is the world such a cold, dark place? ?

Why is the world such a cold, dark place? ?
Why is the world such a cold, dark place? ?

There are cold, dark parts & times and warm, sunny parts & times. I’m sorry you’re experiencing the cold & dark. If this is literally about winter… sigh, yes. The days are short and cold, and I feel the chill in the lobby as the doors open, and miss the evening summer sun. If this is metaphorical, and you’re emotionally in a cold, dark place, consider contacting BC Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling), who can help you see that these states are temporary, and/or refer you to more help if you need it.

How do you tell someone I love them?

How do you tell someone I love them?
How do you tell someone I love them?

Careful, if you want *me* to tell them you love them, you may end up with the same problem as Christian de Neuvillette in the play (and film, 1990 and 2022) Cyrano de Bergerac. IOW, use your own words or else risk them falling in love with the person whose words you borrow.

School sucks!

School sucks!
School sucks!

Okay, yes, sometimes it does. But it shouldn’t be that way all the time. I hope you find classes that excite you and make you think, activities and companions for your free time, and your own space in the library. If there are no positives in your school experience, I would suggest talking to your advisor – you may need a change of direction.

Humming?

Is humming when seeing a pretty woman as act of sexual harassment?
Is humming when seeing a pretty woman as act of sexual harassment?

Pretty much. It’s calling attention to the fact that you’re thinking sexually about a stranger in public. Going over and saying hello is much more appropriate if you’re interested. Otherwise, keep it to yourself.

Capitalism

I can't do this for much longer anymore :( Capitalism is an evil virus of Satan and it's infected my soul
I can’t do this for much longer anymore 🙁 Capitalism is an evil virus of Satan and it’s infected my soul

I’m sorry you’re suffering. When the world tries to turn people’s intrinsic worth to extrinsic value, a person’s own sense of self-worth can suffer. I recommend spending time with friends, nature, or whatever recharges you, and reflect on how you can find a sense of purpose that’s higher than what an organization assigns to your labor and time.

Anxiety

I've suffered for anxiety and it goes along with me cycle. After six months-1 year, anxiety comes to find me again. These days are another turn for it and I'm overwhelmed. I've called for BC counseling for 3 times but everytime there is no appointment left and I don't have much time for counseling. What should I do? Sometimes, I tell my feelings to my boyfriend, but he is also a kind of overwhelmed about me and overwhelmed by me
I’ve suffered for anxiety and it goes along with me cycle. After six months-1 year, anxiety comes to find me again. These days are another turn for it and I’m overwhelmed. I’ve called for BC counseling for 3 times but everytime there is no appointment left and I don’t have much time for counseling. What should I do? Sometimes, I tell my feelings to my boyfriend, but he is also a kind of overwhelmed about me and overwhelmed by me
It seems like I'm bothering others but I can't even take take care of myself. What can I do to feel better and make my boyfriend feel better? He is always taking care of me but I can see he is tired sometimes. No one can stand for loved one's anxiety attack...
It seems like I’m bothering others but I can’t even take take care of myself. What can I do to feel better and make my boyfriend feel better? He is always taking care of me but I can see he is tired sometimes. No one can stand for loved one’s anxiety attack…

Your boyfriend sounds like he is trying hard, but he probably doesn’t have the training to work with you on this issue. I recommend trying again to work with University Counseling – you could ask for a 15 minute triage phone appointment to see how they can find a way to get you to talk with someone. More info about different appt. options: bit.ly/BCUCSOptions